Dateology Coach Podcast

The best way to know if you're dating a narcissist is to express a boundary. Their reaction will tell you everything you need to know. Listen as we analyze a letter from a woman who needs help determining if the man she's dating is a walk red flag.

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Speaking of the worst ex ever...

If you listened to the show a few weeks ago, you remember the vile message a listener received from a man she rejected. She sent us the complete message string. We provide a dramatic reading of this rage machine's responses and analyze how he manipulates and insults her under the guise of wanting to reconnect.

This guy is so despicable that I googled his social media. When I tell you that "mid" would be a compliment, I'm not exaggerating.

We also discuss Netflix's new series, "Worst Ex Ever."  This week, we cover one of the four terrifying episodes and will review the other three in a bonus episode to be posted at the end of next week.

Note: After the recording of this episode, Leila's dementia took a terrible turn, and her owners decided to put her down. She crossed The Rainbow Bridge on Wednesday morning.

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In previous episodes, I've discussed my fascination with analyzing writing. Those who've been around for a while know I was involved with exposing a man whose marketing agency fabricated dozens of fake female personas. Many of these phantom authors went viral for their manufactured personal memoir pieces.

I want to create a segment for the show where Sarah and I analyze messages, posts, and profiles to help listeners learn to spot signs of catfishing and deception and avoid potentially dangerous situations/people.

I'm looking for anything—social media/dating app profiles, messages, social media posts, voice notes—that we can analyze on the show. Nothing submitted will be posted without permission.  Please send them to [email protected] and put "forensics" in the subject line.

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A man on TikTok had a disturbing reaction to a recent video of mine where I expressed that men in women's spaces are usually predatory and exploit women's trauma.

How-to-get-your-ex-back coaches are a booming niche in the coaching industry. Is this kind of support more hurtful than helpful?

A woman finds out her fiancee's female friend has been trying to sabotage their wedding.

Are you sick of falling into situationships? We've created must-ask questions that will let you know if your date is a time-waster.

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Topics discussed:

From the "This Fucking Guy" file: ⁠Her husband wants a divorce because another woman flirted with him (12:05)⁠

⁠Gaslighting 101 - He gave his woman bestie lingerie (31:15)⁠

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When will men learn they can no longer threaten women with their absence?

A listener asks why men ignore certain boundaries, like when women say they aren't looking for a casual relationship.

The ridiculous discourse around "mixed weight" couples (33:54) Where have all the Real Women gone? (43:49)

Where have all the Real Women gone? (43:49)

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It's been almost two weeks since I told my Ex I missed him and still haven't received a response. I'm officially angry. Fuck that guy for making me cry.

We received a thoughtful and insightful letter from a listener regarding our old friend Alpha Dom Dating Coach. It inspired a discussion about which celebrities embody the term and why.

A viral Tiktok outing a cheater shines a light on the selfish motivation behind publicly exposing a woman's sleazy boyfriend/husband via social media.

Red flag alert!

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In This Episode:

Be a Clown (00:27)

It's been an agonizing three days since I confessed to my Ex that I miss him. The lack of response is making me question my decision and feel utterly foolish.

Op-Ed author Zoe Strimpel felt compelled ⁠to word-vomit a piece⁠ about how Bridgerton's Nicola Coughlan isn't hot enough to attract a conventionally attractive man.

A woman wrote to columnist Carolyn Hax complaining about her spoiled boyfriend. Is he looking for a partner or a Mommy/Nanny/Sex Worker?

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Could you date someone who cheated on a previous partner? (01:42)

We revisit an exchange between Carrie and Big about his admission of infidelity in his first marriage. The scene spawned a conversation about whether we'd ask a new mate if they'd been unfaithful and how we'd handle it if they said yes.

How do you stop romanticising a failed relationship? (14:49)

A woman is having second thoughts after breaking up with her long-distance partner

How does she go about dating women after years of dating men? (23:57)

A listener seeks advice about navigating the dating scene as a woman looking to date women.

Ugh. This tired conversation about men being turned off and intimidated by self-sufficient women.

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Maybe Don't Try To Date When You're Married (03:42)

I posted the full letter here.  It's...a lot. Feel free to leave your thoughts.

Ask Dateology Coach - Green Card Marriage Confusion (12:29)

Predictors of Long-Term Singlehood (23:23)

An article in Psychology Today examines a study regarding long-term singlehood and which personality traits are most likely to contribute to this outcome.

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