Paula's date from Plenty of Fish goes awry and sends her on a journey of self-love and liberation.

This season we recorded all of our stories over Skype, which allowed us reach people in places we wouldn't have been able to otherwise.

This story is produced by Britney Abrahams and scored, mixed, and mastered by Miles Dotson.

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