Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack

Common Mistakes That Kill Attraction in Marriage (and How to Rebuild Desire)


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Common Mistakes That Kill Attraction in Marriage (and How to Rebuild Desire)

Are you worried your spouse just isn’t attracted to you anymore? In this episode, you’ll learn why so many husbands and wives drift into the “friend zone” — and exactly how to become desirable again without looking fake or desperate. Coach Jack breaks down the biggest attraction-killers in marriage and practical ways to rebuild desire step by step.

What You’ll Learn:

  • Why attraction naturally fades (and what keeps it alive)
  • Common mistakes that push your spouse away emotionally and physically
  • How to make subtle, lasting changes that reignite desire — without announcing them

Want to Work With Coach Jack?
If you need help restoring both connection and attraction in your marriage, my Re-Connections Coaching Package will guide you with personalized steps and accountability. 

Key Takeaways:

  • Connection and attraction are separate but both essential for a romantic marriage
  • Small, genuine changes are more attractive than big, forced ones
  • “Accept me as I am” is not a strategy — personal growth is

Additional Resources:

  • Re-Connections Coaching Package: Re-attract and re-connect with a rejecting spouse.
  • Related post: How to Respond when Your Wife Says She Just Wants to be Friends

Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

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Reconciling Marriages with Coach JackBy Jack Ito PhD, Psychologist, Author, and Relationship Coach

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