Ask Lisa: Untangling Family Life

Are you drowning in emotional conversations with your teen? In this episode Dr. Lisa and Reena examine the critical line between healthy emotional processing and harmful rumination. They discuss how to support teenagers' mental health without letting feelings dominate, how to redirect emotional spirals, and empower teens to manage their emotions effectively. Whether your child overshares or stays completely closed off, this episode offers compassionate, expert guidance for navigating the complex emotional landscape of the teenage years while building trust and resilience.

We want to hear from you! How do you help your teen process difficult emotions without getting stuck?

The Emotional Lives of Teenagers: Raising Connected, Capable, and Compassionate Adolescents: https://drlisadamour.com/books/the-emotional-lives-of-teenagers/

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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges.  Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday. 

Check out our Ask Lisa Podcast Playlists. Binge specific topics like Raising Sons, Staying Connected to Your Teen: https://www.youtube.com/@asklisapodcast/playlists

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Episode Keywords: teen emotions, anxiety, rumination, emotional regulation, teenage communication, coping skills, self-care, emotional intelligence, social emotional learning

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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges.  Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday. 

Check out our Ask Lisa Podcast Playlist. 

Binge specific topics like Raising Sons, Staying Connected to Your Teen:

https://www.youtube.com/@asklisapodcast/playlists

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Are video games interfering with your child's social life, or could they be a secret weapon for connection and skill-building? In this episode, Dr. Lisa challenges parents' assumptions about gaming, revealing surprising benefits like spatial skill development and peer socialization while also addressing the critical importance of balancing screen time with real-world interactions. If your child is a gaming enthusiast or you're concerned about screen time, this episode provides nuanced, research-backed guidance for navigating the digital entertainment landscape. 

We want to hear from you! What's your biggest challenge with your child's video game habits?

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Episode Keywords: video games, socialization, family activities, sports, balance, technology, youth culture

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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges.  Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions.

New episodes drop every Tuesday. 

Check out our Ask Lisa Podcast Playlist. 

Binge specific topics like Raising Sons, Staying Connected to Your Teen:

https://www.youtube.com/@asklisapodcast/playlists

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What does it truly mean to raise an adolescent boy in today’s world? In this episode, Dr. Lisa Damour analyzes the Netflix miniseries “Adolescence,” diving deep into the emotional challenges boys face, the pressures of societal expectations around masculinity, and how parents can offer meaningful support. From helping boys navigate anger and vulnerability to managing online culture, this conversation offers insights for parents who want to better understand their sons and build stronger relationships with them. 

We want to hear from you! How have you navigated emotional challenges with your adolescent son?

The Emotional Lives of Teenagers: Raising Connected, Capable, and Compassionate Adolescents: https://drlisadamour.com/books/the-emotional-lives-of-teenagers/

Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys: https://www.michaelthompson-phd.com/books/raising-cain/

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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges. Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday. 

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Worried about the digital world your kids are navigating? In this encore of one of their most popular episodes, Dr. Lisa and Reena tackle parents' biggest fears about kids and digital platforms: When should we introduce social media? How can we set healthy boundaries? Could delaying access to social media protect our children’s mental health? Dr. Lisa shares practical, research-backed strategies to help parents manage screen time, prevent social isolation, and have meaningful conversations about online behavior. Whether you have a tween or teen, this episode provides essential guidance for raising digitally aware kids in a complex technological landscape.

Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel where you can see all our latest video episodes: https://youtube.com/@asklisapodcast

And follow us on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn @AskLisaPodcast, @Lisa.Damour, @ReenaNinan.

Checkout Dr. Lisa’s website for more resources: https://www.drlisadamour.com/

Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com

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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges. Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday. 

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Struggling to co-parent with an ex who has completely different values? In this episode, Dr. Lisa offers compassionate, practical strategies to set boundaries, support your child's love for both parents, and address challenging situations without creating additional conflict. Together Dr. Lisa and Reena explore how children experience parental disagreements and discuss age-appropriate approaches for handling differences. Whether you're divorced, separated, or in a challenging co-parenting relationship, this episode offers hope and actionable advice for keeping your child's best interests at the center of family life. 

We want to hear from you! How have you resolved a challenging co-parenting moment?

Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel where you can see all our latest video episodes: https://youtube.com/@asklisapodcast

And follow us on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn @AskLisaPodcast, @Lisa.Damour, @ReenaNinan.

Checkout Dr. Lisa’s website for more resources: https://www.drlisadamour.com/

Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com

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Episode Keywords: co-parenting, divorce, parenting values, parental conflict, child development, child psychology

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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges. Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday. 

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Is your teen feeling disappointed about their college admission results? They’re not alone. In Episode #210, Dr. Lisa and Reena discuss the emotional rollercoaster of college admissions and the harsh realities of how the college process sometimes plays out. They offer compassionate guidance on how to support your child through disappointment, preserve friendships, and maintain perspective. How can you & your child take care of your emotional well-being during this stressful time, even when the college admissions process doesn't go as planned? Dr. Lisa & Reena have answers.

