Are you an AI user?  Do you find yourself chatting with AI about things in your life?

How about regarding your marriage??

If you are using AI as a resource to save your marriage, I have one suggestion:  STOP!

Over the past few years (as AI chats have become more popular), I have heard from more and more people about how AI marked the end of their marriage.  Some reported a spouse becoming enamored with the chat.  Some reported a spouse "discovering" from AI that they needed to end the marriage (which is less about the wisdom of AI, and more the result of how AI is built). Some have reported a spouse (or even themselves) asking for advice on how to respond to an argument.

The end results?

Certainly, not improvements in the marriage.  Mostly, the outcome was poor.  To the point of divorce, in many cases.

This isn't the fault of AI.  It was never intended for this purpose.

But since so many people are turning to AI these days, I thought it might be time for us to talk about this (I first typed "chat," but thought better of it).

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