"Come On, Man" Podcast

Hypergamy and the mate switching hypothesis explain the two mating tracks running at once inside every relationship, and this episode breaks down 10 signals that show up before an affair ever goes physical. Paul Bauer covers the backup men she keeps active through work and old flames, the sudden appearance upgrade with no occasion behind it, the pulling back that protects her from guilt, and why building the man she can't replace is the actual fix.

VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:

Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMF

Watch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZ

Watch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz

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FREE EBOOKS

➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com
➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us
➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com

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BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS

➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod
➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks

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A sexless marriage takes a toll on testosterone, sleep, and cardiovascular health in ways men already feel but never connect to the bedroom, and this episode breaks them all down. Paul Bauer covers the mental health toll of chronic rejection, the physical decline hiding in routine bloodwork, and how Get Her to F*ck You Again and its companion workbook give men the exact steps to rebuild attraction instead of guessing.

VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:

Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMF

Watch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZ

Watch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz

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FREE EBOOKS

➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com
➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us
➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com

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BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS

➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod
➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks

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FOLLOW ME

Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpod
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COMMUNITIES

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Dead bedroom marriage and sexless relationship problems often trace back to shit tests men fail without realizing it, and this excerpt from Get Her to F*ck You Again breaks down why. Paul Bauer covers why shit tests intensify the longer a marriage goes on as men slip into complacency and lose the frame she originally married, why emotional stability determines whether you pass or fail, and why reacting defensively is the exact signal that kills attraction in a sexless marriage.

➡️ Grab Get Her To F*ck You Again: https://mybook.to/GHTFYA

The Hermetic Law of Gender and the conscious versus subconscious mind explain why most men send contradictory signals without realizing it, and this episode breaks down the exact mechanics behind it. Paul Bauer covers why a passing thought changes nothing, why real internal coherence reads as genuine while performed confidence doesn't, how quantum electrodynamics backs up an idea that's thousands of years old, and why most men are only using half their available creative power.

VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:

Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMF

Watch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZ

Watch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz

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FREE EBOOKS

➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com
➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us
➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com

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BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS

➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod
➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks

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FOLLOW ME

Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpod
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COMMUNITIES

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The Art of Dating author, Nuclear Caudillo, joins me to break down red pill dating advice built from four years of real dates, not theory, including the 48 hour rule and why attraction has an expiration date. This episode covers learned charisma, outcome independence, the contenders list, logistics as the foundation of game, and why he says he's not a good man on purpose, plus the six step method for turning one bar into your home field.

➡️ The Art of Dating: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0HCKJL6SX
➡️ Follow Nuke on X: https://x.com/CaudilloNuclear
➡️ Follow Nuke on Substack: https://nuclearcaudillo.substack.com/

VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:

Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMF

Watch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZ

Watch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz

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FREE EBOOKS

➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com
➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us

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BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS

➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod
➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks

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FOLLOW ME

Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpod
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COMMUNITIES

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AI (ChatGPT, Claude, Grok, Gemini) relationship advice and marriage counseling both fail men with a dead bedroom because both are built on the same broken communication model, and Paul Bauer breaks down exactly where that model goes wrong.

This episode covers the real difference between an attraction problem and a communication problem, why AI hedges on red pill topics instead of answering directly, the gynocentric default baked into every chatbot response, and what praxeology actually means when applied to relationships.

VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:

Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMF

Watch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZ

Watch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz

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FREE EBOOKS

➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com
➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us
➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com

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BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS

➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod
➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks

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FOLLOW ME

Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpod
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COMMUNITIES

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Law of cause and effect, quantum observer effect, and paradigms running your subconscious thoughts determine every result in your life, whether you realize it or not. Paul Bauer breaks down the Hermetic Principle of Cause and Effect, why karma and this concept overlap but differ on timing, why mental causes outrank physical ones, the self-sealing belief loop that keeps a man stuck without him knowing why, and how his habitual thought patterns are already broadcasting a frequency into the world right now.

VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:

Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMF

Watch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZ

Watch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz

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FREE EBOOKS

➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com
➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us
➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com

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BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS

➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod
➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks

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FOLLOW ME

Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpod
Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/
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Divorce recovery for men and co-parenting after a breakup put your frame, your bitterness, and your nice guy programming on permanent display for everyone watching, including your kids. Paul Bauer breaks down the 10 behavioral signals men send after a divorce that quietly destroy their authority, from victim mentality and covert contracts to tolerating disrespect, and what it actually takes to become the version of yourself your children copy instead of the one they learn to manage.

VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:

Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMF

Watch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZ

Watch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz

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FREE EBOOKS

➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com
➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us
➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com

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BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS

➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod
➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks

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FOLLOW ME

Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpod
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COMMUNITIES

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Marriage advice for men who need a specific answer about their own marriage, not generic relationship advice written for the average guy. If your marriage is in trouble — a dead bedroom, a separation, or a divorce you didn't see coming — this is where you get an answer built around your situation.

Sponsor next week's video and I'll read your story, then answer your question in a dedicated 20 to 30 minute video.

➡️ Claim next week's spot here: https://video.comeonmanpod.com

Generic marriage advice fails because it was never written about your wife, your kids, your house, or your paycheck. You've read the books. You've watched the videos. Nothing changes because nothing addressed what's actually happening at your address.

What you get when you sponsor a video:

A personal 20 to 30 minute video where I talk through your email and your question. Direct advice for your situation and what you need right now. A chance to hear how I'd respond to you before you commit to coaching. Your name is left out or changed to protect your anonymity.

Who this is for:

Married men dealing with a dead bedroom or a sexless marriage. Men going through a divorce or a separation. Men recovering from a breakup. Men over 35 getting back into dating. If you've been looking for marriage advice for men and everything you find is written for somebody else's marriage, start here.

How it works:

Sponsor the spot, reply to the welcome email with your story, and I'll answer your question on a dedicated live stream at 5pm ET on YouTube, Facebook, and Rumble. You get a link to the video once it's scheduled.

I'm Paul Bauer. I host the "Come On, Man" Podcast and I coach men through dead bedrooms, divorce, breakups, and dating again. Marriage advice for men who want an answer that fits their marriage.

➡️ Sponsor next week's video: https://video.comeonmanpod.com

Master bedroom domination, physical initiation, and female psychology to establish genuine authority and intense desire during intimacy. Today we break down male frame control, passive dread, variable reward mechanisms, and post-intimacy bonding strategies.

Direct sensory focus, maintain calm certainty, and eliminate predictable routines to build lasting emotional attachment.

VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT:

Watch this playlist to figure out how to fix your failing marriage: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPuu_G8-sTLS7eXT7myvidMF

Watch this playlist to help you get over your ex for good: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPsZ9JCTSAIkin-oMnavqNJZ

Watch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz

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FREE EBOOKS

➡️ She's Made You Weak: https://ebook.fixdeadbedrooms.com
➡️ Fine... Here's How You Get Her Back: https://ebook.getoveryourex.us
➡️ The 4 Magic $3X Positions: https://sexytime.fixdeadbedrooms.com

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BOOKS AND WORKBOOKS

➡️ Find all of my books here: https://mybook.to/comeonmanpod
➡️ Find all of my workbooks here: https://mybook.to/RPWorkbooks

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FOLLOW ME

Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpod
Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/
Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast
Follow on X - https://x.com/bestmenspod
Follow on Gettr - https://gettr.com/user/comeonmanpod
Follow on Truth - https://truthsocial.com/@comeonmanpod
Follow on Substack - https://substack.com/@comeonmanpod

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COMMUNITIES

➡️ Join The W.O.L.F. Pack: https://wolf.comeonmanpod.com/
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