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Why keeping your cool pays off in so many ways.
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The secret power of emotional neutrality.
Hi I'm Brian Pombo, welcome back to Brian J. Pombo Live.
I'm going to be talking about something that I just spoke about a few minutes ago, and had quite a long discussion.
It's called Brian J. Pombo Live, but by the time you're seeing this, it's probably not live, there's probably a recording. And our last recording, which I gave a great impassioned talk did not get recorded.
But it plays into tonight's topic, okay, emotional neutrality, I talk about being neutral being not one too far, one way or too far another, I'm gonna get into that in a second.
But first I want to let you know I have a book, if you haven't read it yet, you gotta go get a copy. It's called, 9 Ways to Amazon-Proof Your Business.
And it's specifically for business owners and executives, people that are in charge, and are able to steer the strategy of their businesses, go check it out, get a free copy at AmazonProofBook.com. Or you can get one wherever books are sold, including Amazon.com themselves.
So let's talk about emotional neutrality. Now, this comes back to one of the three pillars of my business.
I'm a business strategist, I help business owners and executives to be able to overcome obstacles and so forth. And one of the big things that I bring people back to is something that I call being reality grounded.
This is one of the three pillars, and it is probably the most important one.
Because if you're a reality grounded, you're not caught up in the emotions, and all the details of the day, you can step back and be able to see things clearly, at least eventually ends. But sometimes you get caught up. Sometimes there's a situation to where you're being tempted tend to be emotional about something.
I'm going to give you a situation that I ran into today. So in addition to writing a number of businesses, my wife has been writing a business since before we were married, which a property management business. And we had some tenants today, who had a plumbing issue that needed to be fixed.
And the plumber, who would normally handled this is not available until tomorrow, it's Super Bowl Sunday, they're probably going to have some people over at their house, they're really big football fans. I knew I needed to get in there and see what I can do see if I can at least try to fix it turns out all that was needed was a faucet need to be switched out.
And so when in there, went bought a new faucet, started taking it apart, and was having the toughest time figuring out how to get the mounting bolt off this thing, just with where it was situated, and everything else could not wrap my mind around how to do it, and how it was installed.
Because I know who installed it and tried to, I just could not figure it out. And all these different scenarios start running through my head, oh, yeah, you're gonna get them upset, or you know, the owner is going to get upset or this or that, you know, I'm gonna have to go back, my wife's gonna be upset.
All these different silly things that pop in your head at the time that seemed more important than they actually were. But I was able to pull back from the emotions and just go, you know,