In today’s episode, I’m talking about how my homesteading worries have shifted over the years. From worrying about..

…this is a conversation about growth, permission, perspective, and how things change.

If you’ve ever stressed over whether you were doing enough (or too much!), doing it fast enough, doing it the “right” way, or wondering what’s next, this one’s for you. Because while the internet loves to scream about what you should be doing, your actual life (and sanity!) might be asking for something totally different.

Let’s talk about how our fears evolve, how we adapt, and why it’s okay if your biggest homesteading worry today is very different than what it used to be.

Main topic starts at 6:53!

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There’s been a shift in the homesteading world. More and more people are finally admitting that they don’t do it all—and that’s a good thing. It’s honest. It’s refreshing. It’s real.

But what happens when that honesty turns into its own kind of performance?

In today’s episode of the Farmish Kind of Life podcast, I’m talking about the strange pressure that can build on either end of the homesteading spectrum, and how we can find the honest, grounded middle. This isn’t about hustle culture. And it’s not about giving up. It’s about building a life that works for you, and remembering to give yourself credit for it.

(Don’t miss the main topic that starts at 5:41!)

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Is it just me, or does it feel like we’re being absolutely buried in information?

In today’s episode, I share a story about a local storm that was supposed to be a big deal when it hit last week… and it totally wasn’t.

The build-up, though? That was a whole event in itself.

But this episode isn’t just about a storm that didn’t materialize. What we’re actually talking about is over-information, what it does to our brains, and why everything now feels like a crisis—even when it’s not. Whether it is storms, elections, the economy, or some other world event, we’re constantly asked to mentally live through things before they even happen. And the world does it under the guise of safety and preparing, but if we’re honest, I think it’s really just about performing and panic.

I’m not saying don’t be safe or smart. I’m not saying don’t prepare. I’m saying maybe we need to shut the tabs, trust ourselves a little more, and live our actual lives again. Join me today for a spice-tastic conversation about how I’m kinda over being overinformed. (Main topic starts at 4:38)

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So you want to grow your own food, but every time you search “how to start a garden,” you end up buried under 47 tabs of advice that makes it sound like you need a degree, a greenhouse, and three years of soil samples before you can put a tomato plant in the ground. Can’t we just find out about easy gardening… for actual beginners?

Let’s take a breath.

This is Stupid Simple Gardening—for real people who want to grow real food without losing their minds.

Yes, there’s a lot you could learn about gardening. (And you will, as you go.) But if you’re the kind of person where too much information leaves you stuck in planning paralysis, you really aren’t helped by another 100-item checklist. You need the bare minimum to get started—without shame, stress, or Pinterest-worthy perfection. That is how beginners start gardening!

Whether you’ve got five acres or one cracked tote on a porch, this series will help you grow something. We’ll cover:

And if you mess your garden up? Guess what. You’re officially a gardener now. Welcome to the club.

Gardening isn’t about doing it perfectly. It’s about showing up, getting your hands dirty, and learning what works (and what doesn’t) one season at a time. You don’t need to know everything today—you just need to plant something. So take a breath, grab a shovel, and let this be the year you grow something real.

Whether you’re planting one tomato plant in a five gallon pail by your garage or filling a backyard with rows, this gardening series for beginners is here to help you start where you are—with what you have—and remind you that good food doesn’t require a perfect plan.

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So I posted a photo of the inside of my barn recently. A random busy day. Mid-project. Chaotic mess. It wasn’t staged. It wasn’t curated. It wasn’t meant to impress anyone.

But ohhh buddy, the internet had thoughts.

Some people saw that photo and felt seen. They messaged me saying “thank you,” or “this made me feel normal,” or “this is exactly what my barn/kitchen/life looks like right now and I needed to know I wasn’t the only one.”

And then there were the others. The ones who called me lazy. Disgraceful. A terrible homesteader. (One person actually called me a “typical Amish slob,” which I’m still not sure how to process. Impressive creativity, I guess?)

So in today’s episode, I’m talking about what it means to be real online. Because this whole messy barn thing?

It wasn’t about the barn.

It was about the fact that we live in a world where it feels risky to tell the truth. Where saying “this is what my life looks like right now” might get you support… or it might get you absolutely roasted by strangers who think they know better.

I think we need more “messy barn moments.” Not just barns, either. Kitchens with dishes stacked. Gardens with weeds. Lives in mid-process. Because when we share those honest pieces of our lives, we create space for other people to breathe.

So if your metaphorical barn is messy today, friend? You’re in good company. Keep showing up. Keep doing the work. And if you feel like sharing the messy middle of your journey with the rest of us—go for it.

