Being Different with Liz Durham

Have you seen those hilarious videos about black SUV moms vs white SUV moms? After I finished laughing - I'm a gray SUV mom, by the way - it made me think about the deeper issues there, like the realities of homemaking and the expectations of being a 'perfect' mom.

Today, I'm talking about the pressure to keep up appearances and the importance of finding practical resources to manage everything from meal planning to household maintenance. I've even tried to use tools like a planner from "The Confident Mom" to help bring some order to the daily chaos.

So, whether you find yourself laughing at the mess or striving for more structure, remember, it's okay to not have it all figured out. Have any cool and nonjudgey momfluencers or resources? DM me on Instagram. You know I can use all the help I can get.

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Balancing careers and motherhood is no joke. In this episode, I sit down with my dear friend Tori Ivey to discuss the challenges we've both faced. Tori and I have known each a long time and we've both been through the wringer when it comes to managing the demands of work and family life.

Tori talks about realizing her desire to be a full-time mom, how she explained it to her husband Zach, and the support he provided in making that transition. And then, we discussed the reality of what it looked like putting our young children in daycare, the constant struggle with sick days and doctor's appointments, and the overwhelming guilt we felt trying to be supermoms. 

This is an honest talk about the messy realities of modern motherhood. If you've ever felt like you're failing at work and at home, you're not alone, and this episode is for you.

A special thanks to the Zach Ivey Group for sponsoring this week's episode.
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There’s a huge societal expectation for moms to do it all—all by ourselves. But it’s time for some honesty about reaching out for help when we need it. I'll be honest - I've relied on cleaning services, grandparents, babysitters, you name it, just to keep my house afloat. The media, especially influencers like the Kardashians, sell the "boss mom" image while hiding the support that makes it all possible. I'm ready to break the stigma and talk about how we can rely on our village to make it happen.

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Welcome to ‘Being Different with Liz Durham’—where we don’t just go with the flow, we stir it up! Tired of being spoon-fed what to think? So was I. That’s why I started this podcast - a no-holds-barred experiment of being different. Join me as we challenge the norms, embrace new perspectives, and engage in the art of lively debate. Forget the echo chambers; let’s bring humor and lightness back to tough conversations. Ready for a wild ride? Follow along on Instagram @LizDurhamTN or dive deeper at LizDurham.com.

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When it comes to breaking the mold of traditional parenting and education, forging your own path as a mother isn't always easy. I sat down with Kate Panchal and we hit it off right from the start. We both know the struggle of balancing demanding careers with raising our kids.  But it was her experience with adopting nature-based Waldorf practices and worldschooling our kids that really struck me.


Kate’s background in television and my own experiences have taught us a lot about the sacrifices and rewards that come with choosing family over everything else. When Kate shared her discovery of Waldorf practices through her research into traditional diets and indigenous cultures, I was hooked. It resonated with me as I’ve been exploring ways to integrate more nature and life skills into my own children’s lives. Seeing our kids thrive in that environment is truly rewarding.


And then there’s Kate’s bold move into worldschooling, planning international trips with her five-year-old daughter. It’s inspiring to see her commitment in the face of skepticism from others.  Sticking to our values and priorities, like patience and responsibility, matters more than conforming to conventional standards. Remember, we’re not alone in paving our own paths. I hope it resonates with you as much as it did with me.

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I’m thrilled to bring you this episode of Being Different with a very special guest, Congressman Tim Burchett from Tennessee’s 2nd District. I’ve been tuning in to Tim’s podcast, Tennesee Talks, and honestly felt like I knew him before we even met. His straightforwardness and willingness to call out corruption in Washington really struck a chord with me.

Tim opens up about his upbringing and the formative experiences that shaped his perspective on politics and ethics. We dive deep into the rampant corruption and lack of accountability plaguing our nation’s capital, topics he’s not afraid to confront head-on. From voter suppression to fiscal responsibility (or the lack thereof), Tim doesn’t hold back, and neither do I.

Stick around after our chat to hear my take on where we go from here. Trust me, it’s a discussion you won’t want to miss. 

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So, why the fuss around vaccines? Why does mentioning them feel like dropping a bomb? That's what bugs me. Can't we just talk about it without it turning into a political showdown? That's why I sat down with Dr. Jason Hall again. And this time it's not about mommy makeovers, but about the state of vaccine discussions in the US.

We cover it all - from the history of vaccine development to the ethical questions around financial incentives. As far as I'm concerned, it's important to start asking questions about vaccines without judgment and with an open mind. Parents on both sides of this issue just want to do what's best for their kids. And after all, science isn't about shutting down questions - it's about asking them. 

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Today I wanna chat about staying true to your purpose no matter what the world says. Liz here with some thoughts on that buzz-worthy commencement speech by Harrison Buctker, the Kansas City Chiefs' kicker. Now, I'm not one for football, but this guy stirred the pot.

He speaks at a Catholic college about sticking to your God-given role, and the internet erupts - especially feminists. Turns out, it wasn't all that wild. Mostly about men stepping up and leading, with a shoutout to his wife for owning her homemaker role. 

It got me pondering the choices women face. We're told we can do it all, but can we? For me, the lifestyle I've chosen brings more peace than any career ever could. Not saying it's one-size-fits-all, but wouldn't it be nice if we backed each other's paths more?

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There is one book that has totally changed my perspective - and I've read a lot of parenting books. Michaeleen Doucleff is the author of "Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans." She joined me on the show to get real honest about the struggles of modern parenting and how it's making us and our kids miserable.

Michaeleen shares how the families she visited in other countries just seem so much happier - their kids are well-behaved and actually want to help out! We talk about letting kids sleep when they're tired instead of on our schedule, teaching them life skills instead of just shuttling them to activities, and building a community instead of being lonely and isolated.

It was so eye-opening to realize we don't have to parent the way people have always done it. Tune in to hear Michaeleen's inspiring stories from around the world and get some fresh ideas on raising kids the easier, natural way. 

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When every day feels like chaos, how are you supposed to make time time for your relationship? Ashley Willis co-hosts of the Naked Marriage podcast with her husband, Dave. I was so excited to sit down with her for a raw and real take on the joys and challenges of married life.

We talked about balancing marriage and parenting, especially with little ones running around screaming. Like, how can you not feeling resentful towards your partner while navigating the everyday rollercoaster of parenting?

Ashley shared some invaluable advice on communication, asking for help from your partner, and carving out time for each other amidst the craziness. Even down to the nitty-gritty of checking our calendars to see where our time really goes, because let's face it, parenting is tough, but our marriages don't have to suffer.

Check out Ashley's show wherever you get your podcasts, and find more on my website!

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