In this conversation, Destini Ann and Dr. Martin discuss conscious parenting and the importance of respecting children. They explore the difference between obedience and discipline, and how conscious parenting focuses on building relationships and fostering respect. They also touch on the unique challenges faced by Black parents and the need to challenge traditional parenting norms. The conversation highlights the importance of allowing children to ask questions and express themselves, while also setting boundaries and ensuring their safety. In this conversation, Destini Ann and Dr. Martin discuss the importance of respectful parenting and empowering children. They challenge the narrative that being tough on kids prepares them for the real world, emphasizing the need to support and uplift children, especially Black and Brown children. They highlight the importance of teaching children critical thinking, problem-solving, and effective communication skills. The conversation also touches on the challenges of parenting in a school environment that may not align with respectful parenting principles. They discuss the need for parents to recognize and address their own internalized beliefs and traumas to create a safe and empowering environment for their children. The conversation concludes with a discussion about the benefits of joining parenting communities and the resources available in Destini Ann's parenting community on the School app.

 

Takeaways

• Conscious parenting emphasizes building relationships and fostering respect with children.
• Obedience can lead to resentment, while respect leads to relationships.
• Black parents face unique challenges and need to challenge traditional parenting norms.
• Children should be allowed to ask questions and express themselves in a respectful manner.
• Setting boundaries and ensuring children's safety are important aspects of parenting. Being tough on kids does not prepare them for the real world; it is more important to support and uplift them.

Bio

 

Destini Ann is a compassionate and relatable source for navigating motherhood! She takes the psychology of parenting and turns it into fun, digestible content for her community. Destini challenges the norms of parenting by offering a safe space to have tough conversations. She teaches with empathy and empowers moms to shift the culture of their homes to more intention, grace, and presence.