In this deeply personal episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Mark and Brian open up about the emotional terrain of the holiday season, weaving together themes of coming out, grief, family, and the ongoing journey toward authenticity.

Mark shares a heartfelt reflection on his father’s recent passing and the profound impact of having come out to him shortly before he died. His story invites listeners into the complex intersection of love, fear, relief, and loss—capturing the power and vulnerability of sharing one’s truth. As Mark puts it, “I’m glad I had the chance to tell him.”

The conversation moves into the challenges many LGBTQ+ individuals face during the holidays, when family dynamics, traditions, and expectations can bring both comfort and pain. Brian and Mark discuss how grief can resurface during this time, how being “the outsider” can shape gatherings, and why letting go of preconceived expectations can create space for more authentic experiences. The hosts also explore the unique journey of coming out later in life, including what Mark jokingly refers to as his “gay adolescence.” They touch on dating, navigating relationships with openness, and the importance of vulnerability in forming deeper connections. Along the way, they highlight the crucial role of community—especially for gay fathers seeking belonging and support.

Through honest dialogue and lived experience, they remind listeners that personal growth often emerges from embracing one’s true self, even in seasons marked by transition. The episode closes with words of gratitude and encouragement, offering listeners resources, solidarity, and the reassurance that no one has to walk this journey alone.

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Keywords: LGBTQ+, coming out, holiday season, grief, vulnerability, authenticity, family dynamics, community, relationships, personal growth T

akeaways: Mark reflects on his father's passing and its impact on his life. Coming out can be a source of fear, but also empowerment. The holiday season can evoke mixed emotions for many. Grief can complicate family dynamics during holidays. Vulnerability is key to authentic relationships. Gratitude can be found even in difficult times. Community support is vital for LGBTQ+ individuals. Dating can be challenging, especially later in life. It's important to let go of expectations in social situations. Personal growth often comes from embracing one's true self

In this heartfelt episode of Coming Inside OUT, Brian and Mark open up about their personal experiences as gay men, exploring the deep themes of love, vulnerability, authenticity, and the ongoing process of coming out. They reflect on their own family dynamics, relationships, and the ways personal growth continues to shape their lives.

The conversation dives into how love is expansive—not finite—and how vulnerability can create stronger bonds with family, friends, partners, and community. Brian and Mark also discuss the challenges of superficiality within the gay community and how “personal armor” can keep people from building the genuine connections they crave. Together, they emphasize the power of living intentionally, designing a life with purpose, and embracing change at any stage of life.

From Halloween stories to the transformative impact of journaling, the hosts share honest reflections that remind listeners it’s never too late to come out, evolve, or rediscover themselves. They anchor the episode in the importance of community support for anyone navigating their sexuality or identity.

Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave.

Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads.

Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

Contact us at [email protected]

#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingoutstory

Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, relationships, vulnerability, personal growth, gay community, family dynamics, authenticity, love, support

Takeaways: Love can be many different things and is not finite. Coming out is an ongoing process, not a one-time event. Building authentic connections is crucial for personal growth. Superficiality in the gay community can be a barrier to genuine relationships. It's important to be intentional about designing your life. Vulnerability can lead to deeper relationships with family and friends. Journaling can be a powerful tool for self-reflection and connection. It's never too late to come out or make life changes. Living authentically can lead to a sense of being anchored in life. Community support is vital for those navigating their sexuality.

In this heartfelt episode, Mark and Brian open up about their personal journeys of coming out, embracing authenticity, and learning to live without shame. Through honest conversation, they explore the emotional complexities of self-acceptance, the power of vulnerability, and how community support can transform isolation into connection.

From navigating family dynamics to rebuilding self-worth, the hosts reflect on the process of integrating who they were with who they’ve become. This episode reminds listeners that coming out isn’t a one-time event—it’s a lifelong act of courage, healing, and growth.

Coming Inside OUT is a safe space for solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to live authentically. Whether you’re a gay dad, exploring your identity, or an ally seeking understanding, this podcast is for you.