That’s where the good stuff lives anyway.

Don’t miss the main topic, starting at time stamp 4:26

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As life gets busier, especially on a homestead, it’s easy to fall into the trap of taking on all responsibilities, believing that it’s more efficient. And sometimes it is. But this mindset can lead to significant issues when unforeseen events occur.

Today I’m tackling the weighty issue of being the one who does everything. The recent very unexpected passing of my father-in-law highlighted the challenges of carrying too much responsibility within a household. Today I’m talking about the importance of sharing tasks, teaching others, and recognizing the unseen burdens we often take on.

This episode will not only encourage you to consider the implications of doing it all alone, but I hope it will also make you think about the potential isolation that “doing it all” it can create. Let’s learn how to foster collaboration and ensure that everyone is equipped to step in when needed, because the truth is, you can’t be the system and the backup plan at the same time.

This episode is a heartfelt reminder that life is unpredictable, and we must prepare ourselves and our loved ones for the unexpected. By sharing the weight of responsibilities, we create a more resilient family and community. 

Don’t miss the main topic that starts at time stamp 5:50!

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“I wish things were like they used to be.”

In today’s 309th episode of the Farmish Kind of Life podcast, I dig into the nostalgia of “the good old days” and examine our longing for a simpler past. Whether it’s the warmth of family gatherings, the simplicity of life without modern distractions, or the stronger sense of community, nostalgia often paints a picture of a time that seems idyllic compared to the chaos of today. But can we truly recreate those simpler times in 2025? And how accurate is our rose-colored view of the good ol’ days, anyway?

If you’re feeling the weight of modern life, I encourage you to let go of whatever guilt you have about not living up to an idealized version of the past. Instead, find balance—it is TOTALLY okay to embrace the conveniences of today while honoring the values that matter most to us.

We can’t go back in time, but we can adapt and create a life that reflects the best of both worlds.  Don’t miss the main topic that starts at timestamp 7:37!

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Remember those carefree days of childhood when you dreamed of being in charge of your own life? Well, the reality of adulthood can be quite different. Sometimes it’s not as easy when someone isn’t “the boss of you”.

“No one is coming to save you,” is a mantra often echoed in the prepping community, but I’ve found it to be one that applies to everyday life as well. It’s a wake-up call to acknowledge that if we want to see change in our life, we must be the ones to make it happen. Today I’m challenging you to stop waiting for motivation, which can be fleeting, and instead focus on the discipline required to take action.

I’ve recently been stuck in a lot of “I’m gonnas” that never move forward, and I’ve had to work through that with some honesty. So today I’m giving practical steps to overcome procrastination and get unstuck. Let’s talk about making a decision, breaking down goals into ultra-manageable steps, and setting deadlines. By simplifying tasks, we can avoid the overwhelm that often leads to inaction.

Whether it’s making your own vanilla extract, cleaning out the garage, or finally remembering to call that family member or friend, today I’m encouraging you to take that first step, however small, to build momentum on the things you want to do.

With a little discipline and planning, we can turn our “I’m gonna” into “I did.” Don’t miss the main topic that starts at time stamp 7:55!

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Has your passion for homesteading shifted?

In episode 307 of the Farmish Kind of Life podcast, I’m talking about the evolving landscape of homesteading. Once defined by an all-consuming passion, some homesteaders are now experiencing a shift. It’s got them wondering if their excitement has faded or if they’ve simply moved on to other interests.

Today I’m sharing my thoughts on why this change is happening, while reflecting on the pandemic’s influence and the natural ebb and flow of enthusiasm. I also dig into the complexities of identity, community, and personal growth within the world of homesteading.

Is homesteading just a phase? Or is it possible to embrace it as a part of a broader lifestyle? Let’s redefine what homesteading means to us and how to find joy in the journey, even when the spark feels different.

Whether you’re a seasoned homesteader or just starting out, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement for anyone looking to find balance in their life. Tune in and discover how to embrace the journey of lifesteading—building a life that includes more than just chickens, sourdough, and tomatoes.

The main topic starts at 7:54. Hope you find today’s episode helpful!

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Small but mighty is definitely a thing. 

In today’s episode, I share five tiny (but powerful!) phrases I’ve decided to live by in 2025. These short and sweet phrases, written on my office whiteboard, have given me clarity, perspective, and sanity as I wander through what this year has already set on my plate.

Today I’m talking about:

These phrases are itty bitty but they pack a powerful punch. I hope you find them helpful in your own journey this year. Main topic starts at 8:59!

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