Almost everything you’ve learned about emotional “strength” is not only a flat-out lie, but completely backwards. Toughing it out, staying in control, never letting others see you sweat - these aren’t signs of emotional strength, but emotional blindness. 

And emotional blindness comes with a steep cost that nobody deserves to pay: It leaves you empty, unfulfilled (even after milestone achievements), and depressed. 

Why? 

Because the old way of being emotionally strong is really fear in disguise. And fear is the ultimate mind-killer. 

That’s the bad news. 

The good news?

Once you realize that emotions are not distractions and are, in fact, the very point of life itself, then you can approach emotional regulation like the skill it is. And skills can be mastered - as long as you’re open to the idea. 

In today’s show, besides debunking the outdated emotional strength myth, you’ll also discover the true cost of emotional blindness and how to reconnect with your emotional world before it’s too late. 

Listen now. 

Show Highlights Include:

• A brutal, real-life story that shows you the devastating cost of emotional blindness (and how it almost cost me my life) (1:37) 
• How “toughing out” your negative emotions eviscerates your joy, your relationships, and even your ability to love and be loved (6:52) 
• 3 telltale nervous system signs that happen when you receive a snarky text that will tell you whether you’re actually emotionally strong… or just emotionally blind (9:21) 
• The “Emotional Regulation” technique used by the world’s most elite athletes that regulates your emotional system instead of being hijacked by it (11:19) 
• Why thinking of your emotions as distractions is the quickest way to feel so hollow that nothing can fill the void (not even career success, marriage, or becoming a millionaire) (17:27) 
• The underlying emotional reason behind why you micromanage your team (and how to address your emotions before your entire team quits) (23:27) 
• The simple, yet difficult 3-step process to finally stop reacting to and running away from your emotions (it will take time and patience, but nothing you achieve in life will be as meaningful as mastering this) (24:40) 

For more about David Tian, go here:

https://www.davidtianphd.com/about/ 

 

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