Why do you keep repeating the same patterns… even when you know exactly where they come from?

In this powerful Tammy’s Take, Tammy Vincent breaks down one of the most misunderstood parts of healing: awareness.

Because awareness is not just understanding your childhood or knowing why you react the way you do. Real healing begins when you can catch the pattern while it’s happening.

If you’ve ever thought:

• “I know better… so why do I still do this?”
• “Why do I keep people pleasing, overthinking, shutting down, or abandoning myself?”
• “Why do I still react this way even after all the work I’ve done?”

This episode is for you.

Tammy explores how childhood dysfunction, trauma, and nervous system survival responses can turn coping strategies into what feels like personality traits. You’ll learn why intellectual awareness alone is not enough and how to begin interrupting old emotional patterns in real time.

In this episode, Tammy shares 5 practical ways to build real-time awareness, including:

✔️ How to notice what your body is trying to tell you

✔️ Why your triggers hold important clues

✔️ How to pause before automatic reactions take over

✔️ Why self-judgment keeps you stuck in survival mode

✔️ Small ways to interrupt patterns and create real change

If you grew up walking on eggshells, people pleasing, fearing conflict, overthinking, or struggling to feel emotionally safe, this conversation will help you understand why your nervous system reacts the way it does and what healing can actually look like.

Because awareness isn’t the finish line.

It’s the beginning of healing.

🎧 Listen now and start learning how to respond instead of react.

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As an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.

My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,

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In this episode of Adult Child of Dysfunction, Tammy Vincent sits down with trauma-informed therapist Scott Stolarick to explore the true complexity of trauma—and how it impacts both victims and those who cause harm.

With over 30 years of clinical experience, Scott brings a rare and powerful perspective, having worked on both sides of trauma in the correctional system and private practice. Together, Tammy and Scott unpack how trauma is not defined by the event itself, but by how it is experienced and processed—and how unresolved trauma can quietly shape behaviors, relationships, and patterns throughout life.

Scott shares a powerful analogy of trauma as a small crack in a windshield that spreads over time if left untreated, illustrating how trauma can expand into multiple areas of life if not addressed.

This conversation also dives into the role of shame, denial, and support systems in healing, and why being seen, heard, and validated is often the first step toward recovery. Most importantly, Scott emphasizes that trauma does not define you—it is only one piece of your story.

• Trauma is defined by your experience—not the event itself

• Unresolved trauma expands and impacts multiple areas of life

• Healing requires safe spaces, validation, and willingness

• Shame and denial are major barriers to recovery

• Your past influences your present—but does not define your future

• True healing comes from integrating, not avoiding, your experiences

• You are more than what happened to you

00:00 Introduction to Scott Stolarick

01:15 How Scott got into trauma work

03:30 Understanding trauma from both sides

11:15 What trauma actually is

15:50 The “windshield crack” analogy

19:00 How trauma spreads if untreated

22:00 Shame, disclosure, and healing

25:00 Trauma, patterns, and perception

31:10 Final message: Your life is a mosaic

Website: http://www.mosaicpathwaycounseling.org

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/scott-stolarick-lcpc-cctp-298734252/

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My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,

Find ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here

Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.

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What if the patterns you struggle with today… aren’t who you are?

In this episode of Tammy’s Takes, Tammy builds on her powerful conversation with David Latour to explore how growing up in dysfunction shapes your behaviors, beliefs, and identity—but doesn’t have to define your future.

If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “this is just who I am,” whether it’s anxiety, reactivity, overthinking, or difficulty trusting others, this episode will help you understand where those patterns come from—and how to start changing them.

Tammy breaks down the difference between identity and learned behavior and shares a simple, practical tool you can use right now to shift out of old patterns and into new choices.

Because you are not your past…

You are someone who adapted to it—and you can learn something new.

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As an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.

My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,

Find ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here

Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.

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In this powerful episode of Adult Child of Dysfunction, Tammy Vincent sits down with David La Torre, author of the upcoming memoir Soda, to explore what it was really like growing up in a household shaped by addiction, secrecy, and survival.

David shares raw and deeply personal stories from his childhood in suburban America, where cocaine use and chaos hid behind what looked like a “normal” life. From being a parentified child to navigating fear, shame, and isolation, his experiences highlight the emotional toll addiction takes on families—especially children.

Together, Tammy and David unpack the long-term effects of childhood trauma, including PTSD, emotional triggers, and generational patterns. They talk about what it really means to heal, how forgiveness plays a role, and why sharing your story is one of the most powerful ways to release what’s been held inside for so long.

