Amiga, Handle Your Shit

When Raul Tapia came to America in 1969 from Barreras, a small town in Mexico, he was 18 years old, and the original plan was to work for six months and then go back. Luckily, he didn't follow his initial plan, and today, over fifty years later, he is one of the owners of a successful food service and distribution company, Tapia Brothers Co. 

After proving himself as an excellent salesman, Raul joined forces with his brothers, and they started selling products from the Los Angeles Produce Market door to door. Their operation grew, and one year later, Tapia Brothers went from selling from a truck to acquiring a 7000 square foot warehouse. Today, Tapia Brothers Co has four distribution centers and operates in eight states. 

In this special episode, I interview Raul Tapia, my father. He kindly shared the story of him and his family coming to the States chasing a dream of progress and a better life, which they largely achieved. We talk about the meteoric growth of his company, how tough it was for him to move to America at such a young age, what kept him moving forward, and how the pandemic affected the business. We also talk about creating their own USDA processing plant called Kitchen Cuts and much more. 

Tune in to Episode 56 of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, and get a closer look at my life's first man, Raul Tapia. 

Some Questions I Ask:

• Dad, where were you born? And when were you born? (5:13)
• You started working as a salesman, and you were pretty good at it, right? (10:35)
• The three brothers decide about going to different locations and expanding the business. How does it come about? (18:21)
• You're talking about what's going on today. There aren't any workers. What do you think is happening? (21:08)

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

• God and business. Why Raul's family decided to come to the States (6:33)
• From dishwasher to a truck driver, to salesman, to a business owner (8:12)
• Raul's spirit of being in constant evolution (20:05)
• How are they dealing with the post-pandemic staff shortage (24:27)

Resources:

• Tapia Brothers Co website
• Tapia Brothers Co Instagram
• Tapia Brothers Co Facebook
• Tapia Brothers Co email: [email protected] 

Let's Connect!

• Website
• Facebook
• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• Jackie Tapia Arbonne website

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Despite the conversations and awareness about mental health increasing day by day in our society, there are still a lot of stigmas associated with it. One of the biggest ones is the reluctance to ask for professional help when needed the most. Many people are afraid of other people's judgment when it comes to going to therapy, a trend that needs to stop. Asking for professional help is not a sign of weakness. It’s a sign of self-love, self-care, and strength. 

Today’s guest, Jessica Tapia, will tell us why she decided to retire from her successful career as a banker and the repercussions on her mental health when she found herself in one of the most vulnerable moments of her life, doing IVF treatment. 

After a decade-long career as a banker both in public and private institutions that kept her away from home for long hours every day, Jessica Tapia decided it was time for her to make a change. This was the moment when she chose to retire to focus on being a mom. Now Jessica is a stay-at-home mom of two beautiful kids, and she is focusing on her and her family's well-being without the pressure of a full-time working schedule. This transition was full of ups and downs, but Jessica found her own way to get past the obstacles and thrive as a beautiful human being learning how to stand in her loneliness.

Some Questions I Ask:

• How did you start with the banking industry? (5.05)
• Did you like your new role in a bank for creative people and entrepreneurs? (19.43)
• Did you ever get the chance to speak about your feeling during your IVF treatment? (31.12)

In This Episode You Will Learn:

• How Jessica got her brokerage license. (6.47)
• Why Jessica decided to leave her job. (22.49)
• How Jessica learned new coping skills thanks to therapy. (36.42)

Connect with Jessica Tapia:

• Instagram

Let's Connect!

• Amiga Way Academy
• Website
• Facebook
• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• Jackie Tapia Arbonne website
• Jackie Tapia LegalShield website

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Have you ever wondered what would happen if you left everything behind? Today’s episode is a reminder that following your heart is always worth it in the end. 

Today, I'm joined by an amazing woman, Adriana Palomares. Adriana is the founder of La Mezcalera Inc, a space that educates consumers about the history and culture of Mezcal while also recognizing the very significant roles women play in the world of Mezcal. However, Adriana hasn’t always been a change-maker in the Mezcal industry. Back in 2013, she was working as a lawyer with a grueling schedule but a hefty paycheck. Adriana knew there was a more fulfilling career out there and in 2014, she quit her job, and with nothing but two pieces of luggage, moved to Guanajuato, Mexico. Adriana began to learn the ins and outs of Mezcal, from the end to end process to the underappreciated influence of the women within the industry. 

