One of the defining characteristics of autism is a neurologic "leaning toward" repetition. In relationships, this can lead to "conversational persistence" (i.e., being unable to let an argument or topic go). Join Dr. Regan to hear three tips for helping the individual release a topic that has already been discussed. 

Dr. Regan's resources

The Understanding Autism book series

Audiobook

Autism in the Adult website

Podcast References

Winn, Beverley, Gameiro, Sofia, Shelton, Katherine Helen and Leekam, Susan R. 2016. Conflict management in couple relationships: the experiences of individuals with Asperger syndrome and their partners. Good Autism Practice 17 (2) , pp. 72-80.

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For many on the autism spectrum, coming together for the holidays is overwhelming. The adrenaline rush that brings anticipation and excitement for most may be experienced as a restless anxiety for those on the spectrum. Join Dr. Regan to hear four tips to make the holidays peaceful and connected for all ... on and off the autism spectrum. 

Predictable Fear article 2014

Dr. Regan website

The Understanding Autism book series

Audiobook

Communicating through technology may have a bad rap.  But in the autism spectrum, there are times when emails and texts can enhance social-emotional exchange and strengthen relationships. Join Dr. Regan to learn some of the benefits of written communication on the spectrum. 

Dr. Regan resources:

The Understanding Autism book series

Audiobook

Website: Autism in the Adult

Self-advocacy is an often-used term in higher levels of education, community agencies, and medical settings. It describes the commitment to encourage students, clients, and patients to take an active role in communicating their needs and plans. There are aspects of self-advocacy that are inherently challenging to those on the spectrum. Join Dr. Regan to learn ways to make self-advocacy empowering rather than overwhelming for those on the spectrum. 

What is Self-Advocacy?

Dr. Regan's resources:

The Understanding Autism book series

Audiobook

Website: Autism in the Adult

Grief reactions can look different for the individual on the autism spectrum than for the neurotypical. Join Dr. Regan to learn how to detect signs of grief in the ASD individual, and how to provide support during seasons of loss. 

Dr. Regan's resources:

The Understanding Autism book series

Audiobook

Website: Autism in the Adult

For those on the autism spectrum, a diagnosis clarifies which of their characteristics are brain-based. This understanding breaks the cycle of relying on repetition, reasoning, and will-power to "do better." Instead, the individual can focus on the strategies that are most likely to improve his/her well-being and relationships. 

Dr. Regan's resources:

The Understanding Autism book series

Audiobook

Website: Autism in the Adult

Although many on the spectrum describe sensitivity to emotional atmospheres, the ability to detect specific emotions, understand what triggered the feelings, and identify how to shift emotional states can be a struggle. Join Dr. Regan for this podcast as she breaks down some of the particular challenges and identifies recommendations for relationships. 

Dr. Regan's resources:

The Understanding Autism book series

Audiobook

Website: Autism in the Adult

Many individuals on the spectrum feel a deep commitment to facts and truth. This passion can lead to problems when also trying to navigate the relational aspects of a conversation. In this podcast, you'll learn four strategies you can use to protect relationships while remaining committed to the truth in conversations. 

Dr. Regan's resources:

The Understanding Autism book series

Audiobook

Website: Autism in the Adult

Dr. Regan answers a listener's questions about communication with her adult son on the spectrum. Have you ever wanted to have better exchanges with someone you know on the spectrum? Or perhaps you're an autistic adult who would like to understand social exchanges and make them more effective. Listen to this podcast to hear why the ASD individual may struggle during conversations, and how to engage in more gratifying exchanges. 

Learn about sequencing and speed from I Love Lucy

Autism and Communication in Relationships blog posts

What is Theory of Mind: videos

Dr. Regan's resources:

Books: Understanding Autism in Adults and Aging Adults and Understanding Autistic Behaviors

Website: Autism in the Adult

Estimates indicate that about 25% of school children on the autism spectrum are missing a correct diagnosis, and over 90% of adults on the spectrum remain unidentified. In this podcast, Dr. Regan busts the myth that if autism is present, it will be accurately detected and identified in childhood. 

Additional resources: 

PDF downloadable document outlining rates of missed diagnosis and the DSM -5 manuals rules about diagnosis in adulthood

Video Content on Autism Diagnosis in Adulthood

The Understanding Autism book series

Audiobook

Website: Autism in the Adult

Autism Diagnosis in Adulthood: blog posts

Zur Institute CEU course: Autism Spectrum Disorder: What Every Clinician Needs to Know (including 10 reasons a diagnosis is important at any age)

For the Clinician: Training Courses for Diagnosis of Autism in Adulthood