If you’ve ever felt like no one understands what you went through, this conversation will remind you that you’re not alone—and that healing, growth, and a beautiful life are possible.

Connect with David LaTorre:

Twitter (X): https://twitter.com/David_LaTorre

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/davidlatorre

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/david_la_torre

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As an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.

My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,

Find ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here

Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.

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In this Tammy’s Takes follow-up to her conversation with relationship coach Karen Spetz, Tammy Vincent dives deeper into one of the most confusing emotional spaces in relationships — feeling “not unhappy… but not happy either.”

This episode explores why so many women find themselves stuck in relationships that feel calm but disconnected, and how nervous system patterns from childhood can keep us choosing safety over true alignment. Tammy breaks down the difference between the absence of conflict and the presence of connection, and why simply “not fighting” doesn’t always mean a relationship is healthy or fulfilling.

Building on Karen Spetz’s powerful question — “If your relationship improved, would you actually want to stay?” — Tammy guides listeners through a deeper level of self-reflection to uncover what’s really missing and what their body is trying to tell them.

Listeners will walk away with a practical 3-step clarity process to help them move out of confusion and into grounded awareness, including how to identify unmet needs, tune into their nervous system, and have honest conversations before making big decisions.

This episode is not about telling you whether to stay or leave — it’s about helping you reconnect with yourself so you can make the decision that’s truly aligned for you.

• Why “not fighting” doesn’t equal connection

• How nervous system patterns influence relationship decisions

• The hidden cost of staying in emotional neutrality

• A powerful question to uncover your true desire

• A 3-step process to move from confusion to clarity

• Why clarity comes from awareness, not pressure

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As an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.

My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,

Find ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here

Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.

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In this episode of Adult Child of Dysfunction, Tammy Vincent sits down with relationship coach Karen Spetz to explore one of the most emotionally complex questions many women face: “Should I stay or should I go?”

Karen specializes in helping women navigate this crossroads, especially during seasons of personal growth, identity shifts, and midlife transitions. Together, Tammy and Karen unpack why this question is coming up more than ever, and how evolving self-awareness, changing societal norms, and emotional needs can create a disconnect in long-term relationships.

They discuss the difference between simply coexisting and experiencing true connection, the impact of childhood patterns and communication styles, and why the absence of conflict does not equal a healthy relationship. Karen emphasizes that there is no one-size-fits-all answer — only a deeper process of self-exploration, clarity, and honest communication.

Listeners will walk away with powerful reflection questions, including how to identify what’s missing in a relationship and how to determine whether those needs can be met within it. This conversation also highlights the importance of raising your standards, reconnecting with yourself, and making decisions from a grounded place rather than fear, guilt, or urgency.

Ultimately, this episode is about empowerment — trusting yourself to make aligned decisions, whether that means staying, leaving, or redefining what your relationship looks like moving forward.

• Why more women are questioning their relationships during midlife transitions

• The difference between “not fighting” and true emotional connection

• How personal growth can create relationship misalignment

• The role of communication in every relationship challenge

• A powerful question: If your relationship improved, would you want to stay?

• Why decisions should come from clarity, not fear or guilt

• The importance of raising your standards in relationships

Website: https://abetterrelationshipcoaching.com

Podcast: https://www.abetterrelationshipcoaching.com/podcast

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As an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.

My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,

Find ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here

Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.

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What if the reason you keep falling back into the same patterns… isn’t a lack of discipline?

In this episode of Tammy’s Takes, Tammy breaks down one of the biggest misconceptions in personal growth—and why trying to “just be more disciplined” is actually keeping you stuck.

Building off her conversation with therapist Jennifer Schrappe, Tammy explains how behaviors like emotional eating, overthinking, avoidance, and procrastination aren’t failures—they’re attempts to meet an unmet need.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still can’t seem to change certain habits, this episode will help you understand why—and give you a simple, practical framework you can start using immediately.

Because real change doesn’t come from control…

It comes from understanding what’s driving the behavior in the first place.

Hey there, I’m so glad you’re here and tuning in! If this episode spoke to your heart, just know there’s even more support waiting for you.

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As an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.

My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,

Find ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here

Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.

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What if success isn’t the answer… but part of what’s keeping you stuck?

In this powerful episode of the Adult Child of Dysfunction Podcast, I sit down with therapist and Chrysalis Enterprises founder Jennifer Schrappe to explore the hidden connection between external success, food addiction, and unresolved emotional pain.

From the outside, Jennifer had everything together—but behind the scenes, she was struggling with compulsive overeating, shame, and the weight of unprocessed trauma. In this conversation, she shares her personal journey of recovery and what it really takes to break free from addictive patterns.

