How to manage jealousy in a relationship. Before bringing in another girl, it's important to know how to talk and how to argue with your partner.
----- Inner work
Jealousy comes from our own insecurities, not what your partner is doing.
Remember that you are unique and that no one can give your partner what you have to offer. Even if someone else is better looking or richer than you, you might be kinder or more caring. Never undervalue what you bring to your relationship.
If you feel triggered in the moment, ask yourself, why are you having threesomes? Use your reasons for wanting to have a threesome as a mantra to bring you back to peace.
For the long term, figure out what triggers you and why. If you feel insecure around someone who has bigger boobs that you practice more self love.
----- How can you make your partner less jealous?
Start slow. Don’t just throw them into the deep end with threesome.
Experiment with small things like talking about other people and what you find attractive in them.
Consent-fully flirt with other people. Mini steps will build trust.
When your partner sets a boundary, keep the boundary. Over stepping boundaries is a sure way to lose your partners trust.
Help your partner feel better about their insecurities. “Babe, I love your boobs your nipples are so perky.” "To be honest, the girls I’ve been with who had massive tits, rarely had perky nipples and I find perky nipples way more attractive than big boobs."
Be considerate and respectful when interacting with other girls. Give at least 50% attention to your girlfriend. During the threesome always keep her involved.
----- Boundaries
If you’ve tried inner work and something is really bothering you create a boundary and tell your partner what’s making you upset.
If your partner can’t keep your boundaries thats a red flag. 🚩 It may be better to let go of someone than to continue feeling heart ache over something you’ve repeatedly said you are uncomfortable with.
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