When something goes wrong or doesn’t work the way we want, it’s way easier to blame the tool, the system, the circumstances, or other people. Right? And sometimes those things really are part of the problem.
But more often than not, we need to ask a harder question: What part of this did I contribute to?
In this episode, I’m talking about ownership, self-awareness, and the super uncomfortable (but often freeing) process of asking what role are playing in all that stuff that’s frustrating us.
From fighting with tools and farm equipment to sleep habits, daily routines, relationships, and life’s recurring annoyances, today I’m exploring why it’s so dang difficult to admit when we’re part of the problem and why doing so might actually be pretty empowering.
Why our first instinct is often to blame something outside ourselvesThe difference between blame and responsibility“Operator error” and how it applies to more than machineryPoking the bear: situations we purposely walk into and then complain about laterWhy daily habits often hold the answer to recurring problemsHow asking “What part of this is on me?” can help us move forwardBlame keeps us stuck, but ownership gives us something we can actually change.
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