Confidence and Coffee

Today’s conversation might be one of the most important we’ve ever had.
 Ashley sits down with guest Daniel Ochoa, author of Time is Running Out: Am I Really in Good Standing with God?, to talk about the end times, the real cost of following Christ, and why being a “good person” isn’t enough.

We dive deep into:

• What it actually means to walk the narrow road
• How fear, love, and truth all play a role in real salvation
• Why most modern Christians aren’t prepared for what's coming
• What Jesus really meant by “no one knows the day or the hour”
• Why talking about the end times matters now more than ever

This isn’t about fear.
 It’s about living alert, awake, and ready, the way Jesus called us to!

This is a raw, bold episode you don’t want to miss.
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In this vulnerable and powerful episode of Confidence and Coffee, Ashley sits down with foster mom and author Nikki Hertzler, who wrote the devotional Help, I’m a Foster Parent. Together, they hold nothing back — from the beauty and heartbreak of foster care to the real struggles foster parents face behind closed doors.

If you’ve ever:

• Considered fostering (but feel terrified)
• Felt called to help but didn’t know how
• Wondered how to pray when parenting trauma
• Struggled with guilt, grief, or knowing when to let go

This conversation is for you.

We talk about:

• Why the church is essential in the foster care crisis
• What happens when foster kids age out of the system
• The spiritual weight of parenting kids from hard places
• The moment Nikki had to say goodbye… and how God held her
• How to support foster families even if you don’t foster

This episode is filled with truth, tears, laughter, and the kind of encouragement that feels like a hug from Heaven. 💛

📚 Grab Nikki’s Devotional: Help, I’m a Foster Parent on Amazon
🌐 Nikki's Blog: https://nikkihertzler.com/blog/
📖 Learn more about Foster the City: www.fosterthecity.org
📚 Learn about Backyard Orphans: www.backyardorphans.org

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In this episode of Confidence and Coffee, Ashley sits down with Rachel Langston—executive function coach, former educator, and mom of two grown kids—to talk about how we can finally get a grip on the chaos in our brains, homes, and hearts. 

We dive deep into: 

Why it’s totally normal to feel more confident at work than at home 

The truth about executive functioning (and why most of us were never taught it) 

How technology has rewired our brains—and our kids’ brains too 

What the Bible says about order, overwhelm, and why Jesus still chooses the Martha's 

The power of focusing on fewer things when life feels like too much 

This is the conversation you didn’t know you needed, but won’t be able to stop thinking about. Whether you’re a parent, student, business owner, or believer just trying to get through your day—this one’s for you. 

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Guest: Bonnie Gray – Author of Breath, mental health advocate, and someone who knows what it’s like to struggle.

Let’s be real—mental health in Christian spaces can be tricky. The pressure to “have enough faith” or “just give it to God” can sometimes leave us feeling more stuck than supported. Bonnie Gray gets it. She’s been through anxiety, depression, and all the guilt that comes with it, and in this episode, she’s keeping it real about:

✔️ How she moved from survival mode to actually feeling at peace
 ✔️ Breaking free from shame in Christian spaces when it comes to mental health
 ✔️ The simple breathing practices that helped her calm her mind (and why they work)
 ✔️ The power of letting go—aka holy exhaling—when your thoughts won’t stop spiraling
✔️ Why faith & therapy go hand in hand (and how she made peace with both)

If you’ve ever felt like you’re drowning in your own thoughts, this episode is for you.

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Confidence and Coffee is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth.

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• In this episode, we'll be talking to Bonnie about her own journey of healing, how she integrates her faith into her mental health practices, and the insights she shares in her new book.

Main segment:

• Bonnie shares her personal story of struggling with anxiety and depression, and how she found healing through therapy, medication, and spiritual practices.
• We discuss the stigma around mental health in Christian communities, and how Bonnie's experience of God's love and grace helped her overcome shame and self-blame.
• Bonnie talks about the importance of breathing exercises and mindfulness in her daily routine, and how these practices can help us connect with our bodies and emotions.
• We dive into some of the themes in "Breath," such as the idea of "holy exhaling" as a way of letting go of negative thoughts and emotions, and the role of community in supporting our healing journeys.
• Bonnie shares some practical tips for listeners who may be struggling with their own mental health, including seeking professional help, practicing self-compassion, and finding safe spaces to share their struggles with others.

Closing:

• Thank you so much to Bonnie Gray for sharing her wisdom and insights with us today.
• If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a rating and review on your favorite podcast platform, and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing Bonnie's message.
• And as always, remember to take a moment to breathe deeply and remind yourself that you are loved and valued. Thanks for listening to "Confidence and Coffee"!

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Confidence and Coffee is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth.

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Welcome back to Confidence and Coffee! ☕✨ Today we have an incredible guest, Janine Mix, author of Buy the Damn Coffee: How Women of Faith Remove Guilt and Shame Around Money. 🙌

We’re getting REAL about money, faith, and financial freedom. Too many women feel shame around wealth, and today, we’re dismantling those limiting beliefs. 💡 Can Christians want financial success? Is it selfish to desire more? Where’s the line between faith and finances?

