There’s something deeply sacred about pouring your life into your children—even when it’s messy, exhausting, and far from picture-perfect. In this heartfelt conversation with Abbie Halberstadt, we talk about the high calling of motherhood and why it’s worth investing in, even when the fruit takes years to see. From cultural messages that dismiss the value of family life to the myth that good parenting guarantees easy outcomes, Abbie offers gentle wisdom, honest stories, and so much encouragement for moms in every season. If you’ve ever questioned whether the hard work is worth it, this one will remind you just how meaningful it really is.

Family trip to Hawaii and what travel looks like with kids of all ages

Why Abbie’s new book You Bet Your Stretch Marks speaks to weary moms

The cultural narrative that says motherhood is misery—and Abbie’s response

Toddler chaos, twin struggles, and the hope that came years later

Letting go of formulas and trusting God with the outcome

When parenting teens and adults doesn’t look like you imagined

Speaking truth with grace—why personal experience isn’t a prerequisite for offering wisdom

Balancing littles and bigs—Abbie’s top tips for rhythms that work

Thoughts on “me time,” rest, and what really recharges a mom

Personality-driven homemaking—permission to do what fits you

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Listen to Abbie’s previous appearances on Simple Farmhouse Life:

- Episode 247: Breaking Down Popular Narratives in Motherhood

- Episode 197: Be a Countercultural Mom: Finding Joy, Peace, and Purpose in All Seasons of Motherhood

- Episode 112: Getting it all Done, Setting Priorities, Rebelling Against Mediocre Motherhood

- Episode 80: Chatting potty training, baby sleep, overwhelm and seasons of life with Abbie

Check out Abbie’s books:

- Preorder You Bet Your Stretch Marks

- Hard is Not the Same Thing as Bad

- M is for Mama

Grab Abbie’s free resources:

- A Seven-Time Mama’s Best Tips for Sleep-Training Babies

- The Penny Reward System eBook

- The Gentleness Challenge eBook

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