Hosts Brian and Mark share their own journeys of coming out and fatherhood while connecting with fellow gay dads about their victories, struggles, and stories. Together, they explore the challenges of identity, relationships, and parenting—reminding listeners that no one has to walk this path alone.

🎙️ Whether you’re navigating your own journey of self-discovery, or seeking ways to build deeper support and connection, this episode offers both inspiration and actionable takeaways for living boldly and unapologetically.

📩 Contact: [email protected]

#Gay #ComingOut #LGBTQ #LoveisLove #gayparents

Keywords: coming out, LGBTQ+, self-acceptance, emotional vulnerability, community support, personal growth, authenticity, relationships, pride, mental health

Takeaways: Over 2,700 events were held for the No Kings rallies. Attending marches can create a sense of community and support. Coming out is a unique journey for everyone. Vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness. Supportive friendships enhance emotional well-being. Unlearning shame is crucial for self-acceptance. Integrating past and present selves is an ongoing process. Healing involves sharing stories and experiences. Authenticity leads to deeper connections with others. The journey of self-discovery continues throughout life.

In this powerful episode, hosts Mark Dembo and Brian Janes sit down with renowned psychotherapist, author, and LGBTQ+ advocate Dr. Joe Kort @drjoekort to explore the emotional journey of coming out—particularly later in life. With over 40 years of experience, Dr. Kort brings deep insight into the challenges gay men face around identity, relationships, self-care, and community.

Together, they unpack the stages of coming out, the weight of internalized homophobia, and the grief that often accompanies leaving behind heterosexual privilege and long-term relationships. Dr. Kort also highlights the importance of self-care, building genuine connections, and finding one’s tribe in the LGBTQ+ community.

The conversation touches on mixed-orientation marriages, open relationships, dating in the age of apps, and the emergence of the “side” identity in gay men’s sexuality. Listeners will walk away with encouragement to live authentically, practice kindness, and embrace activism as part of their personal growth.

Coming Inside OUT is a safe space for solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to live authentically. Whether you’re a gay dad, exploring your identity, or an ally seeking understanding, this podcast is for you.

Hosts Brian and Mark share their own journeys of coming out and fatherhood while connecting with fellow gay dads about their victories, struggles, and stories. Together, they explore the challenges of identity, relationships, and parenting—reminding listeners that no one has to walk this path alone.

🎙️ Whether you’re navigating your own journey of self-discovery, or seeking ways to build deeper support and connection, this episode offers both inspiration and actionable takeaways for living boldly and unapologetically.

📩 Contact: [email protected] #Gay #ComingOut #LGBTQ #LGBTQPodcast #Pride365 #GayMentalHealth #MixedOrientationMarriage #GayPodcast

🔑 Keywords: coming out, gay men, LGBTQ+, therapy, mental health, identity, relationships, self-care, community, activism, Joe Kort, mixed orientation marriages, internalized homophobia, living authentically, tribe, dating, open relationships, acceptance, pride, belonging

✨ Takeaways: • Coming out later in life can bring both grief and freedom. • Community and belonging are essential for mental health. • Self-care and relationship skills are crucial for navigating new chapters. • Internalized homophobia is common but can be healed with reflection and support. • Living authentically means finding your tribe—and remembering you are not alone. This episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating their identity, seeking community, or supporting others on their coming out journey.

In this episode of Coming Inside OUT, hosts Brian and Mark open up about the power of community, connection, and authenticity within the LGBTQ experience. Reflecting on their time at a gay fathers retreat, they share personal stories of growth, mental health, and the role therapy has played in their journeys.

With Suicide Awareness Month as the backdrop, the conversation highlights the importance of uplifting one another, finding positivity in everyday life, and speaking out against challenges to LGBTQ rights. From navigating guilt and shame in relationships, to embracing leadership by living authentically, this episode is both deeply personal and universally inspiring.

