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Am I The Asshole? Is It Cheating If We Were on a Break?


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Have you ever wondered if you’re the asshole in your sex life and relationships? Today, Producer Erica and I are letting you know if you’re approaching asshole territory - and not the good kind. One listener hooked up with someone else while they were on a break, and now her partner says she can’t be trusted. Who’s the asshole here? Another listener wants to spice it up in the bedroom, but her husband with a kinky past sees her as a “delicate little angel.” Sounds like a case of the classic Madonna-Whore complex. What about when your partner won’t perform oral sex? Are you the asshole for craving it? We get into all this and more.


In today’s episode, you’ll learn:

  • The importance of identifying your sexual fantasies
  • How to work through ultimatums in relationships
  • Why your sex life should evolve over time

  • Show Notes:

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