We dive into the deeper truth behind emotional eating, the role of childhood experiences, and why true healing doesn’t come from controlling behaviors—but from understanding the root of them.

If you’ve ever felt like you “should” be happy but still feel stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected… this episode will help you understand why.

✔ The illusion of success and why it doesn’t equal fulfillment

✔ The connection between trauma, shame, and food addiction

✔ Why emotional eating is a coping mechanism—not a failure

✔ How compulsive behaviors are rooted in the nervous system

✔ The importance of self-compassion in the healing process

✔ Why support and structure can be key in recovery

✔ How to begin breaking free from cycles of shame and guilt

You can’t out-achieve your emotional pain.

Real healing happens when you stop judging your patterns—and start understanding them.

🌐 jennifershrapi.com

📸 Instagram: @jenniferschrappelpcc

📘 Facebook: Jennifer Schrappe, MA LPCC-S

💼 LinkedIn: Jennifer Schrappe

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As an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.

My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,

Find ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here

Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.

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📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel

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What if you’re not actually self-sabotaging?

In this episode of Tammy’s Takes, we break down one of the most misunderstood patterns in personal growth—and it might completely change the way you see yourself.

Building off this week’s conversation with hypnotherapist Peter McLaughlin, Tammy dives into the truth about self-sabotage and why it’s not a sign that something is wrong with you… but a sign that your subconscious mind is trying to protect you.

If you’ve ever found yourself pulling back right when things are going well, overthinking, procrastinating, or holding yourself back without understanding why—this episode will give you a powerful reframe and a simple, practical tool you can start using immediately.

Because healing isn’t about fixing yourself…

It’s about understanding what your mind learned—and teaching it something new.

✔ Why self-sabotage is actually a protection response

✔ How your subconscious patterns are formed in childhood

✔ The real reason you hold yourself back—even when you want more

✔ A simple 3-step tool to shift patterns in real time

✔ How to start working with your nervous system instead of against it

You’re not sabotaging your life.

You’re protecting yourself based on outdated information—and you have the power to change that.

If this resonated with you and you’re ready to understand your patterns on a deeper level:

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What if your biggest struggles aren’t something to “fix”… but something to understand?

In this powerful episode of the Adult Child of Dysfunction Podcast, I sit down with certified hypnotherapist and life coach Peter McLaughlin to explore the deep connection between trauma, the subconscious mind, and the patterns that quietly run your life.

After being diagnosed with both Lyme disease and leukemia in the same day, Peter’s life took a dramatic turn—one that led him into a profound journey of healing, self-discovery, and understanding the mind-body-spirit connection.

Together, we break down how past experiences—especially childhood trauma—get stored in the subconscious and continue to shape your thoughts, behaviors, emotional responses, and even physical health.

We also dive into the truth about “self-sabotage”… and why it’s not actually sabotage at all—but a protective response from your subconscious mind that doesn’t realize the threat is no longer there.

This conversation will challenge the way you think about healing.

Because healing isn’t about fixing what’s broken…

It’s about uncovering what’s underneath.

✔ The powerful connection between the mind, body, and subconscious patterns

✔ How trauma gets stored and continues to impact your life years later

✔ Why “self-sabotage” is actually your brain trying to protect you

✔ How hypnosis works and what it really is (not what you think)

✔ The role of childhood experiences in shaping your adult behaviors

✔ Why healing requires going to the root—not just managing symptoms

✔ How shifting your perspective can completely change your life

You are not broken.

Your patterns were created for a reason—and once you understand them, you can begin to change them.

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Trials To Triumph: An Adult Child's Emotional Freedom Blueprint: Use code THRIVE25 for 75% off today. https://workshops.tammyvincent.com/offers/DSbcgrZZ/checkout

As an international inspirational speaker, NLP Practitioner, Trauma-Informed Coach, Neurofit Trainer, and Best-Selling Author, I bring both deep personal experience and professional training to the work I do. I believe in prevention, not just intervention — and use a body, mind, and spirit approach to guide others toward becoming the happiest, healthiest versions of themselves.

My holistic toolbox includes nervous system regulation, trauma-informed coaching, nutritional support, and natural healing strategies,

Find ALL THE THINGS HERE: Anything that I have to offer is right here

Did you know I also offer access to an amazing travel savings program that can help you save up to 70% on hotels, resorts, cruises, and more? Let’s compare your next upcoming itinerary and see how much you could save.

👉 Try the Trip Check: https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/trip-check

📺 Subscribe to My YouTube Channel

👉 Adult Child of Dysfunction on YouTube

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