If you are pulling away from him because he’s too handsome or you’re pulling away because he’s not handsome enough, ask yourself, “Okay, this is a free therapy session with a man who showed up. Let’s find out his message and let’s treat him like a good person.”

Breathe.

You don’t have to go home and wash your hair.

Just learn whatever you’re there for.

Think of it as a spiritual experience, and practice speaking to this guy you might otherwise want to shut down or dismiss.

This is where your power is: bold sharing of your actual feeling state. This is your superpower.

Can you imagine how many women in the world cannot do this—99% of them? And how many men feel pushed, shoved, and treated poorly by women? We’re not here to treat guys badly.

We’re here to find a partner, someone who gets us. And how will they get you if you don’t share what’s really going on?

The whole “high maintenance” thing is a sham. Men love high maintenance women.

There’s a big difference between being high maintenance and being dramatic, angry, or pissed off at him for everything.

That’s what he’s trying to avoid. If you tell him what you want, he can relax.

He doesn’t have to guess anymore.

Yes, it’s vulnerable. Yes, it’s facing our own wants and expectations.

And yet, the practice of gently experimenting, saying things out loud, and treating a man you don’t even see romantically as just a good person—it’s revolutionary.

You don’t even have to know why you matched.

Just let yourself be there. 

In Feminine Energy, what we’re really aiming for is finding what you’re feeling, what makes you feel good, and sharing that.

This flies in the face of everything we’ve been patterned to do around men… and we’re turning it all around, baby step by baby step.

Inside, Siren Island—my official course, community, and so much more. you’ll be invited into real Siren conversations like this one, learn transformational tools, and experience what it means to live in the power of the Modern Siren.

Here’s Siren Island:

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Love, Rori