We live in a world obsessed with making everything easier. Faster. More convenient. From drive-thrus and pre-chopped veggies to content that disappears in 15 seconds or less, we’ve been sold the idea that “easy” and “fast” equals better.

We’re saving time to fit more in to our day… so why do we still always feel like we’re behind?

And if easy and fast gets the job done, why are we left feeling so… empty?

In this episode, I talk about why the satisfying stuff in life—real food, real work, real connection—is often the hard stuff. And how doing things the long way, the messy way, or the “I-can’t-believe-I-still-do-this-manually” way might actually be the secret to feeling more grounded and human.

Today I’m talking about choosing the version of life that does fill you up. Because this is not about doing everything the hard way. It’s about doing the right things in a way that actually matters.

Main topic starts at 5:55!

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Ever set up a perfect system to keep your life or homestead running smoothly—only to wake up one day and realize it’s completely fallen apart?

Yeah. Me too.

In this week’s episode of the Farmish Kind of Life podcast, I’m sharing three mistakes I’ve made lately when it comes to routines, maintenance, and keeping the chaos in check—because real life happens. Sometimes we get busy. Sometimes we hit emotional survival mode. And sometimes, we just need a reset.

This is your (and my) gentle (but honest) kick in the pants to reassess what’s working, what’s not, and how to pull things back together—without shame.

Check out the main topic that starts at 6:24!

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I don’t care what you call this kind of life you’re living—homesteading, the farmish life, the simple life, whatever. But I’m here to tell you today that there are a lot of things you don’t have to do in order to be part of the club.

In this episode, we break down 5 things you don’t have to do to claim the homesteading life as your own. Because this thing we’re doing isn’t a competition—it’s real life. And real life is not a checklist.

Whether you’re doing all the simple life things or just a few here and there, you belong here. This life is about doing what works for you.

(After our lifestead updates, the main topic starts at 7:56!)

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I am firmly in my midlife homesteading era. Maybe you are, too? If you’re not (and haven’t been yet)… you’ll get there.

In this episode, we’re talking about the realities of midlife on the homestead. When the homestead hustle is done (or different). When you’re juggling less kids/adult kids, aging bodies, aging parents, and shifting priorities. When you’re wondering what still belongs in this season as a homesteader.

The rhythm of your life changes, but I rarely hear people talk about how to wrap your head around those changes. That’s why I’m digging into it today.

Lots of lifestead updates today! The main topic starts at 10:18

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In today’s episode, I’m talking about how my homesteading worries have shifted over the years. From worrying about..

…this is a conversation about growth, permission, perspective, and how things change.

If you’ve ever stressed over whether you were doing enough (or too much!), doing it fast enough, doing it the “right” way, or wondering what’s next, this one’s for you. Because while the internet loves to scream about what you should be doing, your actual life (and sanity!) might be asking for something totally different.

Let’s talk about how our fears evolve, how we adapt, and why it’s okay if your biggest homesteading worry today is very different than what it used to be.

Main topic starts at 6:53!

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There’s been a shift in the homesteading world. More and more people are finally admitting that they don’t do it all—and that’s a good thing. It’s honest. It’s refreshing. It’s real.

But what happens when that honesty turns into its own kind of performance?

In today’s episode of the Farmish Kind of Life podcast, I’m talking about the strange pressure that can build on either end of the homesteading spectrum, and how we can find the honest, grounded middle. This isn’t about hustle culture. And it’s not about giving up. It’s about building a life that works for you, and remembering to give yourself credit for it.

(Don’t miss the main topic that starts at 5:41!)

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Is it just me, or does it feel like we’re being absolutely buried in information?

In today’s episode, I share a story about a local storm that was supposed to be a big deal when it hit last week… and it totally wasn’t.

The build-up, though? That was a whole event in itself.

But this episode isn’t just about a storm that didn’t materialize. What we’re actually talking about is over-information, what it does to our brains, and why everything now feels like a crisis—even when it’s not. Whether it is storms, elections, the economy, or some other world event, we’re constantly asked to mentally live through things before they even happen. And the world does it under the guise of safety and preparing, but if we’re honest, I think it’s really just about performing and panic.

