Beyond Success

#38: Success Doesn't Heal Shame: Why the Hustle Kills Emotional Strength


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Too many people are numb to life, unable to enjoy themselves and their relationships even if they've achieved great things.

The real problem isn't intelligence, skill, or drive. It's a failure to process emotions properly because they've lost the ability to use their "heart-mind." Sadly, most of us have been subtly conditioned to not even know we're approaching this all wrong.

Thankfully, you can learn how to regain clarity of your heart-mind. And once you do, and stick with it, the results are astounding.

 

In today's episode, I'll share three key ideas about your heart-mind–your mental and emotional center–so you can stop feeling frustrated, and start feeling fulfilled.

Listen now!

Show highlights include:

  • What emotional maturity really is, and why most people are left in the dark about it. (1:38)
  • Emotional intelligence "playbook" so you can know exactly how to plan your mental training. (9:32)
  • What "shutdown theory" gets wrong and how it sabotages your joy and vitality. (11:05)
  • Eye-opening reasons you pick silly fights with your loved ones. (14:38)
  • The "Bad Stoicism" that keeps high-performing leaders from actually enjoying their accomplishments. (16:11)
  • Scientific reasons why people who meditate make better decisions. (23:00)
  • How to "rewire" your emotional circuits so you can stay calm and stop getting triggered. (23:16)
  • Hidden message your heart rate is trying to tell you. How to make sure you get the message most people miss. (24:08)

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ 

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Emotional Mastery is David Tian's step-by-step system to transform, regulate, and control your emotions... so that you can master yourself, your interactions with others, and your relationships... and live a life worth living. Learn more here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/emotionalmastery 

 

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