In this episode of Going Inside, I’m joined by psychotherapist, meditation instructor, and author Ralph De La Rosa to explore his journey from trauma and addiction to becoming a leader in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Buddhist meditation. We dive into the powerful intersections between IFS and Buddhist principles, including how self-energy aligns with the awakened state and the role of reparenting our wounded parts. Ralph also shares insights from his new book, “Outshining Trauma: A New Vision of Radical Self-Compassion,” which provides a step-by-step guide for turning daily life into a healing journey.

Key Takeaways:

1. Self-energy in IFS aligns with the Buddhist concept of the awakened state, offering a foundation for reparenting wounded parts and fostering growth.
2. Trauma can condition us to mistake chaos for home, but cultivating peace and curiosity helps us reclaim a sense of balance.
3. True healing arises through deep self-awareness and compassion, allowing us to rediscover vitality, joy, and emotional intelligence.

Learn more about Ralph at:
https://ralphdelarosa.com/homepage

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