Throughout this episode, Adriana tells the beautiful story of her family’s journey to America from Mexico, the challenges she faced as a lawyer, why she decided to move back to Mexico and pursue mezcal and love, what’s to expect in her upcoming novel, and so much more. This conversation with Adriana is a reminder that life is too short to stay miserable in what you are doing day after day. Take the risk of following your dreams! 

Tune in to Episode 54 of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, to learn Adriana’s incredible story and her advice for Amigas to handle their shit! 

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

• How Adriana’s family left Mexico and came to the United States (5:24)
• Adriana’s career as a lawyer (11:04)
• Adriana’s journey back to Mexico for Mezcal and love (16:20)
• About Adriana’s upcoming women-focused business (29:57)
• Adriana’s tips for Amigas to handle their shit (34:21)

 Connect with Adriana Palomares

• Instagram
• LinkedIn

Let's Connect!

• Amiga Way Academy
• Website
• Facebook
• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• Jackie Tapia Arbonne website
• Jackie Tapia LegalShield website

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When I created this podcast, I intended to empower women by giving them some valuable tips and inspiration on navigating their lives even in the most challenging and stressful moments. Many positive changes happened in our society regarding how women are seen and perceived, but there is still a long way to go. I know women who still struggle to feel accepted and supported. This is why I believe women’s empowerment is critical in this time of history. Now more than ever, we need people who champion women’s empowerment, and it makes me so happy when I find someone who shares this same belief with me and is actively trying to create change. 

Today’s guest, Arabella Passeri, is only 17 years old, but she is way more mature than her age. I should say she has a lot of wisdom to share. In this episode, she will tell us how she learned to meditate and why she decided to start a clothing line to empower women.

Arabella Passeri is a young model, actress, and entrepreneur who grew up with a supportive mother who taught her how to meditate, ground herself and focus on her emotions and needs. Arabella internalized these skills and created a clothing line to empower other women and share her learning. Thinking big and making change is definitely sometimes that describes her goals very well. Arabella’s bright and successful future awaits her. 

Some Questions I Ask:

• Were you ever resistant to learning meditation? (8.41)
• How did the clothing line come about? (10.40)
• Now that you have your clothing line, what's next for you? (13.50)

In This Episode You Will Learn :

• What was it like growing up learning about tapping, meditation, and crystals for Arabella. (5.42)
• How Arabella created her clothing line at only 17 years old. (10.43)
• How Arabella is planning to incorporate meditation in her clothing line. (15.42) 

Connect with Arabella Passeri

• Instagram
• Facebook
• Arabella's Clothing Line

Let's Connect!

• Amiga Way Academy
• Website
• Facebook
• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• Jackie Tapia Arbonne website

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Have your life challenges motivated you to build a better life for yourself? As Amigas, we are capable of more than we know and we each are on our way to building our unique legacy. 

Today, I'm joined by the incredible Rachel Barbosa. Rachel serves as the City Manager for the City of South El Monte where she oversees all city departments. Raised in San Gabriel Valley, Rachel was a child from a once homeless family and has grown into a strong young woman and overcame the challenges of teen parenthood. Today, Rachel brings a fresh, diverse perspective as City Manager to help change the systemic issues within government. Rachel’s role as City Manager includes the development and implementation of city-wide and departmental goals, objectives, policies, procedures, and priorities, while also making recommendations for the solution of various management challenges in the city.

Throughout this episode, Rachel vulnerably shares the story of her husband’s passing, the incredible way she worked to become City Manager, how she brings a unique perspective within her work, and why women are stronger than we know. Outside of her work, Rachel is involved in the Latina Golfers Association, where she recently received the annual inspiration award for enhancing the lives of girls and women by inspiring them to use golf as a business tool and as a fairway to education.

Tune in to Episode 52 of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, to learn how Rachel overcame homelessness, teen pregnancy, and has built a successful career for herself! 

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

• Rachel’s background (8:15)
• About Rachel’s marriage and her husband’s unfortunate passing (13:26)
• What Rachel believes her legacy will be (19:46)
• How Rachel is bringing a diverse perspective as City Manager (22:43)
• Rachel’s tips for Amigas to handle their shit (34:14)

 Connect with Rachel Barbosa

• LinkedIn

Let's Connect!

• Amiga Way Academy
• Website
• Facebook
• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• Jackie Tapia Arbonne website
• Jackie Tapia LegalShield website

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In March 2020, our lives took an unexpected turn. Covid 19 forced us to change our habits and social lives so suddenly we couldn’t even mentally prepare. For my family, everything started with the cancellation of my daughter’s birthday party. As a mother, I felt powerless and sad I couldn’t make my daughter happy. Dealing with the restrictions was hard, but understanding how to navigate all the other consequences Covid brought with it was even more so.

