Most step-couples start out trying to simply use common sense around how to "blend" their family and create bonded relationships.

But it seems like we quickly discover that our common sense around bonding doesn't work very well and we're not getting where we really want to be.  

Unfortunately, our initial ideas around how to bond in a blended family actually might create unhealthy barriers.  Many couples unintentionally build pressure and unrealistic expectations for themselves and everyone in the family. 

In this episode you'll discover the BEST way to "cook" a blended family and how to avoid the most common missteps when it comes to bonding and "blending".

You'll Discover:

• The BEST way to "Cook" your stepfamily
• 3 'common sense' assumptions that create barriers to bonding
• How to reduce the pressure for everyone in your blended family
• Why the "Instant Family" approach doesn't work
• The secret to "blending" while honoring each unique family member
• How you can gain healthy, realistic expectations and timeframes

Resources from this Episode:

• Book Suggestion:  The Smart Stepfamily by Ron Deal
• Our discussion with Ron on the FamilyLife Blended podcast:  A Battle for your Child and a Fight for your Marriage
• Episode 15:  7 Unexpected Realities that Can Leave You Feeling Blindsided
• Episode 14:  3 Helpful Steps to Overcome Your "Perfectionist" Ideals and Disappointment

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