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In this heartwarming episode, we sit down with Lynn to discuss her journey through donor egg IVF, her anxieties before becoming a mom, and how those fears melted away once her son arrived. Lynn shares the surprising and beautiful reality of how strong her bond is with her son and how genetics never even crossed her mind once he was born.

Lynn offers reassurance to anyone currently navigating the donor egg path, reminding us that the love you’ll feel for your child far outweighs any initial doubts. From navigating family questions about "who the baby looks like" to opening up about her child's conception story, Lynn shows us the power of owning and celebrating your unique path to motherhood.

We also dive into how she talks to her son about his conception, why being honest is key, and how she’s handling the possibility of future connections with donor siblings. Lynn’s story is a beacon of hope for any woman still in the thick of the journey, offering a glimpse of the peace, pride, and overwhelming love that lies on the other side.

Key Takeaways:

• Genetics don’t define your bond with your child.
• Letting go of fears about the future can lead to unexpected joy.
• Being open about your donor conception story takes practice but can be incredibly healing.
• Children are more receptive to their conception story than you think—start the conversation early and keep it ongoing.

If you’re on the donor egg journey and looking for guidance, emotional support, or someone who truly understands, consider booking a 1:1 session with me.

Together, we can navigate the complexities of your unique path to parenthood. 

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 In this episode, host Adele interviews Dr. Daniel Potter, a leading reproductive endocrinologist from HRC Fertility in Newport Beach, California, and a specialist at DonorNexus. Together, they explore the emotional and medical aspects of donor egg IVF, offering hope and guidance to those embarking on this unique journey. Dr. Potter shares insights on the challenges of delivering the news that donor egg IVF is the best option for some couples, the common emotions couples experience, and the importance of providing patients with the truth and viable options.

Adele and Dr. Potter discuss the complexities of autoimmune issues in fertility, recurrent pregnancy loss, and how treatment approaches can help overcome these hurdles. They also delve into the emotional journey of accepting donor eggs and how the donor egg IVF process can ultimately bring joy, even after a long road of infertility struggles. Whether you're new to the donor egg journey or seeking reassurance, this episode offers a wealth of information and compassion.

Key Takeaways:

• The donor egg IVF journey is often a turning point for couples, evoking a range of emotions from shock and disbelief to relief and hope.
• Dr. Potter emphasizes the importance of truth and honesty in guiding patients through their fertility options.
• Exploring donor egg agencies and hearing others’ stories can humanize the process and alleviate fears.
• Autoimmunity can complicate pregnancy even with donor eggs, but there are treatment options to address this issue.
• The joy of holding your baby far outweighs any fears or concerns about using donor eggs, with the bond between parent and child remaining strong and profound.

Resources Mentioned:

• Dr. Daniel Potter at HRC Fertility
• DonorNexus Egg Donation Agency
• Emotional support on the donor egg IVF journey
• Seeds Ethics - Ethical Standards for Egg Donation

You can connect with Dr Daniel Potter via instagram @danielpotter

Tune in for expert advice, compassion, and real-life stories that will inspire you to keep moving forward on your path to parenthood!

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 In this episode, we sit down with Jazmine Corona, a dedicated IP Case Manager at Donor Nexus, a boutique egg and embryo donation agency based in California. Jazmine shares her unique journey from being an egg donor herself to guiding intended parents through the emotional and practical aspects of selecting a donor.

Jazmine discusses the motivations behind her decision to become an egg donor, the physical and emotional experiences she encountered during her donations, and how these experiences have shaped her approach to supporting intended parents. She also offers invaluable advice on balancing the emotional and financial aspects of choosing a donor, the importance of communication, and how to navigate the challenges that can arise during the donor egg journey.

Whether you are considering egg donation, currently navigating the donor egg process, or simply interested in the complexities of fertility journeys, Jazmine’s insights provide a compassionate and informative perspective on this life-changing experience.

Key Topics Discussed:

• Jazmine's personal journey as an egg donor and what inspired her to help others in their fertility journeys.
• The role of an intended parent case manager and the day-to-day responsibilities involved.
• Common concerns and fears faced by intended parents when starting their donor egg journey.
• The process of selecting a donor and how to navigate the emotional and practical aspects.
• Success stories and challenges in working with intended parents.
• Jazmine’s thoughts on her future family and how her work in fertility has influenced her own hopes and dreams.

Learn more at donornexus.com

You can follow Donor Nexus on instagram @donor.nexus

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In this episode of the Donor Egg Mama Podcast, Adele is joined by Amity Herrera, founder of Plum Egg Donor Agency, to discuss her extensive experience in the field of infertility and third-party reproduction. Key points include:

Key Learnings:

Empowerment Through Education: Understanding the importance of breaking the stigma around egg donation and encouraging young women to consider preserving their fertility.

Personal and Professional Insight: Gaining from Amity Herrera's unique perspective as both a professional in infertility and a parent through egg donation.

Support and Reliability: Recognizing the thorough screening and psychological evaluation process for egg donors to ensure reliability and responsibility.

