Mom and Mind

417: Healing from Birth Trauma to “Unveiling Motherhood: Poems of Postpartum Resilience”


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Sharing our stories helps more people process and understand their experiences. Today’s episode features another resilient guest using her difficult journey to help others. Join us to hear Talia’s story.

Talia Nepper is the proud mom of two young children and a passionate artist whose creative journey has been vital to her healing. While she works as a web developer to support her family, her art, advocacy, and mental health journey define her true passions. Her motherhood journey has been shaped by her experiences with postpartum depression, anxiety, OCD, and rage. These challenges led her to discover the transformative power of art therapy, trauma therapy, and support through local postpartum groups, family, and friends. Talia has become an outspoken advocate for mental health, with a particular focus on breaking the stigma around postpartum struggles. Recently, Talia embraced her identity within the LGBTQ+ community, further expanding her sense of self. Navigating her divorce is a process that continues to deepen her journey of self-discovery and healing. She is the author of Unveiling Motherhood: Poems of Postpartum Resilience, a collection of poetry and artwork that reflects her raw and honest experiences with pregnancy, birth, and the often-overlooked realities of postpartum life. Through her body of work, Talia hopes to offer support, solidarity, and empowerment to others facing similar struggles. 

Show Highlights:

  • Talia’s story of her first pregnancy with Liam (now 5), which was unexpected but very wanted

  • Anxiety plagued her throughout the pregnancy because of her autoimmune issues, her initial doctor’s negative outlook, and pressure to have a natural birth.

  • At 42 weeks, she FINALLY was in labor at a birthing center with a midwife.

  • As problems popped up, she was transported to a hospital, and the issues began to mount. 

  • Finally, her son was born via C-section at 10.5 lbs. and 23 in. long!

  • Sepsis, medications, no realization of what was happening, and not being seen or heard

  • Trouble bonding with her newborn son

  • Finding a therapist who was a good match and how Talia began exploring art therapy

  • Acknowledging postpartum depression, rage, anxiety, and feelings of shame and failure

  • Talia’s second pregnancy (at only 9 months postpartum) with Luna (now 3) brought difficulties in different ways.

  • Feeling resentment about a pregnancy Talia wasn’t ready for

  • The birth: a planned C-section, delivery, and postpartum anxiety after birth

  • Talia’s book is the best creative outlet for her self-expression and healing.

  • Finding healing through therapy and finally being seen and heard again

    Resources:

    Connect with Talia Nepper: Instagram, Unveiling Motherhood: Poems of Postpartum Resilience, and Facebook

    Call the National Maternal Mental Health Hotline at 1-833-TLC-MAMA or visit cdph.ca.gov

    Please find resources in English and Spanish at Postpartum Support International, or by phone/text at 1-800-944-4773. There are many free resources, like online support groups, peer mentors, a specialist provider directory, and perinatal mental health training for therapists, physicians, nurses, doulas, and anyone who wants to be more supportive in offering services. 

    You can also follow PSI on social media: Instagram, Facebook, and most other platforms.

    Visit www.postpartum.net/professionals/certificate-trainings/ for information on the grief course.  

    Visit my website, www.wellmindperinatal.com, for more information, resources, and courses you can take today!

    If you are a California resident looking for a therapist in perinatal mental health, email me about openings for private pay clients!


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    Mom and MindBy Katayune Kaeni, Psy.D., PMH-C

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