I’m not saying don’t be safe or smart. I’m not saying don’t prepare. I’m saying maybe we need to shut the tabs, trust ourselves a little more, and live our actual lives again. Join me today for a spice-tastic conversation about how I’m kinda over being overinformed. (Main topic starts at 4:38)

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So you want to grow your own food, but every time you search “how to start a garden,” you end up buried under 47 tabs of advice that makes it sound like you need a degree, a greenhouse, and three years of soil samples before you can put a tomato plant in the ground. Can’t we just find out about easy gardening… for actual beginners?

Let’s take a breath.

This is Stupid Simple Gardening—for real people who want to grow real food without losing their minds.

Yes, there’s a lot you could learn about gardening. (And you will, as you go.) But if you’re the kind of person where too much information leaves you stuck in planning paralysis, you really aren’t helped by another 100-item checklist. You need the bare minimum to get started—without shame, stress, or Pinterest-worthy perfection. That is how beginners start gardening!

Whether you’ve got five acres or one cracked tote on a porch, this series will help you grow something. We’ll cover:

And if you mess your garden up? Guess what. You’re officially a gardener now. Welcome to the club.

Gardening isn’t about doing it perfectly. It’s about showing up, getting your hands dirty, and learning what works (and what doesn’t) one season at a time. You don’t need to know everything today—you just need to plant something. So take a breath, grab a shovel, and let this be the year you grow something real.

Whether you’re planting one tomato plant in a five gallon pail by your garage or filling a backyard with rows, this gardening series for beginners is here to help you start where you are—with what you have—and remind you that good food doesn’t require a perfect plan.

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So I posted a photo of the inside of my barn recently. A random busy day. Mid-project. Chaotic mess. It wasn’t staged. It wasn’t curated. It wasn’t meant to impress anyone.

But ohhh buddy, the internet had thoughts.

Some people saw that photo and felt seen. They messaged me saying “thank you,” or “this made me feel normal,” or “this is exactly what my barn/kitchen/life looks like right now and I needed to know I wasn’t the only one.”

And then there were the others. The ones who called me lazy. Disgraceful. A terrible homesteader. (One person actually called me a “typical Amish slob,” which I’m still not sure how to process. Impressive creativity, I guess?)

So in today’s episode, I’m talking about what it means to be real online. Because this whole messy barn thing?

It wasn’t about the barn.

It was about the fact that we live in a world where it feels risky to tell the truth. Where saying “this is what my life looks like right now” might get you support… or it might get you absolutely roasted by strangers who think they know better.

I think we need more “messy barn moments.” Not just barns, either. Kitchens with dishes stacked. Gardens with weeds. Lives in mid-process. Because when we share those honest pieces of our lives, we create space for other people to breathe.

So if your metaphorical barn is messy today, friend? You’re in good company. Keep showing up. Keep doing the work. And if you feel like sharing the messy middle of your journey with the rest of us—go for it.

That’s where the good stuff lives anyway.

Don’t miss the main topic, starting at time stamp 4:26

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As life gets busier, especially on a homestead, it’s easy to fall into the trap of taking on all responsibilities, believing that it’s more efficient. And sometimes it is. But this mindset can lead to significant issues when unforeseen events occur.

Today I’m tackling the weighty issue of being the one who does everything. The recent very unexpected passing of my father-in-law highlighted the challenges of carrying too much responsibility within a household. Today I’m talking about the importance of sharing tasks, teaching others, and recognizing the unseen burdens we often take on.

This episode will not only encourage you to consider the implications of doing it all alone, but I hope it will also make you think about the potential isolation that “doing it all” it can create. Let’s learn how to foster collaboration and ensure that everyone is equipped to step in when needed, because the truth is, you can’t be the system and the backup plan at the same time.

This episode is a heartfelt reminder that life is unpredictable, and we must prepare ourselves and our loved ones for the unexpected. By sharing the weight of responsibilities, we create a more resilient family and community. 

Don’t miss the main topic that starts at time stamp 5:50!

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