In this final episode of our “What I Wish I Knew” series, we’re taking a step back to reflect on advocacy—what it’s looked like for us over the years, what’s changed, and what we wish we understood earlier.

We talk honestly about the emotional weight of advocating for our kids with Down syndrome, the tension of speaking up in systems that don’t always listen, and the growth that comes from learning to trust your instincts.

From early parenting moments to IEP meetings and navigating social media, this conversation explores the complexity of advocacy—how it evolves, where it gets messy, and why it’s never just one moment, but a lifelong process.

We also dig into how advocacy has shifted in the age of social media—the connection it brings, but also the pressure, comparison, and confusion around what it’s supposed to look like.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, unsure, or alone in advocating for your child, this episode offers perspective, honesty, and encouragement.

• Why advocacy is unavoidable as a parent of a child with Down syndrome
• Learning to trust your gut—even when “experts” disagree
• The emotional reality of speaking up and pushing back
• How advocacy evolves over time and gets more complex
• Social media: connection, pressure, and comparison
• Redefining what advocacy actually looks like

Advocacy isn’t about doing more or being louder—it’s about staying grounded in your “why,” trusting your instincts, and showing up for your child over time.

What We CoverKey Takeaway

🎧 More on Advocacy

• Episode 101: Jalondra Davis on Race, Disability, & Advocacy
  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lucky-few/id1349646917?i=1000508421336

• Episode 262: 45 Years of Advocacy — A Conversation with Kandi Pickard
  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lucky-few/id1349646917?i=1000660264316

• Episode 17: Self Advocacy — Down Syndrome in DC (with Kayla McKeon)
  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lucky-few/id1349646917?i=1000425139176

• Episode 172: Defining Ableism, Allyship & Advocacy + Redefining “Inclusion” (with Priya Lalvani)
  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lucky-few/id1349646917?i=1000574499987

• Episode 256: Celebrating Motherhood, Advocacy, & Community (with Black Down Syndrome Association)
  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lucky-few/id1349646917?i=1000654745623

• Throwback: Unlearning the Advocacy Language
  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lucky-few/id1349646917?i=1000504975552

Let’s Keep the Conversation Going

Are you using functional medicine with your child—or just starting to look into it? Feeling overwhelmed or unsure where to begin? We’d love to hear from you.

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