Episode 153: Cool Girl Syndrome to Emotionally Available

In this episode, I talk about cool girl syndrome, what it is, and how we got here. I didn’t know I was being the “cool girl” until I did an interview on the Exit Interview Podcast where they interviewed my “ex’s” to see what went wrong! Listen below.

Yeah, for real.

What they found was I was hiding my feelings and being the cool girl because I didn’t want to rock the boat. I thought that they should know what I was thinking and convinced myself they just didn’t like me enough.

I go over tips and stories on how to stop being so much of the cool girl and instead how to open up, get vulnerable, and have difficult conversations.

Some things we cover:

💜 What is a cool girl?

💜 How do we overcome it?

💜 How to prepare for an uncomfortable talk

💜 Why it’s important to be vulnerable

💜 How being the cool girl is getting in the way of a relationship

💜 How to bring up you want to talk

💜 How do you know when it’s not going to work out?

💜 Ways to prepare emotionally for the possibility that they don’t want the same thing and still have the convo

Listen to Exit Interview Podcast, Episode ONE with me here - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/does-playing-it-cool-ruin-your-dating-life-w-tia/id1675284944?i=1000603425354

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