Recruiting Conversations

3 Things To Learn From Dating That Will Make You A Better Recruiter


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Today, we're diving into a fun yet insightful comparison between recruiting and dating. Stay with me, and you'll see how these two are more alike than you think!

Episode Breakdown

00:00 - 00:30 - Welcome and introduction to the concept of recruiting being similar to dating.

00:31 - 02:29 - Richard shares humorous insights on dating and recruiting, emphasizing the craziness of both processes.

02:30 - 04:29 - The challenges of recruiting, similar to the effort and energy required in dating.

04:30 - 06:29 - Transitioning from being a salesperson to a relationship builder in recruiting.

06:30 - 08:29 - The importance of doing research before reaching out, much like preparing for a date.

08:30 - 10:29 - The initial phone call as the first date, focusing on building a relationship rather than hard selling.

10:30 - 12:29 - Setting up further meetings based on mutual interest and value alignment.

12:30 - 14:29 - The dangers of trying to "marry" on the first date and the importance of building trust over time.

14:30 - 16:29 - Using a phone script that focuses on making a connection rather than pushing an opportunity.

16:30 - 18:00 - The importance of pursuing recruits with integrity and maintaining honesty throughout the process.

Key Takeaways

  1. Dating Analogy: Treat recruiting like dating – build relationships and trust over time.
  2. Initial Contact: Approach the first conversation as a chance to get to know each other, not to close a deal.
  3. Integrity and Value: Pursue recruits with integrity, focusing on their interests and building a genuine connection.

Remember, the best recruiters and leaders build strong relationships based on trust and mutual respect. Apply these dating principles to your recruiting strategy, and watch your success grow.

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Recruiting ConversationsBy Richard Milligan, Recruiting Coach

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