Whether you’re a gay dad, a person struggling with your sexuality, or someone seeking solidarity and hope, this conversation offers reminders that community is essential, connection brings strength, and no one has to walk this path alone.

Hosts Brian and Mark share their own journeys of coming out and fatherhood while connecting with fellow gay dads about their victories, struggles, and stories. Together, they explore the challenges of identity, relationships, and parenting—reminding listeners that no one has to walk this path alone.

🎙️ Whether you’re navigating your own journey of self-discovery, or seeking ways to build deeper support and connection, this episode offers both inspiration and actionable takeaways for living boldly and unapologetically.

📩 Contact: [email protected]

#Gay #ComingOut #LGBTQ #LGBTQPodcast #Pride365 #GayMentalHealth #GayPodcast #Suicideawareness

Keywords: LGBTQ, community, mental health, suicide awareness, personal growth, therapy, relationships, authenticity, positivity, gay fathers

Takeaways: Community is essential for support and authenticity. The Michelangelo effect highlights the importance of uplifting others. Suicide Awareness Month reminds us of the struggles within the LGBTQ community. Therapy is a valuable tool for personal evolution and growth. Navigating relationships can bring up feelings of guilt and shame. Finding positivity in everyday moments is crucial for mental health. It's important to speak out against political challenges to LGBTQ rights. Personal growth often involves confronting what we avoid. Being out can enhance leadership and authenticity. Connection with others can provide hope and strength.

In this episode of Coming Inside Out, hosts Mark Dembo and Brian Janes sit down with Rick Clemons (@rickclemons), coach, author, and advocate for LGBTQ+ authenticity. Together, they explore Rick’s personal journey of coming out and the unique challenges faced by gay men in midlife—from navigating modern dating dynamics to overcoming patterns of people-pleasing and fear.

Rick shares his insights on the power of community and support, the importance of self-acceptance, and how to embrace vulnerability as a path toward deeper connection. The conversation highlights practical strategies for building confidence, honoring personal desires, and finding relationships rooted in authenticity rather than expectation. Listeners will come away inspired by Rick’s reminder that living authentically means moving forward with “no excuses, no fears, and no apologies.”

🎙️ Whether you’re navigating your own journey of self-discovery, or seeking ways to build deeper support and connection, this episode offers both inspiration and actionable takeaways for living boldly and unapologetically.

Coming Inside OUT is a safe space for solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to live authentically. Whether you’re a gay dad, exploring your identity, or an ally seeking understanding, this podcast is for you.

Hosts Brian and Mark share their own journeys of coming out and fatherhood while connecting with fellow gay dads about their victories, struggles, and stories. Together, they explore the challenges of identity, relationships, and parenting—reminding listeners that no one has to walk this path alone.

📩 Contact: [email protected]

✨ Key Themes: • Living authentically as a gay man in midlife • The evolving dynamics of dating and hookup culture • Building confidence and embracing vulnerability • Breaking free from people-pleasing tendencies • The role of community and safe spaces in personal growth • Finding meaningful connections aligned with personal values

🔑 Keywords • LGBTQ+ authenticity • Gay men in midlife • Coming out journey • Self-acceptance and confidence • Community and support • Dating and relationships • People-pleasing • Vulnerability and connection • Living authentically • Personal growth and self-discovery

#LGBTQ #GayMen #ComingOut #Authenticity #GayDating #SelfAcceptance #PersonalGrowth #CommunitySupport #BeYourself #ConnectionMatters #GayPodcast #QueerVoices #LoveWithoutFear #GayMidlife #LGBTQPodcast #Gay #RickClemons #suicidepreventionmonth

In this episode of the Coming Inside Out podcast, hosts Brian Janes and Mark Dembo explore the importance of male friendships, the journey of coming out, and the complexities of relationships within the LGBTQ community. They share personal experiences, discuss the impact of AI on relationships, and emphasize the need for empathy and understanding in the community. The conversation also touches on the state of LGBTQ rights and the significance of personal growth and connection.

Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave.

Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey.

