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Desire is a liberating force
Dr. Ann Kelley and Shadeen Francis, LMFT unpack the intricate nature of desire, extending beyond just the sexual realm. They unpack the challenges in identifying true desires, the role of embodiment in self-awareness, and the key distinction between wanting and liking. Together they discuss intimacy, self-discovery and communication – with an emphasis on the need for negotiation and authentic connection in sexual experiences.
“The simplest of all luxuries is the freedom to pursue your pleasure.” – Shadeen Francis
Time Stamps for Beyond Sex: Understanding Desire
05:15 The challenge of identifying desire
17:58 The nuances of wanting vs. liking
25:01 Desire in sexual contexts
35:07 Negotiating wants in relationships
44:41 The impact of technology on desire
56:30 Desire as a tool for liberation
About our Guest – Shadeen Francis, LMFT, CST
Shadeen Francis is a licensed marriage and family psychotherapist and a board-certified sex therapist. Her expertise spans the domains of mental health, emotional intelligence, and the intersection of sexual wellness and social justice. A sought-after voice in her field, Shadeen has been featured on major networks including ABC, NBC, and CBS, and has been the subject matter expert for prominent brands such as Essence, Bumble, Tinder, and Teen Vogue. Shadeen’s work extends beyond the therapy room, influencing nationally implemented curricula, global media strategies, and public health policies. Known for her signature brand of warmth and humor, Shadeen’s work is inspired by her commitment to helping people live lives full of peace and pleasure.
Resources for Beyond Sex: Understanding Desire
shadeenfrancis.com – Shadeen’s website, resources, and other information
[email protected] – The best way to contact Shadeen
@shadeenfrancis – Shadeen’s Instagram handle
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By Sue Marriott LCSW, CGP & Ann Kelley PhD
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Desire is a liberating force
Dr. Ann Kelley and Shadeen Francis, LMFT unpack the intricate nature of desire, extending beyond just the sexual realm. They unpack the challenges in identifying true desires, the role of embodiment in self-awareness, and the key distinction between wanting and liking. Together they discuss intimacy, self-discovery and communication – with an emphasis on the need for negotiation and authentic connection in sexual experiences.
“The simplest of all luxuries is the freedom to pursue your pleasure.” – Shadeen Francis
Time Stamps for Beyond Sex: Understanding Desire
05:15 The challenge of identifying desire
17:58 The nuances of wanting vs. liking
25:01 Desire in sexual contexts
35:07 Negotiating wants in relationships
44:41 The impact of technology on desire
56:30 Desire as a tool for liberation
About our Guest – Shadeen Francis, LMFT, CST
Shadeen Francis is a licensed marriage and family psychotherapist and a board-certified sex therapist. Her expertise spans the domains of mental health, emotional intelligence, and the intersection of sexual wellness and social justice. A sought-after voice in her field, Shadeen has been featured on major networks including ABC, NBC, and CBS, and has been the subject matter expert for prominent brands such as Essence, Bumble, Tinder, and Teen Vogue. Shadeen’s work extends beyond the therapy room, influencing nationally implemented curricula, global media strategies, and public health policies. Known for her signature brand of warmth and humor, Shadeen’s work is inspired by her commitment to helping people live lives full of peace and pleasure.
Resources for Beyond Sex: Understanding Desire
shadeenfrancis.com – Shadeen’s website, resources, and other information
[email protected] – The best way to contact Shadeen
@shadeenfrancis – Shadeen’s Instagram handle
Get your copy of Secure Relating here!!
Interested in joining our exclusive community? Get early access and discounts to things we produce, plus a totally ad-free private feed. In addition, receive exclusive episodes recorded just for you. Sign up for our premium Neuronerd plan!! Click here!!
Find Upcoming Events here
Featured event: Ann and Sue are deep diving into clinical application of their work at the Psychotherapy Networker Symposium – March 20-23, 2025. It’s an incredible conference – they’d love to see you there!
Rethinking Attachment – Using the Attachment Spectrum in Clinical Practice
Please support our sponsors for this episode – they keep our podcast free and accessible to all!
Coffee alternative powered by mushrooms! Right now, you can get 20% off plus a FREE starter kit when you shop exclusively Piquelife.com/tu
More goodness for your body and mind – Ancient Nutrition is offering 25% off your first order when you go to AncientNutrition.com/TU
Integrative Attachment Therapy Course Information
Therapists: THIS is our recommended course experience for the most comprehensive training on attachment out there. Use our link for a discount!
Thanks for stopping by & for being on this journey with us!
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