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Long-distance visitation and supervised visitation present huge challenges for coparents. The calls can become stale, the connection can fade, and the costs can be overwhelming. This video provides a tactical solve that most courts and lawyers don't even know about: Video Game Visitation. 

We cover the exact "why" and "how-to":
* Why maintaining a relationship with your child is so important, both for them and for your.
* Choosing the right, age-appropriate games. 
* Structuring the time to maximize connection and safety.

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If your coparent’s inconsistent rules are undermining your efforts and creating chaos for your child, this video is your step-by-step action plan.

Stop fighting the "my house, my rules" battle. Instead, implement a proven strategy to provide your child with the stability they desperately need—with or without your coparent's cooperation.

YOUR 3-STEP PLAYBOOK FROM THIS VIDEO:

DIAGNOSE THE PROBLEM: Pinpoint exactly how inconsistent environments force your child into a state of anxiety and manipulation.

ATTEMPT COLLABORATION: Use our "business meeting" framework and specific "we language" scripts to approach your coparent productively.

BULLETPROOF YOUR HOME: If collaboration fails, learn the calm, authoritative script to explain "Different Homes, Different Rules" to your child. This validates their reality, removes you from the middle, and establishes your home as a sanctuary of consistency.

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You and your coparent have the same child... but you're raising two different kids. It's a maddening reality for millions of divorced parents, leading to blame and conflict. But what if the cause wasn't your coparent's "leniency" or your "rigidity"? What if it was a powerful psychological force ignited by the separation itself? Once you see it, you can't unsee it. This video reveals the subconscious reasons your child adapts their personality for each home and gives you the tools to stop fighting the dynamic and start fixing it.

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Are you winning parenting time but losing your child's heart? Many co-parents fall into the "Scoreboard Mentality"—fighting for what's "fair" instead of what builds a lasting relationship. In this video, we reveal the 3 most common traps (The Schedule Trap, The "It's My Time" Fallacy, and Weaponizing Your Right of First Refusal) that can damage your connection with your kids.

Learn the one simple question to ask yourself—The Tomorrow Test—that can shift your entire co-parenting approach from conflict to connection. Stop playing for the scoreboard and start building a foundation of love and trust that will last a lifetime.

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A popular coparenting Instagram creator has given parents a script for when their child complains about the other parent. It’s a common problem, but is their advice the whole story?

In this episode, family law attorney Ron Gore and therapist Connie LeBlanc watch the video and provide their expert reaction. They agree with some points but add crucial context that could save you from creating a bigger conflict.

You will learn:

How to validate your child's feelings without invalidating your coparent's right to have different rules.

The difference between a child complaining about a fair rule vs. being genuinely hurt by a comment.

Specific approaches for each scenario.

Why empowering a child to speak to the other parent can sometimes backfire.

Before you use a script you saw on social media, watch this expert breakdown to make sure it’s the right move for your family.

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Forced to have supervised visits with your kids? You're facing a choice: use a friend/family member for free, or pay a professional.

The answer isn't as obvious as you think.

In this video, we talk about the pros and cons of each so you can make the right decision for your family and your wallet.

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Are your coparenting conversations endless, draining, and unproductive? You're not alone. In this video, discover the "FACTS Only" communication tool – a simple, efficient way to streamline your discussions and focus on what truly matters: your child's needs. Learn how this powerful strategy, focusing on Feedback, Activities, Concerns, Transportation, and Supplies, can transform high-conflict exchanges into clear, actionable updates. We'll also cover essential tips for implementation, including the best communication methods (hint: ditch the texts!) and how to maintain your sanity even when your coparent doesn't cooperate. Take control of your coparenting narrative and build a strong foundation for your child's well-being.

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Are you a parent navigating different religious beliefs in your household, or worried about your child's exposure to a coparent's faith? This episode is for you.

In this re-edited version of Episode 5 of Coparent Academy, you'll hear the story of a child who found common ground between Southern Baptist and Muslim parents (it involves bacon!), and we'll break down a compelling Reddit post about a dad's fear of 'indoctrination.' Drawing from personal experience as a 'preacher's kid' who was discouraged from independent thought, we offer a refreshing perspective on religious upbringing.

Discover why children, even toddlers, aren't truly 'indoctrinated' in the way many parents fear, and how allowing exposure to different belief systems can actually foster resilience and open-mindedness. We share strategies for teaching your child to think critically and independently about faith, ensuring they can choose their own spiritual path when they're ready.

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In this episode, we answer a question posed by a mother who is concerned the child is moving to overnights with the father too quickly. The court has approved unsupervised day visits, and now he's asking for overnights. This mother is nervous, not just about the living situation but also about past behaviors. We talk about what truly constitutes a "stable enough" environment for a child's overnight visits, going beyond who's on the lease. Are class differences unfairly influencing perceptions? How can parents ensure their child feels safe and has their own space, even in unconventional settings? Join us for an honest discussion about navigating court orders, parental anxieties, and the child's perspective in complex family dynamics.

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Are you tired of the constant battles and high "transaction costs" in your co-parenting relationship? This episode dives deep into how cooperation, trust, and empathy can transform your coparenting interactions, making life easier for you and significantly benefiting your child.

We'll break down these important elements in the order they build on each other:

• Cooperation: Learn where to start with small, low-investment acts that can chip away at the "us vs. them" mentality. Discover how even minor adjustments, like meeting 30 minutes later or bringing a snack, can be perceived as major issues, and how taking the initiative can lead to a more reciprocal dynamic. We'll explore why a lack of cooperation is a "tax" that makes your life harder and how it negatively impacts your child.
• Trust: Understand how consistent cooperation can pave the way for greater trust. We'll discuss why creating an environment where your coparent feels safe to admit mistakes is so important, and how responding with grace, rather than judgment, can lead to more openness and a healthier relationship. Discover why rebuilding trust takes time and consistent effort, especially after a violation, and the hidden "administrative layer" it often requires.
• Empathy: See how a foundation of cooperation and trust makes empathy a natural next step. We'll explore how empathy can prevent small problems from escalating, incentivize honesty, and model positive pro-social behavior for your children.

Improving your coparenting relationship is not just about thinking differently, but doing things differently. We'll discuss why investing in cooperation, even when it feels like you're losing initially, is an investment in your own peace of mind, your coparenting relationship, and most importantly, your child's well-being and happiness.

You'll learn:

• Practical strategies to initiate cooperation without fear of disappointment.
• How to respond to coparent mistakes in a way that builds trust, not resentment.
• The long-term benefits of embodying empathy in your coparenting interactions.
• Why "borrowing trouble" from past experiences can hinder progress.
• How your children are keenly aware of parental cooperation (or lack thereof) and its impact on them.