Are Your Social Skills Hurting Your Marriage? Fix Them Now

Many people are sabotaging their marriages without realizing it—simply by failing to use basic social skills with their spouse. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll learn how small behaviors like tone, body language, and validation can make the difference between growing closer or drifting apart.

What You’ll Learn

• How poor social skills damage attraction, trust, and connection
• Key behaviors that make your spouse feel relaxed and valued
• Why “being yourself” can backfire in long-term relationships
• What to do first if your spouse resists talking or connecting

Want to Work With Coach Jack?
If you’re trying to reconnect with a spouse who’s pulling away, improving your social skills is a foundational step. But you’ll need more than just kindness to repair a broken relationship. The Re-Connections Marriage Coaching Package is designed to help you rebuild connection, attraction, and commitment in a step-by-step way—even if your spouse isn’t currently trying.

Key Takeaways

• Social skills protect and grow relationships—don’t reserve them for strangers
• Validation, good listening, and tone matter more than persuasion
• Start with body language if your spouse resists talking
• Small talk done right leads to real connection
• You can become desirable again—but not by arguing or explaining

Additional Resources

• Social Skills Quiz – Find out which skills need work
• Connecting Through “Yes!” – Learn to end arguments and build agreement

Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.