Self-Conscious with Chrissy Teigen

Dr. Gabor Mate: Your Pain Is a Normal Response To An Abnormal World


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Chrissy sits down with Dr. Gabor Maté to discuss his groundbreaking work, The Myth of Normal, exploring how our culture of hustle, disconnection, and suppressed emotions creates trauma and illness. Together, they discuss why addiction, shame, and mental health struggles are not personal failings but natural responses to abnormal circumstances—and how healing begins with authenticity, compassion, and awareness.

 

Five Key Takeaways:

  • The “Myth of Normal”: Many things we consider normal in society—like emotional suppression or constant productivity—are actually unhealthy, while behaviors we label “abnormal” (like addiction) are often natural responses to pain.
  • Trauma Defined: Trauma isn’t just the event itself but the unhealed wound and the inner changes it causes, shaping how we see ourselves and the world.
  • Addiction as Coping: Addiction should be understood not as an identity but as a coping strategy—a way to soothe or escape unbearable emotional pain.
  • The Five A’s of Healing: Authenticity, Agency, Anger (healthy boundaries), Acceptance, and Awareness are essential pillars of recovery and self-healing.
  • Compassion Over Shame: Healing requires learning to extend the compassion we freely offer others to ourselves, breaking cycles of self-judgment rooted in childhood wounds.

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