Contact us at [email protected]

#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory, pride2025

Keywords: gay men, coming out, male friendships, LGBTQ rights, personal growth, empathy, relationships, AI, virtual connections, guilt

Takeaways: The experience of watching a movie with close male friends can be transformative. Many gay men struggle with forming close friendships due to societal conditioning. Virtual connections can provide a sense of community and support. AI tools can be beneficial for self-reflection but require careful use. Guilt and shame often accompany the coming out process, even for those who are out. It's important to focus on the present and what is, rather than what was lost. LGBTQ rights are under threat, and awareness is crucial. Personal growth often involves recognizing one's role in the lives of others. Empathy is essential in the LGBTQ community, especially for those still in the closet. Building new memories and connections is vital for healing and growth.

In this episode, Mark and Brian discuss their recent experiences at Montreal Pride, reflecting on the joy and guilt that can accompany personal celebrations. They delve into the current political climate regarding LGBTQ+ rights in the U.S., including the challenges faced by the trans community. The conversation touches on the pervasive hate in society and the importance of community and mindfulness in personal growth. They also explore the significance of spirituality and support systems for LGBTQ+ individuals, and the need for networking and building connections within the community. The episode concludes with a focus on new beginnings and the excitement of upcoming guests.

Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave.

Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

Contact us at [email protected]

#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory, pride2025

Keywords: LGBTQ, Pride, Montreal, Guilt, Community, Mindfulness, Trans Rights, Political Climate, Spirituality, Personal Growth

Takeaways: Montreal Pride was a joyful experience for Mark. Guilt can accompany moments of celebration. The political climate for LGBTQ+ rights is concerning. Trans rights in sports is a contentious issue. There is a growing backlash against LGBTQ+ rights in the U.S. Hate and division are prevalent in society today. Mindfulness and gratitude are essential for personal growth. Building community is crucial for support and connection. Spirituality can provide a sense of belonging for LGBTQ+ individuals.

In this episode, hosts Brian and Mark reflect on their summer hiatus, discuss cultural icons that have influenced their understanding of sexuality, and engage with listener topics ranging from dating dynamics to mental health resources. They share personal experiences in navigating online dating, the importance of community, and the challenges of finding balance in a chaotic world. The conversation also touches on humorous and satirical takes on current events, emphasizing the complexity of personal growth and healing in the face of change.

Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave.

Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads.

Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

Contact us at [email protected] #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory, #KenKrell #mydailyhug

Keywords: LGBTQ, gay culture, dating, relationships, mental health, self-care, community, personal growth, pop culture, coming out

Takeaways: The importance of community and connection for gay men. Cultural icons can play a significant role in self-discovery. Listener engagement shapes the podcast's direction. Dating dynamics change with new environments. Online dating requires a keen sense of discernment. Exploring gay spaces fosters a sense of belonging. Surprising experiences can occur in social settings. Positive affirmations can enhance mental well-being. Finding balance amidst chaos is crucial for mental health. Transitioning spaces can lead to personal growth.

In this powerful episode of 40 Plus, Gay Men, Gay Talk Rick Clemons sits down with Mark Dembo to talk about coming out later in life, the messy beauty of self-discovery, and the liberating (and terrifying) freedom that comes with being unapologetically you.

They cover: Guilt, anxiety, and codependence in late-life coming out Why authenticity is a leadership superpower Couples counseling, redefining relationships, and facing your truth Coaching vs. fixing: helping people find their own answers The reality of political “allies” who aren’t really allies at all

Whether you’re on the brink of change or deep in the thick of it, this episode is your reminder that it’s never too late to come home to yourself.

Coming inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insight and a sense of belonging that we all crave.

Join your hosts, Brian and Mark, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers.

In each episode, Mark and Brian connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

Contact us at [email protected]

#gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #mycomingoutstory, #pride2025

Keywords: podcast, LGBTQ+, relationships, Pride Month, personal growth, community support, open relationships, polyamory, current events, emotional well-being