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Welcome to another episode of The Good Mood Clinic Podcast!
In this episode, Gemma and Justine answer a question from one of their Schema Circle members.
The question asks how can we know if our reaction to a break-up is fuelled by an abandonment schema or not? Before getting into this question, Gemma provides a review of the abandonment schema, it's origin and how it tends to play out in romantic relationships.
The 3 ways this schema plays out in romantic relationships are (1) - an avoidance pattern; (2) - a surrendering pattern and (3) - an over-compensating pattern. Gemma gives examples and explains each of these patterns.
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Send Gemma a message
Welcome to another episode of The Good Mood Clinic Podcast!
In this episode, Gemma and Justine answer a question from one of their Schema Circle members.
The question asks how can we know if our reaction to a break-up is fuelled by an abandonment schema or not? Before getting into this question, Gemma provides a review of the abandonment schema, it's origin and how it tends to play out in romantic relationships.
The 3 ways this schema plays out in romantic relationships are (1) - an avoidance pattern; (2) - a surrendering pattern and (3) - an over-compensating pattern. Gemma gives examples and explains each of these patterns.
Support the show
🎁 Dating With Insight - FREE Guide
🩷 Love Wisely Priority list - we start April 16
💛 Access Elevate You Worth: Self-Worth Healing Bundle
Connect with Me
📩[email protected] 🌐 Website: drgemmagladstone.com
📷 Instagram: @drgemmagladstone
🚩 The Red Flag Project - your ultimate guide to red flags! Get Instant Access
🌻 Support the Podcast
Love the show? Help us keep going with a monthly contribution: Support here

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