Today on ND Couples Coaches' Corner, Dr. Stephanie and Barbara Grant continue the series on the month-long series examining how Scripture is sometimes misused by spiritual authorities—such as clergy, small-group leaders, biblical counselors, and Christian counselors—in ways that shame or further harm those who are already experiencing abuse in their marriages.
In this special series, Twisted Scripture: When the Bible Is Weaponized, we take a careful and thoughtful look at passages that are frequently used in ways that silence the vulnerable or pressure victims to remain in harmful situations.
 Today's Guest: Author of Life-Saving Divorce, Gretchen Baskerville
Some of today's verses included Malachi 2:16 and passages in Mark 10 and Matthew 19 about divorce.
 Short bio
Gretchen Baskerville is a Christian divorce recovery leader and author. She began leading support groups for single mothers in conservative churches in the Los Angeles area in 1998 and now focuses primarily on reaching people online.
 For more than 25 years, Gretchen has helped women and men of faith find strength, courage, and healing through the challenges of life-saving divorce. She listens with empathy to those recovering from domestic violence, betrayal, infidelity, addiction, and emotional abuse.
 A survivor of a toxic marriage herself, Gretchen understands the journey of rebuilding after loss. Following her own life-saving divorce and years as a single mother, she is now happily remarried.
 She is a graduate of Wheaton College with a degree in Bible and Christian Education.
 Definition:
What’s a Life-Saving Divorce?
A Life-Saving Divorce is the opposite of an “I’m bored” divorce, or an “I miss the party life” divorce. It is a divorce for serious reasons: to find relief from a pattern of sexual immorality, physical violence, chronic emotional abuse, felony behavior, family-crushing addictions, or abandonment through neglect and indifference.
 Links to my resources

• The Life-Saving Divorce: Hope for People Leaving Destructive Relationships
• Book (paperback/eBook/audiobook page): https://amzn.to/3J3vXa7
• Audiobook (direct link): https://amzn.to/4f52Mh4
• Website & Blog: https://lifesavingdivorce.com/
• Pastor Education page: https://lifesavingdivorce.com/pastor-education-domestic-violence-biblical-response/
• Gumroad (EPUB + PDF download): https://gumroad.com/lsp
  • For those who share an Amazon account with their abuser.

Social media

• Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/lifesavingdivorce.bsky.social
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lifesavingdivorce
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gretchenbaskerville/
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lifesavingdivorce
• Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/GGBaskerville
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gretchen-baskerville-2873591b5/

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