By the Bi

In this episode, we talk with our good friends Naughty and Rocket of Naughty3some fame on Twitter. We were lucky enough to spend a few days traveling the west coast of Australia with them and convinced them we should record a podcast in between adventures.  

Along with their history and background, we'll discuss swinging in more remote, less populated areas. We also talk about last years Passion in Paradise trip where we all met face to face for the first time and this year's impending trip to Desire in Mexico. (Needless to say, we are all pretty excited!)

So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!  

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Holy shit we've made it. 100 episodes!!! From the first 13 episodes where our sound was, admittedly terrible, to all of the education and naughtiness in between; we have been through a lot the last 2 years.

Join us as we remember the highlights of this podcast. The things we have done, the pictures we took, the friends we've made. Speaking of friends we have a few of them on here. We talk to many of your favorites in this episode about how THEIR lives have changed since we've been producing podcasts.

Thank you so much for sticking with us so far! We will do our best to ensure the next hundred episodes are better than the first!

So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!  

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Hello constant listener! As you know, we've told the "How We Started Swinging" story many a time but we've never let you into our "How We Met" story... UNTIL NOW!

This week we talk about our own origin story and just like Bruce Banner and Tony Stark, it's kinda sordid. The Hulk and Ironman have nothing on our origin story! You'll hear about how we met, our first date, our first hookup, when we finally decided to become an item, and when we got engaged.

This one is all about history and it's as sexy as it is silly.  

So go grab a drink! Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!  

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Hello, constant listener and new listeners alike!  This week we review our weekend that had two nights spent at Our Secret Spot including a Sex Ed in the City class and OSS's 4th birthday party which had the place packed to the gills with sexiness. 

There was also a crew from SBS filming for a show called Insight on Friday night and we give that crew a very honest, albeit harsh, review. 

We also talk about Mr. Atom putting himself out there to ask a lady to play and, in our question of the week, we discuss any dirty thoughts we had this week.

All in all this episode is naughty naughty naughty.  (I know like a normal week isn't!) 

So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!  

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This week we are ecstatic to present an interview we had with the amazing Lucie Bee - Sex Worker, Geek, Queer, Activist, Pornstar... The list of this young lady's accomplishments goes on and on.  She's on You Can't Ask That, Triple J, Sexpo Australia, PAX, and featured on the cover of Penthouse magazine. 

Lucie sat down with us and we discussed everything from sex work and how we can help make folks safer, to filming porn and pornography, to anal sex... Yeah, we cover A LOT in this hour.  Her passion and enthusiasm for her work are only matched by how approachable and honest she is.  This was such a fun podcast to record.

So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!  

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Hello, all and welcome back.  This week we come at you from The Ovation of the Seas.  We start by talking about vacation sex and what makes it so damn amazing and what we can ALL do to make our home sex lives similar to our away sex lives.

Next, we had an email in our inbox from a listener about our headspace episodes that we wanted to read a few experts from and comment on.  As ALWAYS thank you to those who write in to us!

Lastly, we talk porn.  We recently had a twitter message asking us what kind of porn we recommend; so we give that one an answer.

So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!  

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NOTE: We are NOT trained therapists, doctors, or advice givers.  We are a couple of sexy freaks who thought it important to chat about something we ALL deal with: depression and how it comingles within the lifestyle.

If you feel trapped and like you have nowhere to go and you need to speak with someone please please reach out to one of the many hotlines that can help you!

In Australia: Lifeline (13 11 14) is a 24-hour nationwide service that provides access to crisis support, suicide prevention, and mental health support services.  They also offer an online chat service.

In the US:  The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-TALK [8255]) is a United States-based suicide prevention network of 161 crisis centers that provides a 24/7, toll-free hotline available to anyone in suicidal crisis or emotional distress.

Or find someone in your country here!

Finally, there is one that we think is extremely important:

The Trevor Project is a US-based organization that provides crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning youth.

While The Trevor Project is technically based in the US but they have a phone number, email support, online chat, and text support and can point you towards someone local who will listen to you and support you!

On with the show notes...

In this episode, we continue our talks about negative headspace and the pressures that, specifically, ladies put on themselves. 

We address putting our emotions in boxes and the dangers with that.  We also discuss letting go and allowing yourself to have fun by learning to ask for what you need and what you want.  

So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!  

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NOTE: We are NOT trained therapists, doctors, or advice givers.  We are a couple of sexy freaks who thought it important to chat about something we ALL deal with: depression and how it comingles within the lifestyle.

If you feel trapped and like you have nowhere to go and you need to speak with someone please please reach out to one of the many hotlines that can help you!

In Australia: Lifeline (13 11 14) is a 24-hour nationwide service that provides access to crisis support, suicide prevention, and mental health support services.  They also offer an online chat service.

In the US:  The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-TALK [8255]) is a United States-based suicide prevention network of 161 crisis centers that provides a 24/7, toll-free hotline available to anyone in suicidal crisis or emotional distress.

Or find someone in your country here!

Finally, there is one that we think is extremely important:

The Trevor Project is a US-based organization that provides crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and questioning youth.

While The Trevor Project is technically based in the US but they have a phone number, email support, online chat, and text support and can point you towards someone local who will listen to you and support you!

On with the show notes...

In this episode, we talk about an issue all of us have, negative headspace.  We attempt to deal with our own demons as we talk about the chemical imbalances that can make what should be an amazing night seem like work. 

From depression to body image to work pressures to second-guessing ourselves to self-acceptance.  We let you in on a bit of what makes us tick.  For those of you who want a resolution... we are still working on that; Rome wasn't built in a day!

So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!  

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Hello, constant listeners (and new listeners alike)!

In this episode, we give you a rambling glimpse into our weekends.  We talk about all of our escapades (that we CAN talk about) from this past weekend and you learn why we need more sleep!!! 

Listen as we discuss what is getting us excited for the future, our experience at Empire Strips Back, a Star Wars themed burlesque show, a fetish buy/swap/sell, an amazing date, and the official opening to the 40th anniversary of Sydney Mardi Gras, Fair Day!

Then we had a question about the number of times we've had sex in a day...  I am going to post a Twitter poll (and a Facebook poll if I can figure it out) to get an idea of YOUR numbers, so please go check it out!  

So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!  

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HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!!

In this episode, we talk about the mistakes we ALL can make in the bedroom!  How many of these are we guilty of?  More than we might like to admit!  We go through our list and highlight the mistakes and the things that we've done to overcome them.  It isn't always easy to change but it's definitely always worth the effort to build a stronger and happier relationship!

So go grab a drink!  Then, sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening!  

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