Coffee + Crumbs Podcast

Today we're talking with Aundi Kolber—a mother, professional counselor, and author—about motherhood and trauma. For many of us, trauma is a word we have reserved for people who have gone through life-altering, dangerous, or abusive experiences, and we have never given attention to the "little t traumas" that add up over a lifetime. No matter where you are, or what you've survived, Aundi compassionately walks us through this important conversation on honoring your story, learning how to be a mother even if you didn't have a great example, and taking care of yourself so you can, in turn, take care of others. You'll also learn a few ways to parent with empathy, so you can guide your children through their own pain. Whether you've endured a devastating circumstance, or many months of overwhelm, we hope this episode encourages you to make space for healing.

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In this honest and vulnerable episode, Katie talks with Sonya, Melanie, and Julie, three Coffee + Crumbs team members who were all diagnosed with breast cancer between 2020 and 2022. You'll hear how all of these women felt or discovered something abnormal on their own and advocated for themselves to follow up on their intuition. You'll listen in on the emotions that accompanied the agony of waiting for test results. They'll let us in on how they shared the news with their kids. And mostly, you'll hear from each of these women how cancer has forever changed them.

This episode takes us up close to women who have had a life-altering diagnosis, and our hope is that by listening, we can all learn empathy, compassion, or – if this diagnosis is yours – a way to walk forward with both courage and grace for yourself.

This show is brought to you ad-free by our generous and loving Patreon community. If you'd like to support the work we do for as little as $1/month, head to Patreon.com/coffeeandcrumbs to join the party (where we host discussions after every episode, offer bonus content, and more!). For show notes, go to coffeeandcrumbs.net/podcast.

For more encouragement in your motherhood journey, check out the stories at Coffee + Crumbs.

Do you ever feel like you spend too much time on your phone? Today we're chatting with author Hannah Brencher about her 1,000 Unplugged Hours Challenge and how her creativity, marriage, and mothering have flourished since she's started putting down her phone more often. Unplugging isn't always easy (no more scrolling during date night arguments!), but as Hannah gently reminds us, there's plenty of life to enjoy, even when we're unavailable to the rest of the world. Whether you print Hannah's tracker sheet, or simply take a quick inventory of your own habits, we hope this conversation encourages you to reclaim more of the beautiful life in front of you.

This show is brought to you ad-free by our generous and loving Patreon community. If you'd like to support the work we do for as little as $1/month, head to Patreon.com/coffeeandcrumbs to join the party (where we host discussions after every episode, offer bonus content, and more!). For show notes, go to coffeeandcrumbs.net/podcast.

For more encouragement in your motherhood journey, check out the stories at Coffee + Crumbs.

Today we're diving into the nuance of technology—acknowledging the good parts (access to information! efficiency! staying connected!) and the hard parts (overstimulation! addiction! lack of boundaries!). Plus, we take a sweet stroll down memory lane into some 90's nostalgia. Whether you're a tech guru or a digital minimalist, we hope this conversation encourages you as you continue navigating how to use the Internet wisely in 2022.

This show is brought to you ad-free by our generous and loving Patreon community. If you'd like to support the work we do for as little as $1/month, head to Patreon.com/coffeeandcrumbs to join the party (where we host discussions after every episode, offer bonus content, and more!). For show notes, go to coffeeandcrumbs.net/podcast.

For more encouragement in your motherhood journey, check out the stories at Coffee + Crumbs.

It's the last episode of the season, and today we're chatting about what makes a Fun Mom™. Confession: two out of three of us struggle with this, but we're tapping into our younger selves and discovering what makes us feel light and free. Everything from riding scooters with our kids, to simply creating spaces that empower them to find the magic themselves. Whether you're the mom dancing around the house wearing a feather boa or the mom simply orchestrating opportunities for delight behind the scenes, we hope this episode helps you embrace whatever type of unique fun YOU bring to your family. After all, fun is the opposite of frivolous—it's rooted in joy, and we could all use an extra dose of that.

