Her Revision Podcast

Cultivating the Unbecoming: The Hard Thing You Keep Putting Off Is the Door


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In this episode of Her Revision, Jasmine Lashae gets all the way real about the quiet things we avoid — the decisions, the boundaries, the truths — and how avoidance often disguises itself as peace, rest, or even loyalty. From untangling your worth from being the “teacher,” to naming the emotional clutter that keeps you stuck, this episode is a spiritual gut check. No fluff. No performative softness. Just truth, reflection, and that loving push you’ve been avoiding.





🔹 What You’ll Hear in This Episode:



  • Why cultivating doesn’t always mean keeping
  • How to recognize when you’re staying out of fear, not love
  • The difference between rest and avoidance
  • Why tying your worth to “being helpful” is silently burning you out
  • Signs that you’re emotionally cluttered, not confused
  • A reminder that you’re not broken — but you are responsible






📝 Journal Prompts from the Episode:



What’s the hard thing I keep putting off — and what am I afraid it will change if I finally do it?


What’s something I’ve been calling “rest” that’s actually avoidance?


What identity am I still tied to that no longer reflects who I am becoming?





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