Whether your child is just starting the college search or facing rejections, this episode equips you with the empathy and strategies to guide them through this pivotal life transition. 

Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel where you can see all our latest video episodes: https://youtube.com/@asklisapodcast

And follow us on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn @AskLisaPodcast, @Lisa.Damour, @ReenaNinan.

Checkout Dr. Lisa’s website for more resources: https://www.drlisadamour.com/

Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com

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Episode Keywords: college admissions, college rejections, college acceptances, college disappointment, empowering teens, college transition, college application process, acceptance rates, college process, college rejections, gap year, college choices

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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges. Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday. 

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Dr. Lisa and Reena are joined by psychologist Dr. Ethan Kross, author of the book "Shift: Managing Your Emotions - So They Don't Manage You," to discuss practical, science-backed strategies to help parents and children alike navigate the ups and downs of emotional life.

Kross shares fascinating insights from his research on the power of "emotional shifters" - concrete tools we can use to turn the volume up or down on our feelings. Parents will learn how to leverage sensory experiences, mental time travel, and even music to help their kids (and themselves) regain control when emotions run high. This episode is a treasure trove of wisdom that just might transform how your family manages life's inevitable emotional curveballs.

Find Dr. Ethan’s book here: https://www.ethankross.com/books/shift

Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel where you can see all our latest video episodes: https://youtube.com/@asklisapodcast

And follow us on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn @AskLisaPodcast, @Lisa.Damour, @ReenaNinan.

Checkout Dr. Lisa’s website for more resources: https://www.drlisadamour.com/

Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com

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Episode Keywords: ​​dr ethan kross, shift, emotional management, emotion regulation, parenting emotions, managing feelings, emotional control

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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges. Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday. 

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Your teen wants to go to a party—but what if there’s drinking? And what if the cops show up? In this episode, Lisa and Reena take on the tough realities of teenage parties, underage drinking, and how parents can navigate these high-stakes situations. Should you call the host parents? What happens if the police arrive? Could your teen get arrested? Lisa shares how to have open, judgment-free conversations so your child feels safe coming to you—no matter what. Plus, practical strategies to help teens think ahead, make smart choices, and handle peer pressure in the moment.

Don’t miss this essential conversation that every parent of a tween or teen needs to hear.

Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel where you can see all our latest video episodes: https://youtube.com/@asklisapodcast

And follow us on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn @AskLisaPodcast, @Lisa.Damour, @ReenaNinan.

Checkout Dr. Lisa’s website for more resources: https://www.drlisadamour.com/

Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com

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Episode Keywords: teen parties, underage drinking, parenting teens, teen safety, parent liability, hot cognition, cold cognition, teen relationships, school involvement, party rules, peer pressure, social hosting laws

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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges. Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday. 

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Is your child struggling with a difficult friendship? Middle school social dynamics can be tricky, and knowing how to guide your child without making things worse is a real challenge. In this episode, Dr. Lisa Damour and Reena Ninan tackle a parent's question about a daughter facing repeated unkindness from a friend.

Lisa shares practical, research-backed strategies to help kids navigate these situations and offers crucial advice for parents on how to give advice kids will actually listen to.

If your child has ever come home from school upset about a friend, this episode is a must-listen.

Olweus’s Bullying Prevention Program: https://clemsonolweus.org/

“Bullying at School” by Dan Olweus: https://www.amazon.com/Bullying-School-What-Know-Can/dp/0631192417

Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel where you can see all our latest video episodes: https://youtube.com/@asklisapodcast

And follow us on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn @AskLisaPodcast, @Lisa.Damour, @ReenaNinan.

Checkout Dr. Lisa’s website for more resources: https://www.drlisadamour.com/

Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com

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Episode Keywords: tween friendships, middle school drama, bullying, social skills, mean girls, teen conflict, friendship struggles, mean friends, social dynamics, conflict resolution, childhood development, friendship issues, emotional support

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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges. Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday. 

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Are you worried about your kids' tech use but unsure where to start? In this episode, Dr. Lisa and Reena dive into the challenge every parent faces: guiding kids to develop healthier relationships with their devices. Lisa shares practical strategies for starting open, judgment-free conversations with your kids, co-creating family tech boundaries, and implementing key rules that can make a huge difference. 

This episode empowers parents to approach tech as a shared family challenge, offering insights to improve quality of life without unnecessary conflict. Watch now to gain actionable tips and learn how to navigate technology together as a family!

Follow and subscribe to our YouTube channel where you can see all our latest video episodes: https://youtube.com/@asklisapodcast

And follow us on YouTube, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn @AskLisaPodcast, @Lisa.Damour, @ReenaNinan.

Checkout Dr. Lisa’s website for more resources: https://www.drlisadamour.com/

Ask Lisa is produced by: https://www.goodtroubleproductions.com

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Episode Keywords: tech boundaries, digital wellness, screen time, tech habits, healthy tech use, family tech rules, social media limits, tech conversation, technology

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