By Brian Janes and John Duerler
Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers.
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In this heartfelt conversation, Brian and John celebrate National Coming Out Day with their guest Debbie, who shares the touching story of her son Cody's coming out experience. The discussion explores the challenges and triumphs of coming out, the importance of parental support, and the role of community in fostering acceptance. Debbie reflects on her initial reactions, the dynamics within her family, and offers valuable advice to parents and children navigating similar journeys. The episode emphasizes love, acceptance, and the courage it takes to be true to oneself.
Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men.
There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.
MOVEMBER donation links: How do I donate?
1. Copy the link for your preferred currency
2. Choose the amount you want to donate
3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button
4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country). Links below:
Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1 US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1 Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1 European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1 UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1
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Takeaways: Debbie's son Cody came out to her at 17. Parental reactions can vary greatly; support is crucial. Coming out can be a courageous act for young people. Community support plays a vital role in acceptance. Debbie emphasizes the importance of love and nurturing. It's essential for parents to keep an open heart. The relationship between a gay son and his mother is unique. Many parents struggle with their child's coming out. Debbie encourages parents to accept their children unconditionally. The conversation highlights the need for open dialogue about sexuality.
Keywords: Coming Out, LGBTQ, Parental Support, Acceptance, Community, National Coming Out Day, Personal Stories, Family Dynamics, Love, Courage
In this episode, John and Brian discuss various topics relevant to the LGBTQ community, including upcoming Pride events, Movember, and National Coming Out Day. They share personal reflections on coming out, listener letters addressing rejection from children, and the importance of building community and support. The conversation is filled with humor, personal anecdotes, and insights into the challenges faced by gay fathers and individuals navigating their identities. Join your hosts,
Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey.
Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!
MOVEMBER donations links:
How do I donate?
1. Copy the link for your preferred currency
2. Choose the amount you want to donate
3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button
4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country).
Links below:
Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1
US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1
Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1
European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1
UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1
Contact us at [email protected]
#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #church #religion
Keywords: Pride, Movember, Coming Out, LGBTQ, Men's Health, Community Support, Listener Letters, Personal Stories, Gay Fathers, Mental Health
In this episode, Brian and John discuss the upcoming Palm Springs Pride 2024 (come march with us), reflecting on their experiences as gay fathers and the importance of community. They delve into the complexities of coming out later in life, the significance of acceptance, and the challenges faced by individuals in the LGBTQ+ community. The conversation also touches on personal stories of parenting, navigating identity and having no regrets of not coming out sooner.
Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men.
There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.
Contact us at [email protected]
#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #church #religion
Takeaways: Palm Springs Pride 2024 is a significant event for gay fathers. Coming out later in life can lead to reflections on past choices. Acceptance and community are crucial for personal growth. Parenting as a gay father comes with unique challenges and joys. Personal stories can help others navigate their own journeys. The importance of open conversations about identity and acceptance. Navigating relationships post-divorce can be complex. It's essential to find ways to move forward after significant life changes.
Keywords: Palm Springs Pride, coming out, gay fathers, acceptance, community, parenting, OnlyFans, representation, Emmys, personal identity, LGBTQ+, gay
In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and John discuss their experiences at the Gay Fathers Worldwide retreat, reflecting on the connections made and the impact of their podcast. They explore the importance of community support for gay fathers, share personal stories about coming out, and emphasize the love and acceptance found within their community.
The conversation highlights the challenges and triumphs of navigating identity and relationships in the LGBTQ+ space.
Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men.
There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.
Contact us at [email protected]
#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #church #religion
Takeaways:
The podcast aims to create a space for gay men to share their stories.
Attending the Gay Fathers Worldwide retreat was a transformative experience.
The hosts were surprised by the positive impact their podcast has had on listeners.
Humor is used as a coping mechanism for deeper emotional issues.
Building connections with other gay fathers is essential for support.
Coming out experiences vary greatly among individuals.
Community events foster a sense of belonging and acceptance.
The importance of emotional connections in relationships is emphasized.
Support from friends and family can ease the coming out process.
There is a growing recognition of the diverse experiences within the LGBTQ+ community.
Keywords: gay fathers, coming out, LGBTQ+, community support, personal stories, podcast, gay men, emotional connection, retreat experiences, identity
In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Brian and John discuss their experiences as gay men who came out later in life. They read listener letters that touch on the challenges of finding the right therapist, the struggles of coming out, and the complexities of divorce. The conversation emphasizes the importance of community support, personal growth, and creative expression, while also sharing lighthearted anecdotes and reflections on their podcast journey.
Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men.
We will talk about when we knew we were gay, how we lived as closeted gay fathers and how we came out. There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.
Contact us at [email protected]
#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #church #religion
Keywords - LGBTQ, coming out, therapy, divorce, support groups, gay fathers, personal growth, community, podcast, listener stories
In this conversation, Brian and John discuss various topics including their recent podcast appearances, receiving gifts from listeners, the feedback they've received, coming out stories, the challenges of being accepted by religious communities, and the importance of being receptive to receiving. They express gratitude for the support they've received and the opportunity to help others through their podcast.
Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men.
We will talk about when we knew we were gay, how we lived as closeted gay fathers and how we came out. There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.
