Button Downs And Basketball Shorts

By Jeff Miller & Tatsu Fushimi

Bucking the fear based narrative, Jeff and Tatsu explore topics in a fun and unique way in service of personal growth.... more

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June 25, 2024Ep 77: Judgment Is High Risk
There is so much separation and conflict in the world causing increased judgment. It runs rampant. Race, religion, politics, economic status, culture, and sexual orientation are intense topics infested by deep judgment. Separation and conflict are learned and passed down. Judgment is learned and passed down. Why is there so much separation and conflict in the world? Perhaps separation and conflict originate within ourselves creating self-judgment and, consequently, we mirror it outwardly. In this episode, we explore some nuances of judgment.
Relating to self-judgment in a certain way
Why do we judge ourselves?
When there’s fear in the space logic gets thrown out the window
Judgment beyond situations of safety and survival
Accepting judgment as facts
Judgment of others is a reflection of judgment of ourselves
Seeing opportunities to change internally
Being aware of the cost of being a certain way
Rigidity of identity
Seeing the pattern of how judgment is serving us
Rigidity is a breeding ground for judgment

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Connect with Jeff:
Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/
IG: @jeffmillercoaching
FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching

Connect with Tatsu:
Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/
IG: @tatsuyafushimi
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
...more
28min
June 18, 2024Ep 76: Wisdom From Injury And Sickness
Injury and sickness are powerfully distracting aspects of our human experience. The physical, mental, and emotional impact is undeniable. Uncomfortability comes with the territory. Therefore, we often jump to fixing the problem as soon as possible. We become fixated on the outcome of “back to health” for various reasons. However, what if we fully embraced the recovery process with curiosity? What wisdom could be drawn about our current life circumstances and about who we are?
Patience with the recovery process
Identifying root cause holistically when injured and sick
Reflecting on the bigger picture in hindsight
Major injuries pointed to spiritual awakening
Rejuvenation from injury
Learning patience with a change of pace
Recovery as access to self-worth

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Connect with Jeff:
Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/
IG: @jeffmillercoaching
FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching

Connect with Tatsu:
Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/
IG: @tatsuyafushimi
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
...more
24min
June 11, 2024Ep 75: On Grief With Dr. Nina Tilka
Dr. Nina Tilka is a licensed psychotherapist who earned her undergrad and master's degree in psychological research at California State University, Long Beach. She went on to earn her PhD in Clinical Psychology at Biola University. She currently runs her own practice called Belong Therapy. She supports clients through mental disorders and life stressors, and especially loves working with clients through grief. Her passion is to see people get better and flourish (mentally, spiritually, and physically). And find meaning in their lives. In this episode, we discuss various facets of grief.
Her path to practicing therapy and specializing in grief
The power of the grief journey
Trusting in clients’ individual processes
Accessing our full spectrum of emotions
Relating to grief in the short-term and long-term
The 5 Stages Of Grief
Common myths about grief
Creating meaning while grieving
Acknowledging others’ experience
Leaning into creativity to process grief

Links mentioned:
Dr. Nina Tilka’s website: https://www.belongtherapy.com
Instagram: @dr.ninatilka
Elisabeth Kübler-Ross and David Kessler: On Grief And Grieving
https://www.amazon.com/Grief-Grieving-Finding-Meaning-Through/dp/1476775559/

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Connect with Jeff:
Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/
IG: @jeffmillercoaching
FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching

Connect with Tatsu:
Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/
IG: @tatsuyafushimi
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
...more
43min
June 04, 2024Ep 74: The Flow State
When’s the last time you were in a state of flow? How would you describe it? How did it feel? When we get a taste of that divine sense of ease, we tend to try to re-create it and reverse engineer our actions leading up to the flow. Interestingly enough, attempts at controlling and overanalyzing work against flow, like trying to swim against the current. In this episode, we discuss nuances of the flow state and our relationship to it.
Being present without forcing presence
Trying to duplicate the flow state
Letting go of control increases the possibility of flow
Flow and alignment
Overthinking leads to worry and expectations
Connecting to what lights you up
Inspiration starts from within

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Connect with Jeff:
Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/
IG: @jeffmillercoaching
FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching

Connect with Tatsu:
Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/
IG: @tatsuyafushimi
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
...more
30min
May 28, 2024Ep 73: Embracing Change
Change can be challenging and exciting. Regardless, change will continue to happen and much of it is out of our control. Rather than resist change, we can choose to embrace it. Easier said than done of course. Understanding our fears, listening to our intuition, and practicing the courage to show up in alignment with our true selves are critical to embracing change. In this episode, we discuss our thoughts about change and recent challenges.
Disempowered vs. empowered relationship to change
Things out of our control
Change rocks our identity
My most recent biggest change
Cultivating a sense of home within
Non-transactional way of being
Slowing down
Intuition leading us through change
Intentional practice in responding to change
Embracing change for what?

