Around The Way Curls

Around The Way Curls

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Around The Way Curls episodes

  • Ep 385. Trump, Beyonce, Kelly & Her Suit + Amber’s Delusion

    In this week's episode, we discuss our Halloween (or lack thereof) as adults. Shanti reviews Tyler the Creator's new album Chromokopia and Antoinette shares a new documentary to watch. Together we delve into Trump's rally in Madison Square Garden and the implications of media bias. As election day approaches, Antoinette expresses optimism about voter turnout and the potential for change. For pop culture, Shanti is inspired by the recent break up of Zoe Kravitz and Channing Tatum and shares which celebrity couples she would wants to see split. We talk Beyonce, Kelly and Kelly's suit and Amber Rose. Finally we talk about Megan Thee Stallion's controversial interview with Gayle King. Join us...

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    1 hr 55 min
  • Ep 384. Hotline Bling

    In this week's episode, Antoinette and Shanti explore the complexities of motherhood, the guilt associated with seeking joy, and the importance of vulnerability in parenting. We share a heartwarming story about a man who found purpose in helping dogs while recovering from addiction, and we discuss the challenges of supporting children through their identity explorations. This week is focused on listener voicemails. The conversation touches on listener feedback regarding political discussions and the importance of understanding diverse perspectives, friendship, playing it safe, and taking accountability.

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    Motherhood and Guilt: The Struggle for Joy 05:00

    Finding Purpose in Adversity: A Heartwarming Story 09:49

    Navigating Parenting Challenges: Vulnerability and Support 17:58

    Reflections on Identity and Community 21:58

    Listener Feedback and Political Discussions 27:07

    The Impact of Political Campaigns 29:58

    Understanding Political Agendas and Congress 36:57

    The Role of Executive Orders in Governance 41:05

    Navigating Personal Relationships and Support Systems 49:08

    The Struggles of Balancing Life's Responsibilities


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    1 hr
  • Ep 383: Slow Down & Listen

    For this week's episode, Shanti returns from her trip to Mexico City, highlighting the vibrant culture and her desire to learn Spanish, while Antoinette opens up about her continued struggles with job searching and burnout. For pop culture, Antoinette feels frustrated by the imbalanced expectations of Kamala Harris versus Donald Trump and we are both delighted by the legal troubles of Rudy Giuliani. We dive into the harrowing case of Gisele Picole and how seemingly 'perfect' men can be involved in terrible acts. The discussion shifts to the digital age, addressing the roots of trolling and anti-blackness in online interactions. We react to Kendrick Lamar and SZA's recent interview, and share our excitement for Tyler, The Creator's innovative approach to music, emphasizing the need for deeper engagement with art.

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    00:00 Cultural Connections: Shanti's Trip

    09:31 Ant Navigates Work Stress and Personal Challenges

    28:51Exploring Vulnerability in Documentaries

    32:44 The Apprentice: A Deep Dive into Trump's Origin

    36:23 Political Discourse and Media Representation

    42:43 Legal Consequences for Rudy Giuliani

    44:43 Elon Musk's Political Maneuvering

    56:10 The Giselle Picole Case: A Disturbing Reality

    01:02:01 The Impact of Trauma and Societal Perceptions

    01:06:43 Anti-Blackness and Trolling in the Digital Age

    01:12:16 Kendrick Lamar and SZA: Exploring Vulnerability and Identity

    01:19:30 Tyler, The Creator's Insight on Music Release Strategies


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    1 hr 27 min
  • Ep 382: Is it Care or Control?

    In this episode, Antoinette and Shanti explore the complexities of offering care that is masked control. Shanti guides us through three main topics: No one is completely selfless, why we control, & what's at risk if we lose control. The conversation challenges what we know to be care and invites us to reflect on our true intentions and reason for them. Join us.


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    00:00 Personal Updates

    27:10 The Dichotomy of Care vs. Control

    35:12 Personal Reflections on Control and Concern

    39:29 The Impact of Past Experiences on Present Relationships

    46:11 Communication and Vulnerability in Relationships

    54:15 Healing Through Relationships and Parenting


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    1 hr 1 min
  • Ep 381. Obama + Black Men, Tyra + Black Dandies

    This week, Antoinette updates us on her birthday and thanks the listeners for showing her love while Shanti fills us in on her weekend with Stevie Wonder. We have a check-in on how we're feeling about the upcoming election and discuss the current backlash for President Obama by exploring the nuances of political identity and voter expectations, particularly concerning Kamala Harris and the Democratic party's approach to Black voters. Finally, per a listener's request, we attempt to discuss Safari and Erica Mena but don't know what we're talking about, so we quickly pivot to Victoria Secret being damned if they do and damned if they don't and delve into (what will surely be tricky) the upcoming Dandyism Met Gala highlighting the intersection of politics and pop culture, and how public figures navigate media landscapes and societal expectations. Join us.


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    00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates

    16:54 Political Climate and Election Anxiety

    34:41 Obama's Address to Black Men

    01:00:14 The Killing of Hamas Leader and Its Implications

    01:03:00 Pop Culture and Celebrity Controversies

    01:07:03 Victoria's Secret Fashion Show Returns

    01:14:01 The Met Gala: A Celebration of Black Dandyism

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    1 hr 21 min
  • Ep 380. Are We Addicted To Roller Coaster Relationships?