Janine’s story is WILD—she went from $120K in debt to financial freedom and real estate success while keeping her faith front and center. This episode will challenge everything you’ve been taught about money, from poverty mindsets to prosperity gospel myths. 🔥

👉 In this episode, we cover:
✅ Why money isn’t the enemy—it’s a tool God uses ✨
✅ The biggest money myths keeping women broke
✅ How to shift from a scarcity mindset to biblical abundance
✅ The truth about debt, financial freedom & stewardship
✅ Why your past money trauma is still shaping your financial habits
✅ Practical steps to break free from paycheck-to-paycheck living

🎯 RESOURCES & LINKS:
💰 FREE Money Planner: www.JanineMix.com/confidence
📖 Get Janine’s Book: Buy the Damn Coffee
📲 Follow Janine on Instagram: @janinemix
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Welcome back to Confidence & Coffee! ☕✨ Today, my best friend Kristen and I are diving deep into the topic of fasting—what it really means, why it’s important, and how it can be a powerful tool for spiritual, mental, and physical renewal.

In this episode, we’re answering key questions like:
🔹 What is fasting, and why do people do it?
🔹 What’s the difference between a spiritual fast and a worldly fast?
🔹 Why did Jesus fast, and what does the Bible say about it?
🔹 Can you fast from things other than food (hello, social media detox)?
🔹 How does fasting help with clarity, mental health, and discipline?

Kristen and I get real and practical about how fasting has impacted our own lives—from hearing God more clearly to making tough but necessary decisions. Plus, we break down common misconceptions (hint: fasting isn’t about starving yourself or making it a trend).

🔥 If you’re feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or searching for direction, this episode is for YOU.

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Hey friends! Welcome back to Confidence & Coffee! ☕✨ God gave me a word for 2025: FREEDOM—and I truly believe this is my pivot year. To kick things off, my best friend Kristen is joining me (finally!!), and we’re diving deep into what this new year means for us as Christians.

In this episode, we talk about:
💡 2024: The Worst and Best Year Ever?!
📖 Setting faith-based goals (not just New Year’s resolutions).
🛡️ The spiritual warfare we’re all feeling.
🧠 Burnout and investing in your mental health.
🏡 Small habits that create big peace in your life.
😌 The power of flexibility and letting go of perfection.

If this episode encouraged you, let us know!
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✔️ Leave a review—it means the world!
✔️ Tag me on Instagram & TikTok and share your word of the year!

Let’s make 2025 a year of faith, freedom, and confidence—together. 💕 See you next Tuesday!

#ConfidenceAndCoffee #NewYearNewMindset #FaithAndFreedom #SpiritualWarfare #MentalHealthMatters #ChristianPodcast

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Hey friends! Welcome back to Confidence & Coffee! ☕✨ Today, I’m joined by an incredible guest, Ukonwa Ojo — a powerhouse leader who’s gone from Amazon & CoverGirl to launching ZAIA, a digital platform designed to bring 2.6 billion Christians together in one space. 🙌

In this episode, we talk about:
💡 The vision behind ZAIA—a social platform for Christians
📖 How God calls us to unity, not division in faith
🚀 Walking away from corporate success to follow God’s calling
🛡️ The spiritual battle of obedience & stepping into purpose
🌎 Why we need real, safe Christian community now more than ever

✨ Join the Movement!
The ZAIA App is FREE & available now! Find your people, create groups, and be a light in a divided world. 

If this episode spoke to you, let us know!
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✔️ Leave a review—it means the world!
✔️ Tag me on Instagram & TikTok and share what resonated most!

Let’s step boldly into faith, community, and connection this year. Love you all—see you next Tuesday! 💕

#ConfidenceAndCoffee #ChristianCommunity #FaithAndUnity #ZayaApp #ChristianPodcast

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Confidence and Coffee is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth.

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In this episode, we kick off with a juicy story of chaos and confusion. We dive deep into embracing the chaos that life throws our way and finding joy even in the busiest of seasons. You'll discover the power of simplicity, mental decluttering, and practicing self-compassion as key strategies for maintaining balance. Join us for a soul-nurturing discussion that will leave you feeling empowered and ready to tackle life's chaos with grace and joy.

Show Notes:

0:00 - Introduction

Starting off with a juicy story
1:30 - Embracing Chaos

Finding beauty in chaos
Chaos can lead to unexpected change
3:00 - Prioritizing Your Peace

The myth of perfection
The value of boundaries
6:15 - Simplifying Your Life

Cultivating simplicity
Simplifying daily routines
10:00 - Protecting Your Joy

Decluttering your mind
Savoring the small moments
Practicing gratitude
14:45 - Cultivating Connections

Embracing changes in friendships
Self-compassion and self-forgiveness
19:00 - Community Support

The power of community
Building friendships that bring value
23:00 - Wrapping Up

Embracing chaos as part of life's journey
Honoring your unique rhythm
Protecting your joy and peace
25:00 - Conclusion

Join us next week for more insights and stories
Leave your comments and reviews, and let's keep the conversation going
29:00 - Closing

31:00 - Outro and End.

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Disclaimer
Confidence and Coffee is a Christian centered podcast. All conversations are approached through a faith based lens that honors Jesus and biblical truth.

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