I lost my ex-assistant and dear friend of mine not so long ago, soon after taking her second dose of the Covid vaccine. Her name was Leonora Uribe, and she was a beautiful and bright soul. Her death struck a delicate chord inside of me; I felt that sensation of powerlessness again, now stronger than ever. She truly believed that taking the vaccine would have helped save other people’s lives as many others did, but she lost hers in the end. Her story made me think about how we can make the best choices for our families and us in such complex times as the one we live in.

As a lawyer, I genuinely think that looking at our past and our previous laws, in particular, can be a perfect way to start a critical analysis of this turbulent time and find a direction to move forward. In this episode, I will share my law discoveries and how the divine guides me all the time, allowing me to see through even the darkest times. 

Also, for those of you Amigas who need extra support or someone to talk to, I'm here for you. I opened up my calendar for some strategy sessions. Just click on the Work With Me link below and fill the form. I will get back to you with some availabilities. This is a women-only opportunity.

In This Episode You Will Learn:

• Why I decided to do this solo podcast (4.59)
• What is the 1947 Nuremberg Code, and what does it imply (13.24)
• My advice about making decisions after you get your divine guidance (24.03)

Let's Connect!

• Work With Me!
• Amiga Way Academy
• Website
• Facebook
• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• Jackie Tapia Arbonne website
• Jackie Tapia LegalShield website

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Do you feel burnt out from work? It’s time to take control of your time, discover the work that you love to do, and gain financial freedom! 

Today, I'm joined by my friend and coach Angie Correa! Angie is a Puerto Rican woman from the Bronx who first appeared on Amiga Handle Your Sh!t on episode 11 and I’m so excited she’s back to teach us more of her wisdom.  Angie was a major corporate executive for 25 years, working for companies like Yahoo, NBC, Maxim, Terra Networks USA. After years of hard work, Angie was laid off. Although she was upset and frustrated, Angie realized that her life wasn’t over and that she could take her career into her own hands. Angie soon launched her executive coaching business using her resources, her network, and her holistic approach. Today, Angie works with badass successful driven women like you to take their six-figure executive career and become a seven-figure entrepreneur.

Angie Correa is passionate about showing women how they can take control of their career and the money that they earn. When you know what your skills and talents are, you can figure out a way to monetize and create a side hustle that will elevate your way of living. In this episode, Angie talks about the frustrating system of sharing time for money, how to identify what kind of income you want to be working for, and of course, her advice for Amigas to handle their shit.  

Tune in to Episode 50 of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, to learn Angie’s journey as a business owner and how she is inspiring Amigas to take control of their time, money, and careers! 

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

• What Angie calls the ‘work from home revolution’ (11:46)
• The different kinds of income you can work for (13:49)
• About the third-party service Angie works for (33:08)
• The value of being a confident business owner (43:01)
• Angie’s tips for Amigas to handle their shit (46:42)

 Connect with Angie Correa

• Website
• LinkedIn
• Instagram
• Episode 11 with Angie Correa

Let's Connect!

• Amiga Way Academy
• Website
• Facebook
• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• Jackie Tapia Arbonne website
• Jackie Tapia LegalShield website

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Sometimes the most challenging and stressful moments of your life can bring you unexpected gifts if you listen and accept what the universe is sending your way. In the past year, the Covid pandemic turned upside down millions of people's lives. For the most part, people still struggle to overcome everything that happened and start again to live a normal life. However, some people took this bad event and transformed it into something positive, embracing a new way to live their lives.

Today's guest, Mercy Fabila, will tell us how the loss of her marketing clients during the pandemic brought her to open a successful baking business, embracing a childhood dream again and finding a new way to live a life full of joy and positivity. 

Mercy Fabila has been a marketing consultant for health, wellness and wellness businesses throughout LA for nearly a decade. However, baking was always her tool to reduce severe anxiety and turn off the multiple tabs open in her head. Despite Mercy's strong interest in baking, she wasn't sure how to transform her passion into a real business. With the pandemic temporarily closing most of her client's businesses, she used this free time to bake for friends and family and bring them some sweet joy during these unexpected times. Mercy began testing out various rustic desserts recipes, and after a few months, the most requested dessert was her basque burnt cheesecake. Once she realized that this cake was not easily found, especially in the South Bay, she wanted to get it out there to her community, and she opened her successful new business, Bashi Bakes. 