    In this episode, Shanti feels the pressure build as she prepares for high-school selections for her daughter while Antoinette deals with her pet parenthood challenges. Together, we listen to a voicemail that requests a bit more accountability from both of us beyond the "claim of victimhood". For our main topic, we discuss the addictive nature of tumultuous relationships and how childhood experiences shape adult relationships. We discuss the addictive nature of these relationships, the importance of self-awareness, and the role of therapy in breaking the cycle of toxicity. The conversation is tender for Shanti as it touches on the challenges of parenting and her own ability to form healthy connections.

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    05:50 Understanding Anxiety and Family Dynamics

    11:59 The Pressures of Parenting in Modern Society

    22:04 The Accountability Challenge in Relationships

    26:10 Understanding Our Role in Relationship Dynamics

    30:27 Co-Creation in Relationships

    40:34 Addiction to Roller Coaster Relationships

    49:25 The Allure of Chaos in Relationships

    52:38 Understanding Trauma Bonds and Attachments

    59:10 The Impact of Childhood Experiences on Adult Relationships

    01:06:12 Navigating Parenting and Self-Awareness

    01:10:46 Breaking the Cycle of Toxic Relationships


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    1 hr 24 min
  • Ep 379. J Cole & Drake: Best Friends Forever

    In this week's episode, Shanti discovers the world of young professionals at a recent Tech conference while Antoinette finally shares Bae with the world. For politics, we discuss Hurricane Milton's impact, the challenges FEMA and Congress faced in providing adequate funding, and the ethical implications of price gouging during crises. For pop- culture, we dive into J-Cole's recent song "Port Antonio". We discuss Drake's rant on having "fake friends", whether Kendrick's strategy was a money/fame grab, and the importance of authenticity in any art form. Join us...

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    02:58 Cultural References and TV Shows

    05:58 Experiences at a Women's Tech Conference

    09:02 The Importance of Networking and Community Support

    11:52 Celebrating Personal Milestones and Relationships

    14:59 Reflections on Social Media and Privacy

    17:58 Insights from CultureCon and Future Aspirations

    21:05 Support for the Podcast and Community Engagement

    23:55 Discussion on Hurricane Milton and Climate Change

    28:40 Misinformation and Hurricane Relief

    32:22 Congress and FEMA Funding Challenges

    36:33 Price Gouging in Crisis Situations

    39:00 Corporate Responsibility During Disasters

    44:35 The Complexities of Emergency Shelters

    52:34 Pop Culture and Public Figures' Accountability

    01:03:59 The Reality of Fake Friends

    01:06:12 Drake's Authenticity and Character Judgments

    01:09:10 Insecurity and Social Status in Hip-Hop

    01:12:11 Kendrick vs. Drake: The Battle of Authenticity

    01:18:29 J. Cole's Compassion and Reflection

    01:28:34 Navigating Fame and Personal Growth


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    1 hr 36 min
  • Ep 378. Are You A Good Friend?

    In today's episode, Shanti shares a deep, dark secret while Antoinette is delighted to be reminded of a song she forgot about. After listening to listener voicemails, we discuss friendship. We are inspired to explore friendships after listening to a thoughtful conversation about friendship between Trevor Noah + Simon Sinek. What does it mean to be a good friend? How do we make new friends as adults? We reflect on our own experiences with friendships, the challenges of maintaining relationships as adults, and the need for vulnerability and intentionality in nurturing these bonds. Join us...


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    Simone Sinek + Trevor Noah on Friendship https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CNBxIhxHHxM 


    00:00 Nail Care and Personal Grooming

    02:59 Exploring Friendship and Its Importance

    06:01 Media Consumption and Cultural Reflections

    09:00 Reflections on Recent Podcast Guests

    12:07 The Value of Community and Connection

    14:49 Listener Voicemails and Engagement

    18:01 Friendship Dynamics and Personal Growth

    20:54 Mental Health and Social Connections

    24:00 Creating Space for Friendships

    26:56 Navigating Adult Friendships

    29:58 Intentionality in Relationships

    32:59 The Role of Vulnerability in Friendships

    35:54 Balancing Work and Personal Relationships

    38:54 Practical Steps for Nurturing Friendships

    41:59 Final Thoughts on Friendship and Community


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    57 min
  • Ep 377. Not So Good Times & Is Jaguar (W)Right?

    In this week's episode, Antoinette feels the heavy weight of life on her shoulders as she does her best to keep her head above water while Shanti pushes through on business projects. Together we discuss the recent Vice Presidential debate, the legacy of John Amos, and the controversial claims made by Jaguar Wright regarding the music industry including allegations against Jay-Z and Beyonce. Join us.

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    1 hr 35 min
  • Ep 376. Loving Corrections ft. adrienne maree brown

    In this week's episode, Shanti prepares for high school applications while Antoinette masters the art of roasting chicken. After listening to voice mails, we are joined by very special guest, adrienne maree brown. In this conversation, adrienne discusses her new book, 'Loving Corrections. Together we explore themes of offering and receiving loving correction within interpersonal relationships and the greater collective. The discussion touches on the balance between revolutionary and reformist approaches to social change and how we can transform hopelessness into actionable steps toward collective freedom. Join us....


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    NY Phil: Afromodernism - Music of the African Diaspora

    Discount Code: CULTURELP20 

    Dates and Times:

    • Thursday, October 17, 2024, at 7:30 PM
    • Friday, October 18, 2024, at 7:30 PM
    • Location: David Geffen Hall, Lincoln Center


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    Tickets are available at https://bit.ly/afromodernism 




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    1 hr 45 min

About Around The Way Curls

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Rooted in friendship, humor, and self-actualization, Shanti and Antoinette are a differing, but dynamic duo who explore both the profound and the profane because #DualityIsAThing.


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