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Connect with Jeff:
Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/
IG: @jeffmillercoaching
FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching

Connect with Tatsu:
Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/
IG: @tatsuyafushimi
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
...more
28min
May 21, 2024Ep 72: The Comfort Zone
The comfort zone is dynamic and constantly changing. Our awareness of the edge and intention to push the edge outward is critical for growth. Pushing the edge creates stress on our minds and bodies. Therefore, doing so with a big purpose and deep meaning would be valuable to transmute the stress into further inspiration. The compounding of stress for little purpose is unsustainable and unfavorable. In this episode, we explore nuances of the comfort zone.
Stepping into and out of the comfort zone
It takes time to create a comfort zone
The comfort zone is constantly changing
Awareness of our progress
Knowing the edge
Bigger purpose naturally pushes us out of our comfort zone
Comparison traps aren’t sustainable
Reflecting on ourselves is key

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Connect with Jeff:
Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/
IG: @jeffmillercoaching
FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching

Connect with Tatsu:
Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/
IG: @tatsuyafushimi
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
...more
31min
May 14, 2024Ep 71: Start With Forgiveness
Forgiveness may sound simple, but it’s not easy. And it requires a tremendous range of self-awareness and deep connection to the heart. Self-forgiveness may be the access point to the peace, joy, fulfillment, creativity, and purpose we are all searching for. Therefore, it may be one of the most powerful practices for humans. Said this way, it doesn’t sound so simple anymore.
Forgive and forget?
Different levels of forgiveness
Awareness of attachment to the past
Head vs. heart
Forgiving self before others
Forgiveness is a process
Expanding awareness around feelings of resentment, shame, and guilt
Curiosity with internal triggers and judgment

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Connect with Jeff:
Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/
IG: @jeffmillercoaching
FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching

Connect with Tatsu:
Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/
IG: @tatsuyafushimi
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
...more
30min
May 07, 2024Ep 70: Reframing Failure
We typically have a strong aversion to identifying as a failure. Many of us learned to fear failure at an early age because it meant an ocean of disempowering beliefs about ourselves. The word fail is laced with judgment and shame. And this has been passed down for generations. But what if we recreated our relationship to failure? How would our way of being shift? How much more could we grow? In this episode, we discuss nuances surrounding failure.
Disempowering relationship to failure
Failure defined early on including through public education
Failing vs. being a failure
Patience and failure
Reframing relationship to words
Pivoting
Learning to accept paradox as a broader reframe

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Connect with Jeff:
Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/
IG: @jeffmillercoaching
FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching

Connect with Tatsu:
Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/
IG: @tatsuyafushimi
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
...more
32min
April 30, 2024Ep 69: What Distracts You?
Distractions can help and hurt us. How aware are we of the distractions all around us? Are we making excuses for distractions to validate them? Are we using distractions to avoid commitments? It is important to periodically assess whether our activity and inactivity are in alignment with our commitments and goals.
Distractions from what?
Intention with choice
Habits and distractions
Commitments and your what for?
Judgment of self and others can be a distraction
Identifying priorities holistically
Awareness of automatic behaviors and avoidance

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Connect with Jeff:
Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/
IG: @jeffmillercoaching
FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching

Connect with Tatsu:
Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/
IG: @tatsuyafushimi
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
...more
31min
April 23, 2024Ep 68: What’s The Vulnerable Support You Need?
How practiced are you at asking for support? How clear are you about the support you actually need? Many of us are conditioned to be good at giving help and offering it but not at receiving help or asking for it. Offering to give help and asking to receive help are doorways to deeper connection and intimacy. However, an overall imbalance in giving and receiving support can create depletion and stagnation of energy. Further, getting supported on a surface level is entirely different from on a deeper vulnerable level.
Vulnerability in asking for support
Being clear on what you need
Costs of not being supported
From fully supported in the womb to not needing full support afterwards
Shame and support
Expectations and independence
Self-judgment and judgment from others
Saying “Yes” to support
Simply sharing what you’re up to can invite support

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Connect with Jeff:
Website: https://jeffmillercoaching.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeffmillercoaching/
IG: @jeffmillercoaching
FB: https://www.facebook.com/jeff.miller.7965
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/jeffmillercoaching

Connect with Tatsu:
Website: https://tatsuyafushimi.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tatsuyafushimi/
IG: @tatsuyafushimi
FB: https://www.facebook.com/tatsuya.fushimi.9/
Books: https://www.amazon.com/author/tatsuyafushimi
...more
30min

FAQs about Button Downs And Basketball Shorts:

How many episodes does Button Downs And Basketball Shorts have?

The podcast currently has 147 episodes available.