Some Questions I Ask:

• How did you start a baking business without formal culinary training? (7.29)
• Where does the basque burnt cheesecake recipe come from? (17.59)
• Where can Amigas find your cakes? (24.04)

In This Episode You Will Learn :

• How Mercy started her baking business. (11.21)
• Why bakery is Mercy's spiritual calling. (13.49)
• Mercy's tips about how to handle your shit. (28.07)

Connect with Mercy Fabila

• Instagram
• Facebook
• Bashi Bakes Website

Let's Connect!

• Amiga Way Academy
• Website
• Facebook
• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• Jackie Tapia Arbonne website

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How often do you go to the OB/GYN? Each and every woman's body is unique and it is important that we continue to take care of ourselves by seeking out healthcare and checkups from professionals. 

Today, I'm joined by the incredible Dr. Erica Montes, known as The Modern Mujer. Dr. Montes is a certified board Obstetrician and Gynecologist and a fellow of the American College of OB/GYN. Born and raised in Texas, Dr. Montes received her BA degree in Biology from the University of Texas at Austin. She then went on to receive her medical degree from the University of Texas Health Science Centre in San Antonio and completed her residency at the University of Texas Southwestern Medical Centre, Parkland Hospital, where she was elected one of three chief residents at the largest program in the nation. Dr. Montes has also created a blog, The Modern Mujer, to achieve her goal of creating a bilingual online presence for women just like you to have a place to blossom into a Mujer who is more confident in her skin, knows what to expect from her body, and to transform gracefully over her lifetime.

Dr. Montes’ advice is for all women, no matter what you look like or where you come from. The combination of Dr. Montes’ expertise as an OB/GYN along with her passion to help all of us become confident, healthy Mujeres is a testament to the truth in her advice. Throughout this episode, Dr. Montes talks about her medical background, the ways that women can maintain their health, what she sees to be of concern for women, and of course, her advice for Amigas to handle their shit. 

Tune in to Episode 48 of Amiga, Handle Your Shit, to learn Dr. Montes’ healthcare advice for women as a professional OB/GYN!

Some Questions I Ask:

• How did your blog, The Modern Mujer, come to be? (6:57)
• What do you find to be the most threatening area of concern for women? (12:59)
• What is an operative report? (18:54)
• What are one or two tips for Amigas to handle their shit? (30:36)

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

• About Dr. Montes’ upbringing (4:52)
• Dr. Montes’ advice for all women to take care of their bodies (8:48)
• How Dr. Montes helps her clients understand what’s going on in their body (17:20)
• The surgery that is most common for Dr. Montes to operate (21:44)
• Dr. Montes’ advice for younger women and older women (25:11)

 Connect with Dr. Montes

• Blog - The Modern Mujer
• Instagram
• Facebook
• LinkedIn

Let's Connect!

• Amiga Way Academy
• Website
• Facebook
• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• Jackie Tapia Arbonne website

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Deciding to change your career path is not easy. You can have a lot of doubts and feel very confused about the steps you have to take. The best thing you can do is develop a plan of action without taking too many risks. Prepare a plan B. Think big and be open-minded. You’ll never know what the universe will send in your direction.

Today’s guest, Kate Jerkens, took the bold decision to leave her career of 15 years in the hotel business to help build what now is a very successful whiskey company. Kate will tell us about her decision and the history behind the whiskey company. 

With over 15 years of experience in the hotel and hospitality industry under her belt, Kate Jerkins brings a fresh perspective to the spirits world. Kate works to solidify Uncle Nearest Premium Whiskey as the top premium spirits brand alongside distributors, bars, and restaurants worldwide. Kate joined the Uncle Nearest team before its launch in 2017 when founder and CEO Fawn Weaver approached her about the idea of starting the whiskey brand. Her extensive experience leading sales teams and ability to grow and cultivate global companies through her leadership has proven invaluable for the brand, which reached nationwide distribution in less than two years after the initial knock launch.

Some Questions I Ask:

• What was the reason you left the hotel business? (10.14)
• Which is the story’s behind the whiskey? (18.07)
• Can you provide one or two tips on how Amigas can handle her shit? (30.25) 

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

• How Kate moved from the hotel business to the whisky’s one. (10.19)
• The reality of being a woman in a whiskey business. (14.05)
• Uncle Nearest Premium Whiskey’s background story. (18.11)

 Connect with Kate Jerkens

• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• Uncle Nearest Premium Whiskey

Let's Connect!

• Amiga Way Academy
• Website
• Facebook
• Instagram
• LinkedIn
• Jackie Tapia Arbonne website

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