Dr. Judy WT"Freud"

Immerse yourself in the Mind Map panels 1-9. “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect” Order Dr. Judy's book on Amazon:  http://bit.ly/1OHJu3H   Dr Judy WTF (What the Freud) broadcasts every  Thursday at 8:00 PM Pacific Time in the USA.  You can see us live at  www.UBNradio.com  on Channel 2. It is a call in show.  Get on the Couch with your Emotional Ouch USA – 323-843-2826  or Internationally – SKYPE – UBNradio2 You can find Our Podcasts on:  iHeartRadio, iTunes, Stitcher, & Speaker and TuneIn   Get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy and speak with Dr. Judy personally. Visit our website for more details at  www.DrJudyWTF.com   What makes a person emotionally unavailable? From a Mind Map perspective, childhood wounds of neglect or abuse create bad blueprints that communicate to the child and later adult that relationships are not safe on some level. Better to close off and not get too close...   For those who are either emotionally unavailable or are with someone who is emotionally unavailable it is a good idea to self-reflect and self-correct on behaviors that push away others and create human disconnect on the one hand, or demand too much, creating a smothering effect.   It is painful when one wants more closeness and the other more distance. A good predictor of relationship satisfaction is space requirements. They can be negotiated, but if one wants "too much" space and the other is either too needy or simply wants to connect, this may not be a match made in heaven.   We Shrunk That Tune “Right Here Waiting"  by Richard Marx

Immerse yourself in the Mind Map panels 1-9. “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect” Order Dr. Judy's book on Amazon:  http://bit.ly/1OHJu3H   Dr Judy WTF (What the Freud) broadcasts every  Thursday at 8:00 PM Pacific Time in the USA.  You can see us live at  www.UBNradio.com  on Channel 2. It is a call in show.  Get on the Couch with your Emotional Ouch USA – 323-843-2826  or Internationally – SKYPE – UBNradio2 You can find Our Podcasts on:  iHeartRadio, iTunes, Stitcher, & Speaker and TuneIn   Get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy and speak with Dr. Judy personally. Visit our website for more details at  www.DrJudyWTF.com   Signs that you are emotionally unavailable include engaging in defense mechanisms that are clearly disconnecting:  Being on the cell phone when you are on a date or in a conversation, getting high and being emotionally unavailable because you are in an altered state, lacking empathy for the needs of others, are just some signs of emotional unavailability.   Today we discussed that the root cause of emotional unavailability is rooted in childhood wounds and family systems gone wrong. When we are hurt we tend to shut down and withdraw because we associate people and relationships with pain.   Thanks to those of you who called in and shared their "disconnects."   We Shrunk That Tune - "I Can't Make You Love Me" By -  Adele

Immerse yourself in the Mind Map panels 1-9. “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect” Order Dr. Judy's book on Amazon:  http://bit.ly/1OHJu3H   Dr Judy WTF (What the Freud) broadcasts every  Thursday at 8:00 PM Pacific Time in the USA.  You can see us live at  www.UBNradio.com  on Channel 2. It is a call in show.  Get on the Couch with your Emotional Ouch USA – 323-843-2826  or Internationally – SKYPE – UBNradio2 You can find Our Podcasts on:  iHeartRadio, iTunes, Stitcher, & Speaker and TuneIn   Get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy and speak with Dr. Judy personally. Visit our website for more details at  www.DrJudyWTF.com   If you want to get somewhere (and it doesn't have to be over the rainbow), it is best to seek a path that can take you there. The Wizard Of Oz, by Frank L. Baum is part of the inspiration behind the Be The Cause System and Mind Map for Healing Human Disconnect.   Dorothy, a metaphor for the person taking the journey to self-discovery, Travels FROM her wounds of childhood  --  she is an orphan, THROUGH the courageous and chaotic yellow brick road to self-discovery, TO the realization and TRUTH that the Great and Wonderful Wizard of OZ carries no answers and only illusions.    It is only through clearing up her cracked lens of perception and her illusory belief that the Great and Powerful Wizard (metaphor for parents) l has the power, that she can begin to see the TRUTH.   Through TRUTH, as represented by Toto, the TRUTH DOG, we can all paradigm shift out of our illusions and negative core beliefs into being the CAUSE of better outcomes for our lives and actualize those dreams that we dare to dream.   Be The Cause Healing Human Disconnect is a journey FROM our past childhood wounds, THROUGH the dismantling of the chaos of today TO courageously facing the lies and misperceptions that cloud our psycho-perception in order to paradigm shift into healing and wholeness.   We Shrunk That Tune. “Over The Rainbow”, Sung by Judy Garland

