October 18, 2022

Different Frameworks & Filters Impact Appreciation, Repairs, and Empathy--Catherine Pfunter

55 minutes

Catherine Pfuntner is a certified AANE therapist, a licensed therapist in Hawaii, Massachusetts and New Hampshire and a coach. During this episode Catherine shares the importance of both partners understanding they are "different" not "better" then each other. In addition, we address so many other important issues that can help "build trust and connection" or lead to "misunderstanding" including:

What communicates contempt--even when that isn't the intent?

Antidotes for contempt.

When partners think the other is too logical or emotional.

How to create a culture of appreciation and how each partner may feel about appreciation.

Different ways that each partner may show empathy.

Emotional differences.

The importance of understanding frameworks!!!

Why your partner may view compliments through a "suspicious lens".

How different filters can change the way things are perceived and how perspective impacts SO much!

What "the aftermath of a regrettable incident" is and why repair is so important.

Trigger management is an individual responsibility!

The importance of understanding and appreciating "approximation".

Making "positive" requests for changes.

To contact Catherine you can reach her at 978-674-8539 or at: www.couplestherapyinc.com

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