What if the version of you that’s always “good,” agreeable, and holding it all together… isn’t actually you? In this episode, I sit down with Maggie Nick, founder of Camp Lovable, to unpack the deep conditioning so many women carry around being liked, chosen, and “enough.” We talk about people-pleasing, nervous system safety, and why hustling for your worth keeps you stuck. Maggie breaks down the psychology in a way that actually lands, helping you feel seen, safe, and human. If you’re ready to drop the act and trust yourself again, this one’s for you.

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Topics Discussed:

→ What is Good Girl conditioning

→ How to stop people pleasing

→ Why do I seek approval

→ How to feel safe being yourself

→ How to build self worth

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Timestamps: 

→ 00:00:00 - Introduction

→ 00:01:22 - Maggie’s Mental Health Journey 

→ 00:03:53 - Defining The “Good Kid”

→ 00:05:33 - Birth Order 

→ 00:09:56 - Kelly The Chameleon 

→ 00:12:43 - Inherited Parenting Habits 

→ 00:16:47 - Understanding Shame

→ 00:20:46 - Curious Not Critical 

→ 00:24:01 - Checking In

→ 00:29:42 - Apologizing To Your Child 

→ 00:32:26 - Boundaries 

→ 00:34:35 - Check Your Expectations 

→ 00:36:16 - Stand By Them

→ 00:38:26 - Being Impressive 

→ 00:44:18 - Unconditional Love 

→ 00:48:51 - Building Trust 

→ 00:54:04 - Intuitive Children 

→ 00:57:50 - The Heart Smile Board  

→ 01:02:58 - Fight, Flight, Fawn, Freeze 

→ 01:07:47 - Healing “Good Kids”

→ 01:13:53 - Parenting Styles 

→ 01:17:15 - Self-Talk 

→ 01:19:49 - Best Parenting Moment 

→ 01:24:55 - Phones + Social Media 

Show Links:

→ Repressed Emotions, Anxiety + Why Self-Improvement Doesn’t Exist | Joe Hudson

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