Life is a Festival

Alex Ebert: Aspirational Masculinity for the Left


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In the aftermath of the 2024 election, as half the country celebrates and the other half mourns, Alex Ebert and I find ourselves doing what grown men often do to process complex emotions—we make a podcast about it. It's our fourth time using this particular hack for male friendship, but something feels different, more urgent this time. The exit polls reveal young men swinging dramatically rightward, and I can't help but see this through the lens of masculinity—specifically, the left's failure to provide an aspirational vision of what it means to be a man in these complicated times.

On today's show, we dive deep into why progressive spaces have become increasingly inhospitable to young men, who are drifting toward figures like Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson while the left seems to have lost its grip on the masculine imagination. Alex shares his personal journey of integrating the feminine through meditation and inner work, while we examine everything from RFK Jr.'s campaign to Bernie's legacy to the archetypal pull of Elon Musk. We're using this modern ritual—two microphones and a quiet room—to explore the very crisis of connection that makes such spaces necessary in the first place.

Alexander Ebert makes his fourth appearance on Life is a Festival, bringing his unique perspective as an award-winning artist, composer, and philosophical troubadour. Known for fronting both Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros and Ima Robot, Ebert has evolved into a penetrating cultural critic through his Bad Guru Substack. Having explored spiritual narcissism and psychedelic culture with us before, he's the perfect companion for examining these thorny questions of masculinity, power, and the possibility of healing our collective wounds.


Timestamps

  • (09:00) — Toxic vs. aspirational masculinity
  • (18:30) — Why the object-acquiring man lacks an integrated feminine
  • (28:30) — Are Bowie and Prince integrated?
  • (33:00) — The unhelpful narrative of “Boohoo white man”
  • (44:00) — RFK and Bernie Bros
  • (54:00) — Barack Obama and cool security
  • (59:00) — The power of myth
  • (1:10:00) — The allure of the unconflicted man

  • Links

    • Bad Guru | Alex Ebert | Substack
    • Bad Guru (@alex_ebert) • Instagram
    • Life is a Festival: Dunking on the New Age is Boring Now
    • Life is a Festival: A Love Letter to Earnestness
    • Life is a Festival: Healing New Age Narcissism
    • ...more
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