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Do Our Friendships Have to Be This Complicated?


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Have female friendships become more complicated than they need to be? Amy and Margaret dig into the dynamics of their own female-female friendships and what the research says: why some friendships last decades, why others drift apart, and why friendship “breakup texts” have become a thing.

In this episode you'll learn:

  • Why women expect more intimacy and reciprocity from friends than men do

  • Why conflict styles play a big role in how friendships evolve

  • The six categories of friendship that women and men look for, but with different priorities

  • How to reconnect with old friends (without the awkwardness)

  • Why it’s okay for different friends to meet different needs

    Here are links to some of the resources mentioned in this episode:

    • Olga Khazan for The Atlantic: Why Do We Break Up With Friends?
    • Emine Saner for The Guardian: Drifting away from your friends? Here are 10 questions to bring you closer
    • Heather Havrilesky for The Cut: Why Do My Friendships Always Fade Away?
    • Lilly Dancyger for Elle Magazine: We Need to Talk About Our Ex-Best Friends
    • Fresh Take: Kat Vellos On Friendship and Connection
    • Leigh E. Elkin and Christopher Peterson for Sex Roles Journal: Gender Differences in Best Friendships
    • Dr. Jeffrey Hall et. al for The Journal of Personal and Social Relationships: Friendship standards: The dimensions of ideal expectations
    • Michelle Ellman: BAD FRIEND
    • Fresh Take: Norah Lally

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