Anyone that has been in a toxic relationship knows the feeling of searching for clues and answers to fix the relationship.  In this episode we explore the many tried tactics people in relationships with narcissists have used in attempts to change their relationship for the better.  We take a deeper look at the reasons their attempts have failed and how some are worse than others.  What behaviors do affect the narcissist, and are they really effective in the way we intend them to be?  Or are our attempts to change the relationship futile? Is it possible that trying to fix these relationships can actually make things worse?