Transparency and Future Considerations: Learning about the significance of open donations and the sibling registry for the well-being of donor-conceived children.

Comparing Options: Evaluating the differences between personalized agency services and egg banks, and understanding the potential implications of political changes on these options.

Connect with Plum Egg Donor Agency
instagram: @plum_egg_donors
Learn more about their mission and services.
Follow Nancy Rodriguez’s journey and upcoming events.

You can also connect with Amity Herrara via Red Rock Fertility Center.
Here is an article written by Amity - 5 Myths about egg donation debunked. 

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In this episode I get to talk to one of my Podcast Listeners from the UK, Lisa from Dorset.

You will learn:
- About her decision to use donor eggs: Lisa moves to a Czech clinic to avoid local donor complications, highlighting her thought process behind selecting anonymous donors abroad.
- Emotional challenges and support: Lisa discusses overcoming emotional hurdles, including genetic loss and the fear of child resentment, and emphasizes the importance of support networks like the Donor Conception Network UK

If you would also like to share your story please get in touch here

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In this episode, we delve into the critical considerations for selecting an egg donor and understanding genetics. 

Reflecting on my own journey, I share practical advice and offer reframes on common fears about donor selection and genetic traits. 

The conversation also covers the influence of epigenetics and the impact of the intended parent's environment on the baby's development.

Key Learnings:

• Genetics Uncertainty: Understanding that genetics are unpredictable and choosing a donor with similar traits doesn't guarantee your child will resemble you.
• Epigenetics Impact: The unique chemistry of the intended parent carrying the child plays a significant role in the baby's development.
• Child-Centered Approach: Emphasizing the importance of selecting a donor with young age and good health, and considering the benefits of an open ID or known donor.

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In this episode Adele explores considerations around choosing a known egg donor.

This is a wonderful option and gold standard for child centred donor conception.

There are also lots of considerations:

• What Relationship Do You Want to Have with Your Donor?
• What Kind of Input Do You Want Your Donor to Have on Your Child's Life and Upbringing?
• Has Your Donor Finished Creating Her Own Family?
  
  There is also lots of great advice on the donor conception networks world-wide on this subject. 

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In this short solo episode Adele O'Connor proud donor egg mama and fertilty coach, discusses the best strategies for introducing donor egg children to their origin story. This episode was inspired by a question from her community: Once you have a child conceived via donor egg, how do you actually introduce this to them? My donor was anonymous and I have only very basic information about my donor. I don’t want my children to resent me.

You will learn:

• Addressing the fear of potential resentment from donor egg children due to the use of an anonymous donor.
• Providing resources and practical advice for making the conversation natural and age-appropriate.

Key Points:

• Start Early and Be Honest: Introduce your child’s story from a young age to normalize their unique origin.
• Use Resources: Utilize storybooks and professional support to help explain the concept in a child-friendly manner.
• Focus on Love and Openness: Emphasize love, validate their emotions, don't make it about you. 
• Create an open environment for questions and emotions.
• Remember this is not just a one off conversation but an evolving dialogues that continues as your child grows and moves through each stage of development.
• Highlight the importance of integrating the story into family traditions and seeking professional support if needed.
• Encouragement to connect with other donor-conceived families for support and shared experiences.

Additional Resources:

Mentioned books: "The Pea That Was Me" by Kimberly Kluger-Bell, "The Search for the Magical Egg" by Becky Morrison, "The Journey to You" by Natalie Hart, the amazing series of books called My Donor Story By Sharon Le

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Welcome to the Donor Egg Mama podcast! In today's episode, we continue our "Back to Basics" series, providing an in-depth overview of key considerations on the donor egg pathway. As your guide, I've supported many women through this journey, from initial overwhelm to the joy of holding their babies. 

We'll cover essential emotional, medical, and social aspects to help you navigate this path with confidence and support.

What You Will Learn:

• Psychological Considerations: The role of psychological evaluations in the donor egg process and how to use these appointments to ask important questions about raising a donor-conceived child.
• Open Disclosure: The importance of being open about your child's donor conception from birth and strategies for talking to your child about their origins.
• Addressing Genetic Grief: Handling feelings of loss related to not having a genetic connection with your child and finding ways to process these emotions.
• Privacy vs. Secrecy: Understanding the difference between privacy and secrecy in sharing your child's donor conception story and deciding who to tell.
• Creating a Storybook: The value of documenting your donor egg journey to create a storybook for your future child, helping them understand their origin and your journey.

Helpful links: Three Makes Baby Jana Rupnow

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This episode marks the first of a new series of back to basics understanding of  Donor Egg IVF, so far on this podcast we've delved very deeply into many topics.  Now it's time to step you through each step of the process.

In this episode,  I provide you with an overview into the emotional and medical steps involved in embarking on a donor egg IVF journey. From processing your emotions to understanding the medical procedures, I share insights and practical advice to help you navigate this transformative experience.

Click here If you are interested in finding out more about the donor egg pathway membership.

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