Show info: http://ubnradio.com/shows/dr-judy-wtf/   Immerse yourself in the Mind Map panels 1-9. “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect” Order Dr. Judy's book on Amazon:  http://bit.ly/1OHJu3H   Dr Judy WTF (What the Freud) broadcasts every  Thursday at 8:00 PM Pacific Time in the USA.  You can see us live at  www.UBNradio.com  on Channel 2. It is a call in show.  Get on the Couch with your Emotional Ouch USA – 323-843-2826  or Internationally – SKYPE – UBNradio2 You can find Our Podcasts on:  iHeartRadio, iTunes, Stitcher, & Speaker and TuneIn   Get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy and speak with Dr. Judy personally. Visit our website for more details at  www.DrJudyWTF.com       We Shrunk That Tune – “Free For All” By Ted Nugent

Show info: http://ubnradio.com/shows/dr-judy-wtf/   Battered emotionally? Disconnect with friends, families, and relationships?   Dr Judy WTF (What the Freud) broadcasts every  Thursday at 8:00 PM Pacific Time in the USA.  You can see us live at  www.UBNradio.com  on Channel 2. It is a call in show.  Get on the Couch with your Emotional Ouch USA – 323-843-2826  or Internationally – SKYPE – UBNradio2 You can find Our Podcasts on:  iHeartRadio, iTunes, Stitcher, & Speaker and TuneIn   Get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy and speak with Dr. Judy personally. Visit our website for more details at  www.DrJudyWTF.com   Flying monkeys are family, friends, co-workers, etc. who do the bidding for the narcissist who wants to demean devalue and destroy a particular individual.   Think of flying monkeys as the PR team promoting the agenda of the narcissist.  For those who suffer at the hands of this horrible "system gone wrong" they feel a deep sense of betrayal. Flying monkeys seem to know that their bread is buttered on the side of pleasing the narcissist and will throw others under the bus to remain on the side of "favorite."   Thank you ALL for calling in and sharing your flying monkey experiences.   We Shrink That Tune -  "Back Stabbers" by The O'Jays Lyrics

Show info:  http://ubnradio.com/shows/dr-judy-wtf/   Immerse yourself in the Mind Map panels 1-9. “Be The Cause: Healing Human Disconnect” Order Dr. Judy's book on Amazon:  http://bit.ly/1OHJu3H   Dr Judy WTF (What the Freud) broadcasts every  Thursday at 8:00 PM Pacific Time in the USA.  You can see us live at  www.UBNradio.com  on Channel 2. It is a call in show.  Get on the Couch with your Emotional Ouch USA – 323-843-2826  or Internationally – SKYPE – UBNradio2 You can find Our Podcasts on:  iHeartRadio, iTunes, Stitcher, & Speaker and TuneIn   Get a FREE consultation with Dr. Judy and speak with Dr. Judy personally. Visit our website for more details at  www.DrJudyWTF.com   Thank you everyone for calling in.  Clearly there are a lot of highly sensitive people out there.  Some signs that you are an HSP: skin sensitivity, over sensitive to heat, to food, and to toxic people -- not a bad idea to be sensitive to them! HSP also tend to be more creative and more empathic so you have to watch out for over pleasing people and being used by people who don't give back. HSP’s can also be easily overwhelmed AND Overstimulated.    Sometimes the sensitivity is apparent in the work situation where there is a lot of tension and rivalry.  It is best to set boundaries clearly and know your limits.  If you need to adjust your environment because you're not doing well, feel free to do so.    We Shrunk That Tune  "You Oughta Know"  by  Alanis Morissette