People along the Dark Triad love to define others in a way that makes their inner world more tolerable. If you are in a toxic relationship with someone like this, you will be incorrectly defined, not as you are, but as they want to see you.  What happens when we begin to tune into their definitions of us instead of tuning into our truest, highest self?  This can set off an identity mindset that restricts your fullest potential. In this episode we look at the internal programming that results from an environment of constant, inconsistent consequences. Breaking down these rules can be difficult, but it is the programming that keeps you trapped.