What's it like to be a single woman at 40, and to think you want kids but know that you don't want to go it alone? What are the obstacles to motherhood for a single woman in Ireland, the expectations that make being single and childless tricky, and the other aspects of life as single at 40 that might make you "aggressively identify as single"?
In this episode of Bits of Me, I talk to Mary Coogan, a feminist activist and single woman in Dublin, who is passionate about challenging the stigma that surrounds being a single woman at 40. We talk about the lack of representation of happily single and childless women on screen; what it's like when all your friends, one by one, meet someone, settle down and have kids, and you're left behind; the difficulties of trying to get yourself set up as a single person in Dublin in such a way that you might be able to even consider trying to have a child on your own; the housing market and all the other instances where being single makes life harder; broodiness and how the yearning to be pregnant and give birth can get into your bones; how Ireland has changed as a result of the Yes vote in the referendum to repeal the 8th amendment, and lots more.
You can follow Mary on Twitter at @cosasiulacha or on Instagram on the same handle. On her blog, marymcoogan.wordpress.com, you can read her thoughts on feminism, politics and life as a single woman at 40. You'll find Bits of Me on Instagram as @bitsofme_podcast, and on Twitter as @bitsofme_pod. If you like the podcast, please rate and review it on iTunes and subscribe on your choice of podcast platform. Know anyone who would enjoy this particular episode? Please do share it with them!
Music: Ice and Snow by Icreage, licensed by Soundstripe.
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