In this episode, we explore how narcissists identify and target their victims by detecting traits such as empathy, insecurity, naivety, and status. Learn how narcissists exploit these qualities to manipulate and control their victims. We look into the nature of narcissistic alliances and provide strategies to protect yourself from falling prey to their tactics. From active listening to maintaining boundaries, discover tips to guard against manipulation and preserve your emotional well-being.00:00 Introduction: Understanding Narcissist Detectors01:26 Traits Narcissists Look For in Victims02:01 Narcissists' Dynamics with Each Other05:07 Empathy: A Prime Target for Narcissists06:43 Active Listening: A Narcissist's Magnet11:00 Emotional Expression and Vulnerability20:14 The Role of Insecurity and Low Self-Esteem25:28 Success and Social Status as Narcissist Bait28:25 Codependency: A Narcissist's Dream32:02 Naivety and Gullibility: Easy Prey38:27 Protecting Yourself from Narcissistic Manipulation42:17 Guarding Your Valuable Traits