Contact us at [email protected]
#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #church #religion
Keywords: podcast, appearances, gifts, feedback, coming out stories, challenges, acceptance, religious communities, receptive, gratitude, support
As a guest on Out late With David #18 - Brian Janes shares coming out after 26 years of marriage, now finding his place in his new community.
Summary:
Brian Janes, a successful real estate broker, came out as gay at age 50 after 26 years of marriage. He loved being married and had a strong connection with his wife, but deep down, he had a sexual desire that didn't match up with her. After years of therapy and self-help, his wife eventually told him she wanted a divorce. Brian knew he was gay from a young age but didn't know how to embrace it. He suppressed his true self and lived in fear of being found out. After his divorce, he made the decision to come out and started a podcast for men coming out later in life.
Keywords: comingout, marriage, divorce, self-discovery, suppression, fear, loneliness, podcast, outlate, gay, alwaysgay, depression.
Takeaways:
Suppressing your true self can lead to frustration and strain in relationships.
Coming out later in life can be a difficult and lonely process.
Embracing your true self can lead to personal growth and a more fulfilling life.
Sharing your story and being vulnerable can help others going through similar experiences.
Titles The Journey of Coming Out Later in Life Embracing Your True Self and Finding Personal Growth
Sound Bites "Don't Let Your Wonder Turn Into Closure" "Here I Am, a Proud Gay Man" "You're Not Alone, We're All Out Here" Chapters (video) 00:00 Introduction and Background 03:04 Suppressing True Self in a Marriage 07:50 The Decision to Come Out 10:43 The Power of Wonder and Curiosity 13:36 Coming Out to Ex-Wife and Children 17:23 Exploring the New World 19:17 Regrets and Self-Kindness 21:20 Loneliness and Self-Discovery 24:19 Starting the Podcast 27:37 Advice for Married Men Struggling with Acceptance 29:54 Summary and Closing Song Lyric Reflection: Ben Platt's "Older." Older lyrics: https://www.google.com/search?q=ben+platt+older+lyrics&oq=ben+platt+older+lyrics&gs_lcrp=EgZjaHJvbWUyBggAEEUYOTIKCAEQABiABBiiBDIKCAIQABiABBiiBNIBCDQ2NzdqMGo3qAIIsAIB&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8 Older on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y_sADbvPmzE Podcast website and resources: https://www.OutLateWithDavid.com YouTube Edition: https://youtu.be/n3Iuqhu2K5M YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvsthP9yClKI4o5LxbuQnOg Certified Professional Life Coach, David Cotton: https://www.DavidCottonCoaching.com Contact David: mailto:[email protected]
In this conversation, Jim Kennedy shares his experiences as a gay father and the challenges he faced during his coming out journey and divorce. He emphasizes the importance of finding support and community, as well as seeking professional help during difficult times. Jim also discusses the process of divorce and the emotional impact it had on him. He shares his thoughts on dating and relationships after coming out, including the need for a period of time before introducing a new partner to his children. In this conversation, Jim and Brian discuss their experiences with divorce and the challenges they faced as gay men. They talk about the importance of respecting their children's comfort levels when introducing new partners, the impact of divorce on their personal growth and authenticity, and the ongoing grief and loss they feel. They also touch on the adversarial nature of heterosexual divorces compared to their own experiences. Overall, the conversation highlights the complexities and emotions involved in divorce and the importance of navigating it with kindness and understanding.
Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men.
There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.
Contact us at [email protected]
#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout
Keywords: gay father, coming out, divorce, support, community, professional help, dating, relationships, children, divorce, gay men, children, comfort levels, authenticity, grief, loss, adversarial, personal growth
In this episode of 'Coming Inside Out', hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes share their personal journeys of coming out as gay, the impact of divorce on their identities, and the challenges of navigating family dynamics post-separation. They discuss the emotional turmoil of losing a spouse and the struggle to rebuild their lives while seeking new relationships. The conversation also touches on the loneliness often felt within the LGBTQ+ community and the importance of intimacy and connection in new relationships. The hosts emphasize the need for planning when coming out and the significance of self-discovery and personal growth in the process.
Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men.
There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.
Contact us at [email protected]
#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout
Keywords: coming out, LGBTQ+, divorce, family dynamics, personal growth, relationships, identity, hypersexuality, intimacy, support
In this episode, Brian and John discuss their experiences as gay fathers, the importance of listener engagement, and the vulnerability involved in sharing personal stories. They reflect on the impact of their podcast on listeners, particularly those who are navigating their own coming out journeys. The conversation highlights the joy and connection found within the LGBTQ+ community, as well as the ongoing process of identity and acceptance.
Coming inside OUT is an LGBTQ Podcast. Calling all Gay fathers. Gay dads. Gay men. This is a gay fathers journey out of the closet. We will explore our personal coming out journeys. We will interview fellow gay fathers / dads and hear their stories. We will share how we lived as closeted gay men.
There is a vast community of closeted gay fathers and our goal is to connect with these men and let them know they are not alone.
Contact us at [email protected]
#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout
Keywords - LGBTQ+, coming out, personal stories, vulnerability, listener feedback, gay fathers, podcast, community, support, identity
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