This show is brought to you ad-free by our generous and loving Patreon community. If you'd like to support the work we do for as little as $1/month, head to Patreon.com/coffeeandcrumbs to join the party (where we host discussions after every episode, offer bonus content, and more!). For show notes, go to coffeeandcrumbs.net/podcast.

For more encouragement in your motherhood journey, check out the stories at Coffee + Crumbs.

Today's episode is a bit more vulnerable than our regularly scheduled programming. We're sharing a few honest stories about moments we wish we could take back, change, or at the very least, do over. While we don't want to live in a perpetual state of should've, could've, would've—these moments have refined us and taught us something, which is why we're sharing them with you today.

This show is brought to you ad-free by our generous and loving Patreon community. If you'd like to support the work we do for as little as $1/month, head to Patreon.com/coffeeandcrumbs to join the party (where we host discussions after every episode, offer bonus content, and more!). For show notes, go to coffeeandcrumbs.net/podcast.

For more encouragement in your motherhood journey, check out the stories at Coffee + Crumbs.

Disclaimer: You may fill up your Amazon cart by the end of this episode (we did). Today, we're talking about our favorite books of 2022 (so far) and what we're excited to read with our feet up in lounge chairs this summer. From novels, to classics, to non-fiction books that challenge us to live more peaceful and joyful lives, we're covering all sorts of categories—but we seem to be finding our groove in food memoirs?! Here's to stories that shape and change us in the best ways. Can't wait to hear what you've been reading, too.

This show is brought to you ad-free by our generous and loving Patreon community. If you'd like to support the work we do for as little as $1/month, head to Patreon.com/coffeeandcrumbs to join the party (where we host discussions after every episode, offer bonus content, and more!).

For more encouragement in your motherhood journey, check out the stories at Coffee + Crumbs.

With summer around the corner, today we're sharing our best tips and tricks for traveling with kids. From packing an extra pacifier (in a different suitcase!) to always, always, always packing plastic bags—these travel hacks are, of course, inspired by personal experience. We also share our favorite mantras, lessons we learned the hard way, and the travel MVPs we've added to our bags of tricks over the years. Plus, you'll hear Ashlee and Katie gasp in disbelief at Jill's gross-but-heartwarming story about something a stranger did for her at an airport. This episode is sponsored by our favorite travel MVP of all time: SNACKS. (Just kidding. We have no sponsors. This episode is brought to you by our Patrons. As always.)

Whether you're heading out for a long weekend or an international adventure this summer, we hope you have a memorable time! Don't forget: just say no to supersize Gatorade.

For more encouragement in your motherhood journey, check out the stories at Coffee + Crumbs.

We're honored to have Shekea Moreno on the show today, shining some light on the holy work of praying for our kids. We chat about why prayer is so important in the first place, some ideas for what to pray about (besides the one we all know a little too well: our kids' obedience 😉), and maybe most importantly, the reminder that prayer is what tethers us to God's presence, and that's what we need most in motherhood. This show is brought to you ad-free by our generous and loving Patreon community. If you'd like to support the work we do for as little as $1/month, head to Patreon.com/coffeeandcrumbs to join the party (where we host discussions after every episode, offer bonus content, and more!).

For more encouragement in your motherhood journey, check out the stories at Coffee + Crumbs.

From less-than-perfect dental hygiene to hoarding half a dozen beverages on the nightstand, today we're dishing about the little quirks that make us who we are, inspired by the "I Can't Be The Only One" chapter of Amy Krause Rosenthal's Textbook. Join us for a number of (mostly shallow but occasionally deep) confessions, including but not limited to: throw up foods, the sheer satisfaction of carrying groceries in from the car in a single trip, and our complicated feelings around Botox and TikTok. This show is brought to you ad-free by our generous and loving Patreon community. If you'd like to support the work we do for as little as $1/month, head to Patreon.com/coffeeandcrumbs to join the party (where we host discussions after every episode, offer bonus content, and more!). For more encouragement in your motherhood journey, check out the stories at Coffee + Crumbs.