A seminar focusing on the topic of codependency, both in relationships and our entire life.

Many interesting areas have been covered, that also include Q&A.

-> The Summoning the Self course is out now https://spartanlifecoach-com.mykajabi.com/offers/6LTjhmzZ

-> This is a brand-new course (as of August 2020) dealing with issues related to CODEPENDENCY and people pleasing.

(00:58) We Need Neuroplasticity to Make a Lasting Change

(03:11) Marks Left by the Stressed Parents & a Master-slave Dynamic

(08:04) It's Challenging for the Ego to Admit That We're Traumatized

(10:42) The One Piece of Source Code That Ruins the Relationships

(11:52) Fear of Abandonment and the Origins of the Fear of Negative Emotions

(15:15) What Does Fawning Mean?

(17:30) Everybody's an Avatar, Trauma Bonding & Intensity of the Relationship

(21:39) Why is the Sex So Good?

(22:39) Moving Towards the True Self

(24:33) Being Aware of Our Fawning

(26:42) I'll Do Me, You Do You Concept for Codependents

(28:11) Is Boundried Helping for Social Workers Possible & the Reality of Social/service Work

(32:03) Richard's Personal Example of Codependency & Unconscious Positive Intents

(33:34) Are Addictions Related to Unresolved Trauma in a Person?

(34:53) Is Codependency an Addiction, if So, Can You Be Free From It? (Conditioning vs. Addiction)

(39:04) Would You Ironically Start Helping the Narcissist if You Start Playing "the Game"

(40:33) How Can You Manage Your Relationship With a Narcissist?

(41:58) Different Cultural Coordinates & Narcissism/Codependency in Relationships

(46:56) Is There a Link Between Autism and NPD?

(50:07) Are People More Mentally Ill Than They Were 50 Years Ago?

(52:44) Why Can't I Condemn My Narcissistic Girlfriend? Why Do I Pull Away Instead?

(55:58) Saying "The Narcissist" Instead of "My Narcissist"