The Meaningful Life with Andrew G. Marshall

Carolyn Sharp: Keep the Spark Alive in Your Relationship


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How do you keep the spark alive in your relationship when there are kids involved and you have ten, twenty, or thirty years on the clock?

This week I talk to CAROLYN SHARP, a US-based marital therapist, and the author of Fire It Up: Four Secrets to Reigniting Intimacy and Joy in Your Relationship. We cover:

  • Purpose: could you define a purpose for your marriage?
  • Sex: how to talk about it honestly and effectively. 
  • Conflict: handling disagreements better
  • Happiness: the habits that create lasting joy
  • Acceptance: how practicing radical acceptance will feed your relationship. 
  • Carolyn has a master of social work from Portland State University and has extensive training in attachment, neuroscience, trauma, and mindfulness. She is an experienced couples therapist and coach, with twenty-five years of training and practice in helping people build vital, vibrant, and secure functioning relationships through one-on-one and group couples coaching, workshops, retreats, and intensives. She and her husband and dogs live in northern Massachusetts.

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    This week supporters will hear:

    • How to totally accept your partner
    • Three Things Carolyn Sharp knows to be true. 
    • AND subscribers also access all of our previous bonus content - a rich trove of insight on love, life and meaning created by Andrew and his interviewees.
    • Follow Up

      Get Andrew’s free guide to difficult conversations with your partner: How to Tell Your Partner Difficult Things 

      Attend Andrew's new men's retreat, Reconnect With Yourself, this autumn in the Brandenberg countryside near Berlin 

      Read Carolyn Sharp’s book, Fire It Up: Four Secrets to Reigniting Intimacy and Joy in Your Relationship. 

      Take a look at Carolyn Sharp’s retreats and couple coaching work, or at her therapy website

      Follow Carolyn Sharp on TikTok, Facebook and Instagram @secureconnectionscoach and on YouTube @carolynsharp9053

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      Andrew offers regular advice on love, marriage and finding meaning in your life via his social channels. Follow him on Twitter, Facebook and YouTube @andrewgmarshall 




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